by Markus Langemann //
Trying to publish responsibly, prudently, clearly and humbly rather than demagogically these days is not only challenging, but also very often touching, which is yet another challenge. It is the very personal letters, the descriptions of the inner views of a now divided community, friendship, group, society.
It is the readers struggling for words who find it difficult to write the incomprehensible. People feel encircled in their living spaces, surrounded by zombies consumed by fear and aggression, as it seems to them, whom they once loved for their kindness and empathy for their entire lives and whom they held dear under the Christmas tree 365 days ago.
Family. Friends. Neighbors. Colleagues. They were.
The level of suffering rises and with it the blood pressure. The wall comes back into the country.
No, this time there are many walls. Around hearts, around brains, through beds. The few intellectual wrecking balls seem to be stuck in supply chains or are already muddy themselves.
I am publishing here a short letter from hundreds of letters. It may be a mirror of the times, a source of comfort and an alarm clock. It may also serve as a warning and one day be laid in the graves of the professional dividers in politics and the media.
Take the opportunity to comment, it comforts Ms. Schmitz as well as thousands of readers.
Let us participate courageously. May this reconcile you, heal you or even empower you to take action.
"For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them." (Matthew 18:20)
Yours
Markus Langemann
November 19, 2021
Dear Mr. Langemann,
I've wanted to write to you for a long time, but I've always put it off, but now I've lost my temper!
Do you want to know what it's like to live with an 81-year-old spouse (I'm 64, not vaccinated) who is fully compliant with the government, goes along with "vaccination" to the hilt because that's the way out of the pandemic, thinks G2 or, if need be, G1 is right, blames me when people who know I'm not vaccinated turn their backs on us? does not read any printed material, books or similar that I present to him to give him a different perspective on things, categorically refuses to read anything other than the FAZ or Der Spiegel, follows the news on ARD, ZDF and ntv at least eight to ten times a day, also strictly rejects Rubikon, Tichys Einblick or other magazines and, and, and, and...
The list could go on and on, but I'll stop here. My nerves are more than frayed.
Do you know, can you guess what thoughts come to mind? Our partnership/marriage has now lasted almost 30 years and in the middle of last year I swore to myself that C couldn't break us up - and what thoughts do I have today???
Dear Mr. Langemann, I really appreciate your work, I am of course a subscriber and of course I pay into the coffee fund, of course. I would have liked to know if you receive any more posts like mine, perhaps I can find some "fellow sufferers" to hear how they are coping with all this.
I send you my warmest greetings and wish you all the best!
Bettina Schmitz
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332 Responses
Dear Mrs. Schmitz
I can understand all too well how you feel right now.
Stand firm and never give up. We are many.
The biggest lie of all time will soon blow up in the face of the masterminds, and everyone who actively participated in it will receive their just punishment. It's called karma :-)
A lie must be constantly supported, which does not work forever. The truth stands on its own.
Dear fellow human beings, I was and still am touched by all your letters! I can't answer every single one of them, and I haven't read them all yet. But rest assured, your comments are so valuable - for me and also (I can certainly say this, even though I don't know you all) for everyone who has spoken up here! We can't believe what is happening in our daily lives right now.
I am currently learning VERY, VERY much (not least through your numerous reports) about how I can protect myself from attacks, from emotional attacks. And how I can keep the peace at home, remain steadfast and true to myself without giving up on myself and my partner. Of course, it's not easy, but it gets better in very small steps. And I can feel that the strength of all of us is becoming more visible every day.
Many thanks to all of you and to Mr. Langemann and his team for allowing us to exchange ideas here! Best wishes for the festive season and the New Year! Your Bettina Schmitz.
For me, the vaccinated people are the result of systematic scaremongering over the last two years. These are probably also the people who have always handed over responsibility for their health to their doctor's surgery. I don't do that and have been living accordingly for a long time. Even at the age of 83, I don't need to take any medication, I haven't traveled to any country for which I would have had to be vaccinated and I'm therefore not prepared to get into an uncertain state of permanent vaccination, which our very, very good constitution has prevented so far. If, according to political will, i.e. by law, health should be given more priority than human freedom and dignity, then goodbye democracy. Then, with every new virus, we will be able to be governed undemocratically by means of fear, as is already the case.
ps Schriftzug an einem Laden auf Usedom: Kauft nicht bei Ungeimpften, was mich fatal an „Kauft nicht bei Juden“ erinnert.
Übrigens, das Wort „Ungeimpfte“ gibt es im Wortschatz meines PC nicht.
The British writer Ian Watson once said:
"If you have to be persuaded, exhorted, pressured, lied to, incentivized, coerced, bullied, exposed, accused, threatened, punished and criminalized... If all of this is deemed necessary to gain your consent - you can be absolutely certain that what is being touted is not for your own good."
A rogue who thinks evil ...
These are exactly the concerns I have had for some time.
Dear Mr. Langemann,
als Psychotherapeut hatte ich spontan auf den Hilferuf von Frau Schmitz einen Brief geschrieben – den ich aus Zeitgründen erst jetzt fertig schreiben konnte. Bin im Alter des Mannes von Frau Schmitz, also ein „Oldie“, der jedoch nicht nur FAZ und Spiegel liest……….. Wollte mit m e i n e r Sicht der Dinge ein Trost formulieren; als Autor des Buches „Der Mensch im neuen Jahrtausend, Mittel oder Mittelpunkt?“ fühlte ich mich dazu aufgerufen.
Now this consolation has become 5 pages long and probably doesn't fit into this little box.
If you are interested, please send me an e-mail address so that I can send it to you.
Kind regards
Klaus Deichmann
Dear Bettina Schmitz, dear writers, dear readers,
auch ich kann nachvollziehen, wie schwierig es sich für Sie anfühlt. Es braucht schon viel Respekt, sich so zu nehmen wie man ist, auch wenn sich „von außen“ etwas ändert – doch gegenseitigen Respekt.
I am grateful to find a community here. The current situation is extremely difficult for me, I have no comparison in my own life, which is still relatively young. As a single parent with a small child, I now have to comply with the daily obligation to obtain an official test certificate. And then always having to show the result at the main location before the rest of the journey to work. Due to a lack of appointments, we usually waited for an hour at testing stations from Sunday to Thursday, sometimes even an hour - just before the test, then another 15 to 20 minutes until the result. It has completely disrupted our everyday lives, we are extremely cramped, there is a constant lack of time in every corner of the household, for tax returns and private family bureaucracy, for playgrounds, playmates, visits to the forest, sometimes a board game, my friends and contacts. The Christmas anticipation doesn't even come up, there wasn't even time to decorate and light candles. Not only is it a real organizational problem, but all the unfair unlawful things are making it very difficult for me to sleep, I'm overworked and extremely tense. It hurts so much, I'm very sad and angry. Because of my probationary period, I don't (yet) dare to say the right words to my employer and I don't (yet) dare to ask for a reduction in hours. We work together and I'm very, very, very happy about that, but the guidelines are very tight. You actually have to pay attention to social hardship, but my probationary period prevents me from making any claims. And I've lost perspective in view of the politics and lack of jurisdiction. In my family, the older generations don't understand what I'm talking about in not wanting to be vaccinated, and it's been pointless to talk about it for a long time, unfortunately there's a lack of willingness for real exchange.
But among the vast majority of people of various ages, if I manage to meet any at all, there is no exclusion towards me. I now only know a handful of unvaccinated people. Overall, a lot of people are against splitting, lockdown and compulsory vaccination. A few publications from the field, including this one, give some hope:
https://www.neuhaus-am-rennweg.de/
I look forward to your feedback. Kind regards Anna
Dear Anna,
I was already thinking about single moms last spring. 20 years ago, I felt like a hero just because I had managed (in Bavaria ;-)) to ensure that my daughter didn't have to sit in religious education classes. Ethics wasn't always an option in the countryside back then.
But that is nothing compared to what they have to achieve, endure and resist today, if they can.
I hope and wish that you can find like-minded people in your area and strengthen each other!
Kind regards
Kerstin
Dear Anna,
I'm sure I can't understand every detail of the stress you're under at the moment, but that's about it. I would like to tell you that there is help. There are also older people (like me) who like to have a job and can certainly help you with one thing or another. Many have their own family or friends against them and also need help in the form of contact. Make an appeal online or look around at the demos, you will find like-minded people there who may be able to help you. It's so easy to make contact there. Don't give up, times are changing - hopefully soon
Dear letter writer & dear commentators :-),
I am full of joy - what I read here is really pure madness. Yes, that may sound paradoxical to some, lacking in empathy - on the contrary, I am delighted by the truth and honesty and openness and clarity that I read here. So many people and lives, my sympathy and my respect.
„Inneres Neuland“ wurde in anderen Kommentaren als förderliche Metapher und Einladung geschrieben und von anderen angenommen. Ich sehe hier Neuland im Außen! Und das beglückt mich, auch des Geistes Kraft, die ich durch die Zeilen an Energie und Veränderung spüren kann. Ich wachse derzeit – auch ohne Impfung, dafür mit Empfang – 🙂 für die vielen Ebenen und auch geistigen Spähren. Ich werde gerade geboostert mit Hellsinnigkeit bzw. nimmt in den letzten Tagen schon seit Jahren Erfahrenes an Neuem nun wieder explosionsartig zu, weitet sich, dehnt sich aus – während ich mich innerlich tiefer entspanne, durch Ängste und Trauer und Sprachlosigkeit… hindurchfühlend. Neuland im Außen – für mich nur eben auch mehrdimensional – in meinem Erleben. … So vieles wunderbares hier geschrieben, tief bewegend, menschlich, die Polarität beschreibende Wirkung universeller Gesetze in den Geschichten & Erlebnissen rund um CoP, finde ich und bin angeregt meine Entwicklung für das Gemeinwohl, liebevolle Verbindung und Freiheit weiter zuzulassen.
Eine Bitte noch, da ich im Leben und auch als Transformations- und systemischer Coach sehr mit den Ahnenfeldern verbunden bin: Die Ahnen, die einst für Freiheit kämpften – sich einsetzten für solidarische Rechte, Gleichwertigkeiten… – traten vor wenigen Wochen in mein Blickfeld (ohne bewusste /willentliche Kontaktaufnahme) und ich hörte sie sagen, „unsere Nachfahren können uns nicht hören“. Zunächst habe ich nicht verstanden, was sie meinten, was ich nun tun könnte, ihr Anliegen ist… Ihr seid, wir sind verbunden, die wohlwollenden Kräfte der Ahnenfelder stehen als energetische Kraft zur Verfügung. Ein Speicher und Kraft-Reservoir für jeden von Ihnen / euch, besonders die scheinbaren „Einzelgänger“, „Alleinkämpfenden“, Ausgegrenzten…, damit ihr / Sie den Weg der Freiheit verbunden mit den Ahnen gestärkt(er) gehen könnt. So viele Unterstützungskräfte „da draußen“ ;-). Auch wenn sich im Außen Trennungen zeigen, können diese auch Tore zu Verbindungen zu anderen Ebenen sein (umfasst möglicherweise auch das besagte „Innere Neuland“). Seitdem ich die Ahnen in mein Leben integrier(t)e, finden Menschen mit entsprechenden Themen zu mir und ich fühle mich sicher(er) im Außen, paradox… Die kosmischen Gesetzmäßigkeiten wirken wirklich, nachhaltig und ganzheitlich!
Danke für euer Sein und Teilen des gegenwärtig Erlebten und mein tiefes Mitgefühl, besonders für diejenigen, durch die Maßnahmen gesundheitliche Schäden erlitten. Gesegnet sei der Weg der Heilung! Namaste, ihr starken Seelen, Leuchttürme im Sturm. Getreu nach Pippi Langstrumpf, „der Sturm wird stärker und ich auch!“ Herzliche Grüße, Susanne Reh
Dear Susanne Reh, yes, it will!!!!!! We become kinder, more human, more dignified, more recognizing, more true to ourselves, stronger and healthier. I want to pass an illness, if I should get it, it will tell me that I have lived against my life in some way and that I should readjust myself. I want to wake up to this and not miss the moment of purification so that I can continue working in a more upright and clearer way. At least that's how it's been so far and it will stay that way. Thank you for the letter of encouragement!!!
Sincerely and stay true to yourself
Gerhard Helmers
Hello dear readers and commentators,
ich bin es mittlerweile leid zu argumentieren, diskutieren oder zu rechtfertigen. Die „Lager“ sind mittlerweile nicht mehr zu bekehren oder zu überzeugen und ehrlich gesagt ist es auch nicht meine Aufgabe.
Auch im Freunden- und Familienkreis versuche ich nun strikt die Diskussion zu ersticken in dem ich den Menschen / Freunden / Verwandten sage, dass Sie aufhören sollen Personen über Ihren Impfstatus zu definieren, die Menschen die mit dem Finger nach Amerika zeigen „Wie können die dunkelhäutige nur so behandelt“ tun damit genau das Gleiche. Überraschend habe ich festgestellt, es funktioniert.
Try to communicate with the person on a different level. Maybe it will help one or the other.
Best regards
Marcus
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Let me start by saying that you are not alone. And so that you can also experience it in practice, I recommend visiting so-called test centers. Not that you should get tested, no, not that. But: Imagine standing in a line with unvaccinated people who need a PCR test for their workplace, an authority, etc., where you will certainly get into conversation with like-minded people. In no time at all you have made new contacts. How do you think you will blossom and be unrecognizable?
I wish you the best a person could wish for: God's blessing.
Committed to my Lord Jesus
Helmut Rohrer
Rki- Wochenbericht zu „Impfdurchbrüchen“ der letzten 4 Wochen:
48% of symptomatic patients, 44% of hospitalized patients, 35% of Covid intensive care patients and 50% of deceased patients are fully vaccinated.
One may (and must) ask questions not only about postulated safety but also about effectiveness.
....ja that's right, I also saw it on the RKI website in the weekly report. Quite far down, though, where nobody looks anyway!
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I was very touched by your letter to Mr. Langemann. I am also 64, my husband 68 and we will soon have been married for 44 years. We are both convinced that we don't want to be vaccinated at the moment. My husband also sits in front of the TV a lot and follows the mainstream, but very critically. As I can't stand this scaremongering, I sit in the next room and do something else that interests me. We go shopping and for walks together and sometimes meet up with our friends. However, our circle of friends has been greatly reduced. We are currently avoiding those who only want to criticize us and proselytize. Our 2 grandchildren, who live in the same town (6 years and 2 months), visit us every day (even now in lockdown). 2 of our 4 adult children are vaccinated. It was their decision, we respect that, but expect them to accept our decision too. There are no major discussions about it and nothing has changed in our dealings with each other. My mother, 92 years old, has been vaccinated three times. This was initiated by my brother, who is very scared, almost panicky, about getting sick. I also have to accept this, as he looks after her a lot in other ways too. My husband's aunt, who is 92, doesn't want to be vaccinated either. She was admitted to hospital last year after a fall, tested positive there, had no symptoms but still had enough antibodies until two months ago.
What worries me most is the way we treat our young people and our children. They have no freedom and constantly have to prove that they are healthy. In Vienna, vaccinations are now given from the age of 5. And general compulsory vaccination has already been decided. But I know that no dictatorship lasts forever, and at some point this madness without meaning will come to an end.
I wish you, dear Ms. Schmitz and also Mr. Langemann and all the writers of letters to the editor here all the best, much strength and courage for your decisions.
Hello, another comment. Well, actually, I don't really know what else to say. Hasn't everything already been said a hundred times, a thousand times?
Trotzdem: es tut mir gut, mich öffentlich zu Worte zu melden. Und vielleicht hilft es ja auch anderen. Ich bin 82 Jahre alt, Rentnerin auf Harz 4 Niveau. Ich verfolge das alles genau von Anfang an. Und ich habe Angst. Nicht für mich, dazu bin ich zu alt, aber für meine Familie. Meine beiden Enkel ließen sich impfen, gezwungenermaßen. Der „Kleine“, 24 Jahre alt, sportlich und fit, bekam kurz nach der Impfe Herzschmerzen. Ein „Einzelfall“, logisch. In welcher Gesellschaft werden sie leben? Oder vielleicht nur überleben.
Hätte mir vor einem Jahr jemand gesagt, dass wir in kürzester Zeit in einer Diktatur leben werden, hätte ich gesagt: „Du spinnst ja wohl.“ Und dann muss ich feststellen, dass alles was die „Verschwörungstheoretiker“ vorausgesagt haben, tatsächlich, scheibchenweise, passiert. Bei jeder neuen „Maßnahme“ denke ich: „Das kann nicht sein, das können sie nicht machen.“ Und siehe da, sie können es machen, sobald es dem „Kosmetikrat“ gelungen ist, die Fassade schön zu gestalten.
What is left for me? Only one thing: to activate my own resources as best I can. At some point it will all come to an end. Let's see what remains then,
In the meantime, greetings to all those with whom I stand in solidarity, even if I don't know them personally. Karen Traudt
Dear Ms. Schmitz, dear everyone,
wie dankbar bin ich dafür, zu sehen, dass es gar nicht so wenige sind, die es doch wahrnehmen. Im März diesen Jahres sagte ich zu meinem Mann, wir sind wieder da, wo wir schon einmal waren und du wirst sehen, nachher hat es wieder keiner gemerkt. Meine Eltern, 84 & 93, sind von Grauen gepackt, mein Vater will nicht mehr vor die Tür: “ wer hätte geglaubt, dass man sowas zweimal im Leben erleben muss“ – sein Lebenswille wurde durch dieses Agitieren gebrochen. Meine Kinder (12 & 18), die sich Gott-weiß-was anhören müssen, weil sie nicht geimpft sind. Der Trost ist, zu lesen, dass man nicht allein ist, zu erfahren, dass die Lügen und Halbwahrheiten nicht gänzlich unentdeckt bleiben und dass es Medien wie Rubikon oder den Club der klaren Worte gibt, die so bereichernde und klare Worte finden. Bitte atmen Sie lieber einmal öfter tief durch und zählen bis zehn Frau Schmitz, bevor Sie sich entscheiden. Wer weiß, wie lange Sie Ihren Partner noch haben dürfen. Ich wünsche Ihnen und uns allen, dass wir weiter unseren offenen weiten Geist behalten, standhaft bleiben und dass wir gemeinsam ein Feld schaffen, dass der Wahrheit einen strahlenden Spiegel bildet. Alles Liebe und Gute an alle!
Dear all together,
who write here, read along, suffer along, get involved!
„Der Deutsche gleicht dem Sklaven, der seinem Herrn gehorcht ohne Fessel,
without a whip, by the mere word, even by a look.
The bondage is in himself, in his soul,
Spiritualized slavery is worse than material slavery.
Man muß die Deutschen von innen befreien, von außen hilft nichts.“
Heinrich Heine
Despite all the necessary descriptions and analyses, this stagnation remains if certain questions remain unanswered. Only the search for ways out and the resulting activities decide how long the undesirable conditions persist, which undoubtedly get worse and worse in retrospect.
What creates the problem excludes the elimination!
The only way to go beyond this is by bringing together the many forces that have long been sufficient. Winning a majority for change is impossible and has never been necessary. Think of the ever-growing and yet falling dominoes ... . The only question is in which direction will they fall and will there be anything of value left afterwards? Therefore, let us formulate our goals, the way there with our abilities together, in a unifying instead of dividing space!
Why it is called the Constituent Assembly lies in its nature as the highest, indeed the highest right of all, by people for people! https://www.verfassunggebende-versammlung.com
Diese „innere Befreiung“ wird nicht zuletzt eine zutiefst persönliche Angelegenheit eines jeden selbst sein. Ich kann ja auch niemanden von etwas überzeugen. Man kann den „Dominostein“ nur mit Gedanken anstoßen, überzeugen muß sich letztlich jeder selbst.
Love is long-suffering.
Hallo zusammen. Es ist genau so, wie Frau Schmitz und all die anderen Betroffenen es beschreiben. Meine erwachsenen Kinder haben sich, genau mit diesem Argument „wieder frei sein“, impfen lassen. Zu den grossen Enkelkindern habe ich kaum noch Kontakt, weil man mir als „Unbelehrbaren“ und „Sturen“ nicht trauen kann. Ich habe die letzten Tage (geimpfte) Freunde besucht, die tolerant sind mir gegenüber. Der im selben Haus wohnende Bruder, der bei bisherigen Besuchen immer kam, um Hallo zu sagen, hat sich auf keinen Fall sehen lassen solange ich da war….als er dann kam hat er, so wurde mir erzählt, erst Mal die Luft weg gewedelt, die ich evtl oder gar sicher vorher verseucht hatte. Manchmal kommts mir so vor als ob die Mauer durch Deutschland irgendwie durchlässiger war. Wir müssen stark und mutig bleiben.
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
you are not alone. I am quite young, 36 years old, father of 3 children, husband, Hanseat & self-employed engineer (design technology safely).
Unfortunately, I have also experienced the split in the family circle in a slightly different context (emigration because of C. & if the spouse does not go along).
Now I am emigrating NOW and am writing to you from Bulgaria (stopover).
I am sorry that you are experiencing such things, nobody would have thought it possible.
I packed the most important belongings of my family and my self-employment into an old Sprinter and set off.
This was not rushed, but prepared for more than 6 months.
Es fing an, als meine Frau viel über sogenannte „Verschwörungstheorien“ redete, zu beginn der Pandemie.
I was worried about her and watched what was said and what happened and lo and behold, some things actually happened.
Without further ado, I decided to put our long-standing wish to emigrate into practice, even though the destination country was still unknown.
It should be warm... So South America, maybe Paraguay or southern Europe?
Extensive research was carried out on the target countries, without the coronavirus angle, then the choice was made and off we went
I gave up my business and we flew to our destination country, lived there for 6 weeks and decided to live there for the time being, as dealing with C. was considered reasonable. My children were already going to school there. So I went back to do the last things, but the bureaucracy and uncooperative behavior kept me in Germany unplanned.
I also got to know others through the relevant groups, two pensioners who will soon be setting off on their unwanted retirement abroad.
I'm not alone, many Germans are emigrating right now. We organize ourselves abroad and meet up when we travel.
During my trip from Hamburg (Saturday) to Bulgaria (Monday), I had a lot of time to think.
I observed how Eastern Europe (Czech Republic, Hungary, Romania, Bulgaria) dealt with it, unfortunately only fleeting situations, but the interaction was always nice.
During the trip, I began to mourn for my home, my country, Germany, other family members who stayed there and the democracy in our country.
I will now be a guest in a foreign and poor country whose language I cannot yet speak.
I am afraid.
Nevertheless, I am not hopeless, I have chosen this path and will take it, now more than ever.
Mrs. Schmitz, I appeal to you & your husband, if I may:
Do you remember the love that unites them?
Love and marriage vows (for better or for worse...) ?
Perhaps the memories of common ground will bring cohesion and reason back into the situation.
In any case, the oath to democracy has become fragile.
I wish you much strength and health, you are not alone.
Best regards
Benedict - a C. Refugee of the FRG.
Hello Benedict,
Could you please tell us which country you have chosen.
I wanted to go to Paragua in early 2021, but I couldn't convince my wife, who thought I was a nutcase and tore up my emigration papers, which had been legalized by the embassy. That put an end to it for the time being. In the meantime, we have filed for divorce and I will emigrate alone to escape fascism.
However, Paraguay is now more difficult than ever, as immigration officers, embassies and others are overwhelmed and real estate is hard to find there.
I would be really happy if you could write which country of emigration you have found for yourself. here is my e-mail address: hs-solar@gmx.at
All the best to you and best wishes
Holger
Dear Ms. Schmitz, dear Mr. Langemann, dear commentators,
mit diesem Leserbrief / Artikel sprechen Sie offenkundig ein Thema an, was sehr viele Menschen bewegt. So viele Kommentare! Ich bin ganz „durchgeschüttelt“. Einerseits macht es mich unendlich traurig, dass die Propaganda-Maschine es geschafft hat, so viele Familien und Freundeskreise zu belasten oder gar zu entzweien. Ehrlich gesagt, beschwert mich diese gewisse Melancholie schon seit geraumer Zeit, lange vor der Lektüre hier. Anfangs (2020) war ich noch zuversichtlich und glaubte, Menschen mit Fakten überzeugen zu können. Inzwischen bin ich diesbezüglich an den meisten Tagen eher resigniert und halte meine Klappe. Andererseits haben mich einige der Kommentare wieder ein bisschen aufgerichtet. Es ist toll zu lesen, welche Lösungen einige finden – sehr inspirierend! Ich würde es mit so einem sturen Partner sicher nicht lange aushalten. Ich kann Ihnen dazu auch leider gar nichts raten, liebe Frau Schmitz. Aber ich bewundere Ihr Durchhaltevermögen und Ihre Treue. Vielleicht finden Sie in den Kommentaren vor mir den einen oder anderen Hinweis, der Ihnen ein wenig Entspannung bringt. Zum Glück sind sich bei mir in der engeren (Herkunfts-)Familie im Hinblick auf die GröPaZ („größte Pandemie aller Zeiten“) alle weitgehend einig. Mein größter Kummer ist der Vater meiner Tochter, mit dem ich schon 8 Jahre nicht mehr zusammenlebe. Er ist für jede faktenbasierte Argumentation unempfänglich. Und wenn es daran geht, die Kinder zu impfen, „gewinnt“ mit Sicherheit der Elternteil, der dafür ist. Das macht mir große Sorgen. Zum Glück will sie es selbst bislang nicht. Und doch ist sie beeinflusst von seiner Welt (und der Schule natürlich). Es ist schon hart, vom eigenen Pubertier als als „fanatische Querdenkerin“ bezeichnet zu werden… auch wenn ich weiß, dass Pubertiere ohnehin früher oder später alles in Frage stellen. Ich hoffe nur, dass sie ihren Vater und seine Haltung ebenso hinterfragt… Was meinen Trübsinn leider am meisten nährt, ist die Frage: „Wohin soll das alles noch führen?“ Viele der Kommentarschreiber vor mir sind ja augenscheinlich der Ansicht, dass alles vorübergehen wird und man dann wieder ganz normal zusammenleben kann, wenn man es nur schafft, diese Zeit irgendwie zu überstehen. Das glaube ich nicht. Und ich würde es auch nicht wollen. Ich will nicht mehr mit Menschen Kaffee trinken, die mich deswegen von Feiern ausgeladen oder gar beleidigt haben. Zumindest würde ich vorher auf ein klärendes Gespräch und eine Entschuldigung bestehen. Da bin ich dann meinerseits stur. Schlimm ist auch, dass wir „paar Hanseln“ auf der selbstdenkenden Seite uns nicht einmal zusammenraufen können. Da gehen Leute nicht zu Demos, weil es dort auch Reichsflaggen geben könnte; da meint dieBasis, sich von der AfD distanzieren zu müssen; und andere streiten sich über die Existenz oder die Herkunft des Virus… als ob es keine wichtigeren Fragen und ein gemeinsames Anliegen gäbe… Es ist zum HaareRaufen! „Teile und herrsche“ funktioniert besser als je zuvor. Und um den Kreis zu schließen: dass dieses Teilen und Spalten mitten durch Familien geht, ist wirklich zermürbend. Und das ist meines Erachtens die neue Qualität: bei früheren Diffamierungskampagnen war zumeist die ganze Familie betroffen oder eben nicht betroffen. Da hatte man wenigstens noch einander. Wenn Sie schon nicht zusammenhalten können, dann halten Sie wenigstens die Ohren steif und lassen sich nicht unterkriegen. 🙂
Best regards from Saxony (= Gaul)
Very well written. My comment is also included here.
I am replying to yours because I also come from Saxony (Dresden). You too?
Thank you! I live in the beautiful Oberlausitzer Bergland.
Dear Caro!
Every word of your comment could have come from me. In the eyes of my adult daughter, I am also the "crazy one" and when I see her critical, unloving gaze, I sometimes doubt myself....
Dear Caro,
Unfortunately, I know this all too well - my puberty animal also thinks I'm crazy and wants to be vaccinated (primarily because otherwise she will soon be threatened with exclusion from society). Otherwise, we have a really good relationship of trust and a very close bond with each other. Unfortunately, I still can't fight puberty, social media and pressure from school. She refuses to do research together.
Being a single parent with an ex-husband who is in favor of measures doesn't make things any easier - even within my own family, where I am the last unvaccinated adult ..... Thank goodness I still have a few friends I can rely on and my parents haven't (yet?) restricted contact with me and the children. But who knows what might come next. I wish us lots of strength, we will need it. Best wishes, Vanessa
Dear Ms. Schmitz, dear everyone,
Now, to top it all off, I'll also tell you briefly about my experiences. Maybe we'll get the provisional record (?) of 300 answers 🙂
I myself have lost my entire circle of cousins (if I ever had them), following the motto that you don't meet up with unvaccinated people. Other friends demand FFP2 (?) even when meeting in person at home
As of today, my wife and I are no longer allowed to visit my terminally ill father-in-law in the hospital in Lower Saxony (2G-Plus), at the Christmas market there is an area for 2G guests separated by bars, the entrance, which is right next to the main Protestant church, is guarded and controlled by four dark guys with black combat gloves (like the SEK) and security jackets, while a few meters further on, Silent Night, Holy Night is already playing from the loudspeaker today. In the evening, I phoned a piano teacher friend from Bavaria, who said in a matte voice that he was going to get the booster tomorrow with the comment: I'll survive...
So, I realize I'm getting worked up writing this, so I'll stop here. All the best!
Dear Mr. Linsner,
I thought I was the only one with strange friends.
Im Sommer wollte sich eine gute (schlaue) Freundin in ihrem Hof mit Abstand „coronakonform“ auf einen Kaffee treffen. Früher gab es dicke, herzliche Umarmungen. Es ist endlos traurig, ich hab verzichtet. Abstand hab ich schon genug, den brauche ich nicht zusätzlich bei guten Freunden.
All the best from the Upper Palatinate! 🙂
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Your words touched me deeply and illustrate how wide the rifts already are. The convinced loyalists and the constantly doubting dissenters who have voluntarily (whatever the word means here) decided otherwise.
You are not alone, rest assured.
It's not possible to simply convince someone of the opposite. It comes from within.
Stay close and open to your husband, the growing mountain of contradictions cannot be kept away cognitively in the long term.
I almost only perceive the whole thing anecdotally from an inner distance and can only bear the latest facts with inner composure and a lot of humor.
Ok, I also suffer in my very personal environment (my daughter is vaccinated, my wife had a vaccine injury over 50 years ago).
When the whole thing is over, there will be a lot to forgive on both sides.
Giving up is not an option that can really set us free...
...and don't forget: Hope and love are always part of it.
Best regards
Peter Kettner
Hello everyone,
unerträglich ist das einzige was diese Situation beschreibt. Kollegen, Freunde, Familie werden durch unterschiedliche Ansichten zerstört. Die Medien fördern diese Spaltung durch gezielte Darlegung von „Fakten“.
However, we can only encourage the unvaccinated, because soon they will no longer be alone! The new scapegoat will be the booster denier.....
Dear Stefan,
I am fighting back tears as I reply to your words.
„Aufgeben ist keine Option“.. Welch starke wahre Worte.. Ich verbinde sie mit meinem geliebten Sohn Marius, der bis zu seinem plötzlichen unerwarteten Tod im Dezember 2020 nach langer schwerer Krankheit mit 39 Jahren aus dem Leben gerissen wurde. Ich ertappe mich in den letzten Tagen sehr oft mit dem Gedanken, dass ich fast dankbar bin, dass mein Sohn von der satanischen Zuspitzung dieser Plandemie mit ihren unmenschlichen Auswirkungen verschont geblieben wurde.
Marius' health was already deteriorating last year, especially as he lost a beloved grandparent and had a swimming accident in which he almost drowned.
Leider konnten mein Sohn und ich und Ende letzten Jahres um Weihnachten herum aufgrund der weiten häuslichen Entfernung und strengen Corona-Maßnahmen nicht gegenseitig besuchen. Marius hatte sich von Anfang an der Plandemie sehr intensiv und kritisch mit dem Thema auseinandergesetzt und wir standen in ständigem Austausch darüber. Er hatte schon sehr gut vorausgesehen, dass uns das Thema C noch über Jahre im Griff haben würde. Am meisten machte ihm die Sorge der „dekadenten pharmaindustrieabhängigen unfähigen Hampelmänner an der Regierungsspitze“ zu schaffen – erschreckend wie recht er doch mit seine Prognosen hatte!
My daughters and I are in close contact as a family, even though the grief for our Marius still has a firm grip on us.
I recently found out that my youngest daughter has now had the vaccination after all because she could no longer cope with the pressure from her employer and colleagues. I'm just sad about it, but I can understand this decision.
My eldest daughter and I are determined to persevere to the end and not get vaccinated, even though it is becoming increasingly difficult to be seen as a so-called outsider or rebel, although at the age of 68 I like the latter term very much and it somehow fills me with pride.
Personally, I am not afraid of getting corona, on the contrary, I am very worried about the side effects and long-term consequences.
I am very grateful that I have a few good friends left who accept my point of view.
Somehow I am also grateful to Corona, because it has shown us who our true friends are, who is honestly devoted to us and accepts us as co-thinkers and questioners - it has brought out the bad and the good, and I personally find that enriching.
Despite the difficult times and dark days that have me in their grip again at the moment, I can see the light at the end of the tunnel again. I will never give up hope for better times; my son wouldn't have wanted that either.
I'm sending you, dear Stefan, and everyone who reads this, warm Advent greetings!
Today my husband is getting vaccinated because he doesn't want to be tested every day for work. We have agreed that everyone has to make the decision for themselves.
I will remain unvaccinated and will inform my employer of my decision today. I'll be out of a job anyway. I won't swap my health and my freedom for a state-ordered gene injection, no matter what reprisals I will be subjected to.
Yes, our government with the support of the compulsory fee broadcasters has done a "good job": Division, incitement of the people, defamation etc. through all levels of society right down to the families.
My husband and I still stay together and don't let it divide us.
Hello Chrissy,
alle, die beruflich mitten im Leben stehen und sich dem Impf- und Testzwang unterwerfen müssen und trotzdem standhaft „nein“ sagen, haben meinen größten Respekt, denn ich bin in der ruhigeren Position, weil ich schon in Rente bin und zuhause bleiben darf. Ich hoffe dass mir weiterhin nicht die Kraft abhanden kommt, diese Pandemie schlichtweg auszusitzen. Wenn ich Zeilen von lieben netten Menschen wie dir hier lese, macht mir das ungeheuerlich viel Mut, auch wenn ich mich mit meinen 68 Jahren manchmal aufgeben und mich völlig zurückziehen möchte.
How nice that you stick together as a couple.
I wish you much strength and courage on your difficult journey.
Stay healthy and enjoy the wonderful contemplative Advent season!
Best regards.
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Dear comrades-in-arms.
I can understand you completely. My wife and I have been married for 27 years and have been a couple for over 32 years.
Wir haben 2 Kinder die schon erwachsen sind. Die Spannungen sind auch bei uns deutlich zu spüren. Unsere Kinder sind geimpft. Sie machten das „um ihr Leben wieder zurück zu bekommen“. Ich war und bin schockiert als ich das hörte. Man erpresst junge gesunde Menschen damit, sie einsperren und ausschließen zu wollen.
That breaks my heart!
Meine Frau ist Krankenschwester in der Notaufnahme eines Krankenhauses und wurde jetzt auch geimpft. Sie hat das weiß Gott nicht freiwillig oder gar aus Überzeugung getan! Sie war die letzte ungeimpfte Mitarbeiterin in dem Krankenhaus und hat dem Druck leider nicht mehr standhalten können. Jetzt bin ich der einzige in meinem Umfeld von Verwanten und Freunden der nicht geimpt ist. Ich hatte zwei schwere Vorernrankungen die da waren eine Herzmuskelentzündung und eine Sinusthrombose. Beides im Abstand von 18 Jahren und Letztere vor 2 Jahren. Beide hatte ich fast mit meinem Leben bezahlt. Das hat mir nun eine Kontraindikation gegen die C-Impfung gebracht. Gott sei Dank, dachte ich! Das Problem ist nur, ich werde auch wie ein Aussätziger behandelt, obwohl ich mich garnicht impfen lassen kann( und nicht will). Ich muß tägliche Tests über mich ergehen lassen um arbeiten zu dürfen. Dazu muss ich täglich nach der Arbeit zu meine Hausarzt fahren um für den nächsten Arbeitstag wieder „frei“ zu sein. Die Diskussionen und dieser Umstand machen mich fast verrückt. Das zieht sich durch die Familie und unseren ganzen Bekanntenkreis. Ich weiß nicht, wie lange ich dem Druck noch standhalten kann. Ich muß alle Repressalien ertragen, ohne Ausweg. Bleiben sie standhaft und vor allem zusammen, es werden andere Zeiten kommen und die Verursacher werden zur Rechenschaft gezogen werden!
What is being done to humanity is unforgivable!
I would like to take this opportunity to express my sincere thanks to Markus Langemann for his outstanding work. You are a rock in the surf!
Please also remain steadfast!
Kind regards
Andreas Schmitt
Hang in there! Follow your own convictions, your intuition and your heart!
I'm in a similar situation, but thanks to home office regulations I don't have to get tested every day. However, as I have lots of other appointments, I get tested every two days, as do my teenage children.
Mein 18-jähriger, kerngesunder sportlicher Sohn, der ganz sicher niemandem ein Intensivbett wegnehmen würde, falls er C bekäme, wir ausgegrenzt, diffamiert, beschimpft und isoliert. Er jobbt derzeit remote vom Homeoffice aus, gefährdet überhaupt niemanden, war bislang immer negativ und ist umsichtig und rücksichtsvoll, wenn Ältere oder Kranke in der Umgebung sind. Egal, wie oft diese sich schon haben spritzen, boostern, „vollimmunisieren“ lassen.
Er möchte seine Herzgesundheit nicht auf´s Spiel setzen, nur weil ein „Staat“ ihm vorschreibt, sich ein experimentelles Gentherapeutikum mit bedingter Zulassung zu spritzen – und zwar dauerhaft, alle 6 Monate. Nur sein Fitnessstudio „übersieht“ noch die 2G Regelung und lässt ihn mit Test rein. Wenn diese letzte Bastion seines Lebens, das, was ihn durchhalten und seinen Weg gehen lässt. Die geimpften „Vollimmunisierten“ gehen in Discos, Bars und Kneipen und spreaden munter und ungetestet das Virus in die Bevölkerung hinein, fühlen sich dabei noch als die besseren Menschen und zeigen mit dem Finger auf die vermeintlichen Sündenböche – die „Ungespritzen“. Denn von Impfungen sollte man bei diesen Injektionen gar nicht sprechen, da diese Stoffe weder sterile Immunität noch robusten dauerhaften Schutz vermitteln, noch Übertragungen verhindern, noch das Infektionsgeschehen eindämmen. Eher im Gegenteil. Ich empfehle dazu die Analysen und Vorhersagen des Vakzinologen Geert Vanden Bossche (www.geertvandenbossche.org), der seit Monaten vorhersagt, dass Massenimpfungen mit „löcherigen Vakzinen“ mitten in eine Pandemie hinein durch starken Mutations- und Selektionsdruck auf das Virus zwangsläufig wie ein Boomerang nach hinten losgehen und zurückschlagen. Besonders problematisch ist, dass diese noch stärker infektiösen Varianten dann auf durch die 2Impf-Prägung“ unterdrückte angeborene Immunsysteme der „Gespikten“ treffen und mit diesen mittelfristig leichtes Spiel haben wird.
Real virologists, epidemiologists and immunologists have known this for a long time, but hardly anyone speaks out - the defamation and hate tirades that will rain down on the bearer of bad news are too great. Kill the messenger!
Overall, the attitude can therefore only be: don't keep quiet! Follow your inner compass, inform yourself well, protect yourself (of course!) and reduce your contacts if you are not a young, fit, smart under 50s. But don't let yourself be driven crazy and blackmailed by cognitive dissonance, scapegoat politics, the constant media barrage and the scaremongering of medical officials.
What is happening out there is wrong. It is a great injustice! Anyone who still has a spark of a clear mind can see, feel and prove it. There are enough sources that show us where we are heading if we don't stop these mass vaccinations.
Die Gesellschaft soll offenbar maximal gespalten und gegeneinander aufgehetzt werden, um vom Totalversagen der Institutionen und des Staates, vor allem aber vom Versagen der „Impf“stoffe und der unsäglichen „Impf“kampagne, abzulenken. Sonst könne ja jemand auf die Idee kommen zu merken, wer eigentlich Schuld ist.
Mir tun die Betrogenen, die Naiven, die Claqueure nur noch Leid. Sie sind gefangen in irrationaler Angst, Wahnvorstellungen, Aggressionen und Fanatismus. Sie klammern sich an eine Illusion und merken, dass diese gerade von der Realität eingeholt wird. Dennoch schaffen Sie es nicht, aus der Trance zu erwachen. Das muss ein sehr bemitleidenswerter Zustand sein! In der Psychologie nennt sich dieses Phänomen „mass formation“, siehe hier: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IqPJiM5Ir3A - great interview with the psychologist Prof. Dr. Mattias Desmet.
Wir anderen, die „Wachen“, leiden ebenfalls. Weil wir die Widersprüche erkennen, benennen können – aber nicht dürfen! Die Meinung des Andersdenkenden wird brutal unterdrückt. Die Wahrheit aber lässt sich auf Dauer nicht unterdrücken, sie wird sich ihren Weg bahnen. Die Frage ist nur, zu welchem Preis und wer dann noch halbwegs unbeschadet überlebt haben wird (bildlich gesprochen). Die Schäden und Verwerfungen, die eine in Raserei geratene politische, mediale und pseudo-wissenschaftliche Kaste geraten ist, sind möglicherweise auf Jahrzehnte nicht mehr gut zu machen. Vielleicht werden wir wirklich Prozesse wie Nürnberg oder Den Haag 2.0 brauchen, um das Unrecht, das den Menschen angetan wurde, zu sühnen.
I am now trying to get through this day without having to leave my mind at the 2G gate. And I wish all like-minded people that they - that YOU! - succeed in this too!
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Dear Mr. Langemann,
love all,
What a touching, but also frightening description of living together! I can imagine this "everyday situation" only too well, as it unfortunately permeates everything we do - at work, at home within the family, in conversations with friends, when shopping....
At this point, however, it must be put into perspective: there are fewer and fewer of those with whom you can still have an adequate conversation without thinking about a warfare strategy at the same time.
It has become damn difficult to LIVE as an "unvaccinated person in the healthcare system"! You can't get anywhere with knowledge and facts, after all, the "busy intensive care units" and "incidence rate" say it all.
About 30 years ago, I came to the democratic FRG as a Russian-German from the USSR. Back then, it was a radical change of system and a culture shock - even children had rights here: basic rights. You first had to learn to deal with that. 30 years later - in about 2 co...-years everything seems to have been erased. Common sense, trust, interpersonal relationships, fairness, joy, closeness, affection, rights, freedom of expression, individuality, self-determination - the list can go on and on.
This makes the Langemann post all the more important and gratifying for me. There are still a few people out there who belong to the "club" here, I'm not alone. Even if the crowd is almost homeopathic, I'm very pleased to meet/read like-minded people here. Stay positive and confident though!
Mr. Langemann, please carry on! I keep raising my glass.
Dear Ms. Schmitz, please be strong and try to get around the C. One day everything will be fine, one way or another.
Dear friends in spirit,
This time demands a lot from us. Many people are of the opinion that we are "getting in line", that it's not that bad, etc. .
Of course it is not if you do everything that is asked of you.
For those who oppose it, it is an ongoing psychological and existential war.
I consider myself lucky to be in an environment that has not allowed itself to be divided (at least until now).
Most of them are vaccinated, including my partner.
However, almost everyone is more than critical of the current situation. No, they are not referring to the daily figures, but to the deeply antisocial and discriminatory state of our society.
This time has also left its mark on me. I'm in my mid-30s and a perfectly healthy young man. Since April of this year, I have been plagued by panic attacks. Anyone who has ever had one knows what an ordeal it is.
In the meantime I hardly watch any news anymore, even in the alternative area I only watch once a week, from then several times a day.
I can only recommend going out into nature and looking for people who feel the same way.
That's exactly how it is. The "information war" is turning us into anxious people.
Everyone should have formed an opinion by now. Several new reports every day, from whichever side, only lead to increased fears and a feeling of powerlessness.
Oh yes, I know panic attacks, I had them 25 years ago, but I know how to deal with them and luckily I don't have them anymore.
Get out into nature and connect with people who are not totally blinded and draw a line between vaccinated and unvaccinated. That's my opinion!
… wie geht man mit dieser unsäglichen Situation um ??? Eine gute Frage, auf die es wohl keine allgemeingültige Antwort gibt. Im Gegesatz zu ihnen, liebe Frau Schmitz, war ich mit meinem Mann, der im August an Krebs verstorben ist, im Geiste einig. Um uns herum, bis auf eine Freundin, sind alle der Panik, dem Wunsch nach mehr Freiheit, die Arbeit nicht verlieren zu wollen, zu Geimpften geworden. Das über viele Jahre gefestigte soziale Gefüge ist völlig desolat, zerrissen, gar zerstört. Von völligem Rückzug, also der Kontaktvermeidung zu mir ungeimpften „Aussätzigen“ , über die Lage ebenfalls kritisch sehender Geimpfter bis zu messiahaften Überzeugungstätern ist nun alles vorhanden. Erst gestern eine Diskussion mit meinem Sohn, der mir im Hinblick auf das politische Versagen zwar recht gibt, bezüglich der Impfung jedoch meint, dass die Sicherheit dieser, durch die „weltweite wissenschaftliche Expertise“, bewiesen sei. Meine Informationen diesbezüglich aus zweifelhaften Kanälen und „ahnungslosen MöchtegernWissenschaftlern“ etc. stammen würden. Ich komme einfach nicht gegen das Bild der Aluhut tragenden Verschwörungstheoretikerin an. Positiv muss ich jedoch erwähnen, der Versuch, mich zur Impfung zu bewegen, entspringt der liebenden Sorge um mein Wohlergehen. Schließlich wären alle in seinem Umfeld, einschließlich der Eltern, geimpft, und er möchte nicht auch mich schon verlieren.
Hier kann ich sehr gut beobachten, wie gut diese rigoros Panikmache seit fast 2 Jahren funktioniert. Im Sommer letzten Jahres habe ich mich noch gefragt, wie intelligente Menschen, gleich Lemmingen, freudig in ihr eventuelles Verderben laufen wollen. Und ja, heute ist mir auch erkennbar, wie Propaganda funktioniert. Nicht so tölpelhaft wie noch vor 90 Jahren vielleicht, dafür geschickter, versteckter und nachhaltiger. Um „Nachhaltigkeit “ geht es ja dieser Tage auch sehr viel.
Ich werde mich definitiv nicht gegen Corona impfen lassen, so wie ich mich auch nie habe gegen Grippe impfen lassen. Ich bin kein Impfgegner. Tetanus und Co gehören zu meinem Repertoire. Ansonsten vertraue ich auf mein intaktes Immunsystem und Vorsichtsmaßnahmen in der „Grippezeit“. Händewaschen, oder in den öffentlichen Maske tragen waren für mich ohnehin selbstverständlich.
How do I cope with this whole besch..... situation?
To be honest, I don't think I'm coping with it at the moment, I'm getting through it, day by day. And the more months go by, the more these quacks of politicians tighten the thumbscrews, the prouder I am of my resistance, which would have been necessary 90 years ago. And I also know that I am not alone, as their fate also shows me. Hats off to you too, dear Mrs. Schmitz. Please don't despair. It takes a lot of courage today to go against the flow. You may feel that you are fighting a lonely battle, but I can assure you that you are not alone. Try to draw strength from this. With powerful greetings Alina Ü60
Dear Mrs. Bettina Schmitz. I read your letter with tears in my eyes. I am very sorry. I myself am almost 80 years old and my wife is 57. At the beginning of last year I realized with horror that we were being hoodwinked by this government. I haven't watched television for years and therefore inform myself wherever politics is questioned. Why is that? Yes, I grew up in East Germany and had very formative experiences there. My wife (as a Wessi) didn't believe me back then that the Basic Law was in danger. She said that there is a judiciary in Germany and it is independent. Over the course of the year, she took the trouble to scrutinize the government's measures. She looked at figures that proved the opposite of what was published in the media. As these figures were hidden from the public on official websites, e.g. RKI, she became suspicious. Now, we are a unit, we stick together and will get through this time together, God help us. Unfortunately, I can't give you any advice on how to convince your husband. It will probably have to get worse before he realizes it. But I wouldn't wish that on anyone. I hope that you have the strength to get through this. Does he not remember the consequences of the 3rd Reich? Best regards Joachim
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Perhaps you can help your partnership by addressing the topic in your communication every day.
(with announcement) to a maximum of 5 minutes. Don't let it get too powerful, in the end it's just awful and unworthy! Let it shrink first to set an example for him. Don't expect him to do it! Repeat your conviction to him again and again in a concise form, the catchier the better (e.g. I wouldn't even buy a used iron from these criminals, or: they can vaccinate me, but only when I'm dead, or: all this lying stinks to high heaven from the start, etc.).
Keine inhaltlichen Diskussionen mehr, versuchen Sie nie wieder ihn zu überzeugen, es ist vollkommen sinnlos und kostet Sie wichtige Energie! Leben Sie so gut es geht Ihre Zuneigung und Liebe, aber verbitten Sie sich jegliche Diskussion („ich sagte dir bereits, dass ich darüber nicht mehr mit dir rede.“).
It also helps me, for example, to make do with the extensive knowledge I have already acquired on the subject over the years. There will be no more ground-breaking new insights, the game has long since been exposed! Show him that you no longer consume lateral thinkers, YouTube & Co. and describe his consumption of mainstream media as what it is, namely addictive behavior! (with Langemann and 1.2 handpicked ones, namely Naomi Wolf's Daily Clout and Bernie from Australia, of course I make an exception!!!) Take the matter to the next level. Prepare ALONE for the difficult times ahead, because he can't because he's resisting change!
Those are my thoughts on the matter. Human cohesion is the most important thing in our current phase! I wish you all the best!
they hold out - it won't be long now.
i live here in finland in the countryside, i am not and have never been affected by any measures.
I'm just wondering how friends and relatives in Germany were so hypnotized and that makes me angry.
here i can only see a difference to people who live in the city and can live quite well without them.
es ist natürlich schade wenn man etliche „freunde“ abschreiben muss,aber ein neustart geht nicht anders.
only if you remove the old picture, the frame becomes free for a new one.
please stick to honest people and media representatives like mr. langemann.
Hello Ms. Schmitz, hello Mr. Langemann,
ja, unbestreitbar macht der ‚Geist‘ etwas mit uns Menschen und ich bekomme Gänsehaut und feuchte Augen bei diesem schleichenden Totalitarismus, dessen Ausprägungen und Formen durchaus Vergleiche mit einer Zeit in diesem Lande zulassen, die doch als ’niemals mehr wiederholbar‘ in den Geschichtsbüchern steht, was uns in der Schulzeit mehr als einmal vor Augen geführt wurde. An dieser Stelle meinen aufrichtigen Dank an Frau Schmitz + Herrn Langemann für die offenen Worte. Trost kann geben, daß das Narrativ sich in Raten derzeit selbst anfängt zu zerlegen, verbunden mit der Hoffnung, daß immer mehr Menschen erkennen, worum es hier wirklich geht. Klar ist, am allerwenigsten um Gesundheit. Und das daraus schnell eine starke, friedliche Gegenbewegung diesem Komplott ein Ende setzt.
Ja, liebe Frau Schmitz, ich kann das sehr gut nachfühlen. Bei uns (62 und 78 Jahre) ist es nicht ganz so arg, aber schon ein wenig in diese Richtung gehend. Der beste aller Ehemänner hat sich noch nicht weichkochen lassen von der Impf-Propaganda, aber die Gefahr ist nicht gebannt. Er ist immer noch dazu geneigt, sich seine Freiheit mit dieser Gentherapie erspritzen zu lassen. Ich tue alles, um das zu verhindern. Ich bringe ihn mit Menschen zusammen, die ebenso kritisch gegenüber der Impfpflicht sind, über WhatsApp schicke ich ihm jeden Tag mehrere kritische Beiträge, Statistiken und aufrüttelnde Berichte. Er ärgert sich darüber – er habe keine Zeit, „den ganzen Kram zu lesen“, meint er dann. Ich denke, er will sich damit nicht auseinandersetzen. Denn um 20 Uhr und 21.45 Uhr hat er sehr wohl Zeit, sich die Mainstream-Corona-Propaganda ins Gehirn zu ziehen. Er lästert ab, weil ich mich so viel mit diesem verschwörerischen Internet beschäftige. Und er leidet, weil seine Kegelbrüder ihn ausgestoßen haben. Er sei als Ungeimpfter nicht länger zu ertragen im Verein, er sei eine Virenschleuder, ließen sie ihn wissen. Das Kegeln war ihm heilig. Und nun nehmen sie ihm auch noch sein Billard. Ebenso heilig wie Kegeln. Ich kämpfe weiter, um ihn trotz all dieser Einschränkungen, Anfeindungen und Verbote auf meiner Seite zu halten. Sein Immunsystem ist perfekt. Erkältungen hat er so gut wie nie, eine Grippe ist ein Fremdwort für ihn. Er würde sich dieser experimentellen Behandlung also nur aus Gründen der Rückerlangung von Freiheiten unterwerfen. Das darf nicht passieren. Das will ich verhindern. Sollte es mir nicht möglich sein, weiß ich nicht, wie sehr das dann unserer Ehe (fast 40 Jahre) schadet. Mir werden wohl ähnliche Gedanken kommen, wie Ihnen, liebe Frau Schmitz!
I am sending you a comforting hug this way.
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I can understand how you feel. My husband and I have been married for over 30 years, but so much tension over and over again, it's more than stressful.
This C. theme changes not only the environment, but also yourself.
What builds me up, keeps me going, is that time is working for us, the bubble of lies is getting bigger, but thinner-skinned and will soon burst.
Walks in the countryside - our country has so many beautiful places.
Give up trying to convince others, it only takes strength, you find people who are on the same wavelength, more than you think.
I avoid discussions, walk away or change the subject. I need my strength for myself, it's no use to anyone if you wear yourself out.
Believe me, it took a lot of discussion and a long time, but a little selfishness is a must.
We are not alone, we are not to blame, I can think, I know what I need and I act to the best of my knowledge and conscience.
Best regards
A.Kremz
Es ist These gegen Antithese. Meine Synthese lautet. Fakten sich um die experimentelle Impfung beispielweise in Clemens Arvays Buch „Corona Impfung Rettung oder Risiko“ zu erschließen. Dann ist klar, ob man ein Risiko eingehen möchte. Wenn dann in einer Beziehung der religionsartige angstvolle und eingeredete Glaube an eine Sicherheit durch Impfung schwerer wiegt als die Entscheidung gegen ein Experiment, scheint es da keine Liebe mehr zu geben. Mindestens ist der Impfling manipulierbar. Wenn ihm der Respekt vor der Entscheidung des Gegenübers fehlt, kann es nahe liegen, dass sich die zwei Menschen auseinandergelebt haben.
There is fear and people are shutting themselves off from facts because they don't want to admit that they might be wrong. These developments reveal how people react when faced with problems. And it can provide the impetus to take a new path.
Dear Ms. Schmitz, dear Mr. Langemann,
I'll keep it relatively short:
„Der Intelligente sucht nach konstruktiven Lösungen! Der klägliche Rest sucht verzweifelt nach irgendwelchen Schuldigen denen er sein totales Versagen irgendwie in die Schuhe schieben kann!“
I am currently helping myself with longing glances at YouTube videos, e.g. from Sweden, but not only there. There, as an example, I recognize people and not subservient individuals who pursue their lives without coercion and media agitation.
At the moment, like many others here in our currently doomed country, I am not yet able to break out of my comfort zone.
But it won't be much longer.
Yes, I too am very afraid of giving up everything. This fear will certainly subside when I take this necessary step.
Whether my wife will go along with it is another matter entirely.
But I know and am confident that when I leave, I will do so with my head held high, full of confidence and curiosity.
I'm sure it had to be that way.
I also know that I won't be blackmailed, neither mentally nor physically, come what may!
Perhaps these few words will help and I too was with you in my thoughts at the moment I read them.
All the best to everyone here, stay healthy and stay with yourselves.
Best regards
Dieter Michel
Oh, dear strong Mrs. Schmitz! How much I feel for you! And suffer in the same way! I am a very sensitive and spiritual woman full of love for everything and everyone. But now sometimes I can no longer include my husband in my prayers, depending on how much he is blocking me again. There is no chance of bringing him any insights other than the mainstream. In the meantime, I am fully occupied with not letting attacks get to me. I work every day to maintain my inner peace. And my previously irrepressible zest for life! I WILL NOT LET MYSELF BE DESTROYED! We are all brothers and sisters at heart and united in love. I also draw courage and strength from this. I know that love will prevail. Only the best for you, dear Mrs. Schmitz.
Mrs. Müller
Dear Ms. Schmitz, I am very touched by your letter. No matter what your partner thinks of Corona or not: just ask him how much he loves you. How he imagines the path through good and bad times with you. The answer to everything else lies there - not in Corona. I wish you strength! LG Lars Richter
If he loved his wife, he would do her the favor of reading something she offered. He would at least make an attempt to understand her. But NOTHING!!!!
She's supposed to ask him if he loves her!!!
Wake up!!!!
Ich glaube, so einfach ist es nicht. Meine Tochter und ich haben das Thema immer umschifft, ich habe akzeptiert, dass sie anderer Meinung ist und sie hat mich nicht verurteilt für meine Ansichten. Doch als sie sagte, sie überlege es sich, habe ich Ihr ein Buch von Arvay geschickt und Links zu Seiten und Videos – mit der Bitte, sich diese anzuschauen, zu lesen. Ich musste zumindest einen letzten Versuch starten. Leider vergeblich, sie wollte ihre „Freiheit“ zurück. Jetzt hoffe ich für sie, sie muss den Schritt nie bereuen.
You have written this very gracefully. I hope it helps Mrs. Schmitz. It certainly helps me. Cheer up, people who think differently are strong people. Greetings H.
Dear Bettina,
My marriage is equally strained, completely identical. It goes even further, the split goes right down to the ground through our son, who is 17. My wife has made her decision, my son, who wants to enjoy life at 17, can't do that, in fact he can't be expected to.
It almost tears my heart out sometimes.
But enough of the negative energy now, the problem has been described in detail.
I would like to use my time here to provide positive, goal-oriented approaches.
This presentation represents my knowledge and my own experience.
Über Generationen anerzogen beschäftigen wir uns nahezu immer mit den Symptomen, anstatt die Ursachen zu suchen. Das verfolgt uns durch alle Bereiche des Lebens, am deutlichsten im Bereich der Gesundheit. Weiter oben Stand ein Kommentar, wir brauchen „Inneres Neuland“. Das trifft es recht gut.
Der Kern der Lösung besteht im Loslassen alter Dogmen, alter Lehren und alten Wissens. Dazu gehört auch das Loslassen der Beziehung zum Partner im „alten“ Sinne. Nicht zu verwechseln mit dem Verlassen des Partners.
Das Auflösen der Ursachen kann erreicht werden durch das Auflösen der Lügen, die uns seit tausenden von Jahren indoktriniert wurden. Es handelt sich dabei quasi um einen Reset, einen Neustart. Dazu gibt es Wissen und Lehren, die einen unterstützen können, klar zu sehen. Sehr altes Wissen, welches die Menschheitszyklen beschreibt und die großen Zusammenhänge erklärt. Erklärt, was wir sind, warum wir sind, was kommen wird. Ein Ansatz, der mir geholfen hat ist das vedische Wissen, denn die Entwicklung der Menschheit läuft zyklisch wiederkehrend. Es gibt aber auch noch viele weitere Ansätze die „Realität“ zu verstehen, die hier zu weit führen würden.
Exposing the lies, lie by lie, creates freedom - and the lies are so enormous that none of us can fully imagine them.
The heaviness will disappear, the problems will lose weight, humility, understanding and love will move in. By that I don't mean what was and is sold to us as love.
This path is not an easy one, it is the teaching of Christ, resurrection from pain. I was never a believer, but now I understand. We are all allowed to go through pain, some sooner, others - I call them sheep - later. That's completely fine, everyone fulfills their role in this cosmos.
This is the third world war, which is no longer being waged externally; each of us has to fight this war with ourselves. Everyone decides for themselves how this war will end.
The pain we feel these days is our pain, no one else inflicts it on us. That is why only we are able to overcome this pain and transform it into the new world.
I could write a lot more, but I would like to leave it at that.
I would like to encourage you. I am an average person, anyone can go the way I am going - if they really want to with full conviction.
Kind regards
Martin
Dear Bettina, dear Martin,
I would like to fully endorse your words!
I have lived with my husband for 30:years. He is .... But we don't talk about it. We each let the other.... but I notice his doubts. I realize that he sees my clarity and self-love. And all of this has developed quickly and strongly in terms of transformation over the last few months.
Now I'm finally in a position where I don't have to be right, etc. And nobody knows what is right and who is right, NOBODY! It's ONLY about your own feelings, not about being right. Then I can leave the other person as he/she is and feels and lives. Have no expectations!
This realization is very fresh and liberating for me. Perhaps it will help you, dear Bettina.
It is no longer about the outside, change can happen on the inside. Then we radiate this peace and there is no need to talk (so much). Because the healing energy connects with the other person and takes effect.
Best regards
Martina
Dear Martin,
Thank you very much for your text. I see it the same way you do. There is no way around taking up the cross and remaining in trust in the spiritual world. No matter what happens. I have discovered Dietrich Bonhoeffer during this time, who didn't interest me before. It is a time of decision - there is no longer any way to muddle through.
Mein Mann und ich leiten einen kleinen ambulanten Pflegedienst und bisher haben wir es geschafft, unter dem „Radar“ zu arbeiten. Wir haben etliche ungesumpfte Mitarbeiter/innen und sind es selber natürlich auch. Leider hat sich die Mehrheit FREIWILLIG und FREUDIG die Spritze geholt- meist die jungen Leute in unserem Dienst.
From now on we have to test daily and forward the lists to the public order office! It only takes one positive test and the store collapses!!!
Wie auch immer- uns ist klar, dass wir aus dem System aussteigen müssen. Uns blutet das Herz, aber wir müssen die Patienten bald „im Stich“ lassen- im wahrsten Sinne des Wortes—————–Erst gestern ist ein alter Herr nach dem heiligen Booster auf der Intensiv-Station gelandet. Ich weiß nicht, ob er noch lebt! —–Keine Ahnung, wie es für uns weitergehen wird, aber wir werden den Weg ins Ungewisse gehen- in der Hoffnung auf Hilfe von „ganz oben“. Herzliche Grüße und Gottes Segen für Sie, Barbara
Thank you Martin ! Best regards from Carinthia ! Alex
Hello Martin,
I'm right there with you, even if it's not so easy some days, it's a challenge for us that each person has to master for themselves, we should accept the decision that everyone has made for themselves and not let it divide us.
I hope and pray that we can soon look forward to a better future.
Best regards.
Dear Martin!
Thank you so much for your touching words! This entire comment section gives me hope again.
Greetings from Tina
Thank you very much for all the encouraging energy.
I am firmly convinced that, after this valley of tears
into a free, self-determined and bright future.
It takes many to shape them. For many, the level of suffering is still too low.
But we are becoming more. I meet people with a vision for the future every day.
Things are moving. We are becoming more.
We cannot convince the fearful. Fear is in the gut.
The head doesn't help. We can set a positive example, we can be courageous
Exude confidence and love. In this way, we can help one or the other
„Unentschlossenen“ finden.
The particularly anxious ones need the most love.
Soweit noch nicht erwähnt: Ruediger Dahlke und „Corona als Weckruf“
Subtitle: Why we can still be saved.
I am pleased that we are not alone.
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Your letter has deeply affected me and I hope that you have the strength to stand by your loved one despite everything. For the rulers are obviously pursuing precisely the goal of dividing us all, right down to our most intimate relationships. This is so absolutely evil that the full extent of what is currently happening cannot yet be grasped. If you give up, they have won!
My best thoughts accompany you
Frank Thomas
I have read through the short, very emotional letter and can empathize with you, Mrs. Schmitz. I am lucky and I am glad that my friends and family are sticking together. We are not vaccinated, as I can't see any vaccination here. We see each other, talk to each other, laugh and sometimes tears come to my eyes.
An Sie, Frau Schmitz, kann ich nur appellieren: Geben sie nicht auf. Die Welt ist im Wandel und „Wir“ bleiben stark, halten durch und geben Menschen, wie Ihnen Frau Schmitz unsere Hand. Wir geben auch den Menschen die Möglichkeit, den Kontakt mit uns aufrecht zu erhalten und wenn sie möchten, unsere Hilfe anbieten.
Kind regards from Oberhausen
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I have tears in my eyes when I read your letter. To be honest, I now have no words for the madness that has taken hold, that is dividing families and friendships, costing livelihoods and destroying people's psyches. I am simply so shocked that what is happening in our country today is possible, the incitement of citizens against each other by politicians and the media leaves me increasingly stunned. My partner and I are on the same side here and we can try to get through this hell together, but even with a loving person by your side, it gets harder every day to get through the day. So I can only imagine what you are going through. My mom, like your husband, is 100% on government and thinks I'm a nut job who has lost her mind and is chasing conspiracy theorists. She didn't even ask: 'Child, what kind of doctors do you trust, why don't you show me the statistics that show that we didn't have any excess mortality, etc.? No, she simply put me in a corner. She also completely ignores the fact that every supposed conspiracy theory I've pointed out to her has since come true. I can hardly talk to my mother anymore, the conversations often escalate because I can hardly bear this ignorance of figures, data, facts and all the lies that have already come to light. We have to get vaccinated, we who don't want to get the jab are to blame if people die, young people who go out partying are to blame, etc.. I sometimes get the feeling that she wants me or my partner to fall seriously ill so that we finally understand how bad this pandemic is and finally shut up. The politicians just want to save us all and the whole world is going along with it, so it can't be wrong. I've actually realized that my mother doesn't really know me at all, despite my 54 years, and that makes me very sad. A huge rift has developed between mother and daughter and I fear that this can no longer be bridged, at least not until this obsession finally ends and people accept that there are simply healthy people. Sometimes I'm almost ready to break off contact completely because I simply have no more strength and only want to surround myself with people who believe in self-determination and personal responsibility and for whom freedom and democracy are important. I often come to the conclusion that those who talk about solidarity today are actually just completely selfish because they feel safer if we all stay at home, wear masks forever and get vaccinated, it's not about the community at all, but about their own little lives, which they cling to and don't even realize that they are actually getting lonelier and lonelier, they give up their lives for the supposed security. The scaremongering in this country is so great that the mind has simply been switched off, everyone thinks that if they get the virus, they will have to go into intensive care and die, no one is allowed to get sick anymore. Thank God, there are also people around us who have been vaccinated, but who still allow everyone to make their own free decision. Surround yourself with people who think like you or who allow you to make your own assessment of the situation and I think we simply have to stop trying to convince others with facts and figures, everything has actually been said long ago and has also come to light, many simply don't want to see the truth. We are just wasting our energy, which we will still need. We can't reach some people and sometimes we just have to accept that relationships break down and put an end to them, otherwise we will become mentally ill at some point. I can't give you any advice, I can only tell you that you are far from alone, keep trusting your mind and stay upright. If you both really love each other, you will find a way to get through this difficult time, because love can overcome anything. I'm not giving up hope yet that people will eventually leave the panic behind and regain their sanity. Until then, we have to try to persevere and build our own little world, simply leave the TV off more and more often and concentrate on beautiful things. I wish you all the best and hope that at some point you and your husband can look back, hug yourselves and forget all the madness.
Dear Sabine, I am 67 years old and have just read your wonderful letter to Mrs. Schmitz. It touched me deeply because you described the situation exactly as I feel it and found such nice, comforting words
Although it was not addressed to me, I thank you for these lines. It's good to see that there are people with the same problems and the same view of things.
My husband and I are also in agreement, thank goodness. The whole family - we don't have any children - thinks we're imbeciles and, like so many others, refuses to give the slightest thought to the arguments we have to put forward. It's exasperating. In principle, I only have one friend left. A friendship that has lasted 61 years.
I have great fears about the threat of compulsory vaccination. We could endure everything else together. But that's clearly going too far.
Escaping is not really an option, as we have a farm with lots of hobby animals.
So let's try to persevere and hope that the worst fears do not materialize.
Much strength and all the best to you too
LG SABINE
Dear Ms. Schmitz and all others who still think clearly 🙂
These times are so challenging that for some it is a horror every day...
Many relationships and friendships have been ruined because both sides often don't think enough and just blurt things out.
Die richtigen Menschen an seiner Seite zu haben ist der Gewinn der Stunde und wie Sie mit Ihrem Mann umgehen…ist glaube ich so individuell, dass niemand von Außen dabei groß helfen kann. Sehr wohl helfen können Sie sich selbst. Suchen sie sich andere Menschen, Gruppen und diese gibt es überall ! und verbringen zeit mit denen und tanken sie dort die richtige Energie. Wir haben uns, mittlerweile mit 90 Menschen vereint und treffen uns jeden Dienstag, durch alle „Lockdowns“ durch persönlich. Immer sind ca. 20 dabei, manchmal bis zu 40 Menschen, wenn einmal im Monat Neue dazu kommen.
Auch können Sie vielleicht Andere zum „Draußen“ treffen animieren und gemeinsam ( ohne das C-Thema ) spazieren gehen.
Just tell, write to people: YOU are IMPORTANT to me and invite them for a walk.
We now invite people over every weekend or we stay with them. The last but one was a pair of pediatricians, both vaccinated.
It was a wonderful evening, we hugged each other at the beginning and at the end...
Es geht immer…und lassen Sie Ihren „Stinkstiefel“ wenig Raum um Ihnen schlechte Laune zu machen.
We also organized our own Christmas market 🙂 With stick bread for the children and and and...
Only the best for all of us, lots of meditative time and WE can do it together...
Hello,
May I ask how you met other like-minded people? We live on Lake Constance and my husband's and my entire family live in northern Germany. As far as friendships are concerned, only one couple has remained, as we were too strange for others with our views.... But an exchange is important with regard to the absurd situation at the moment, or rather for almost two years, and the unease about what is still to come. Perhaps you will read these lines.
Greetings from the cloudy Lake Constance
Was macht Menschen folgsam? Worin liegt der Ursprung dieses menschlichen Verhaltens? Besitzt Folgsamkeit seine Wurzeln in der Erziehung? Warum vertrauen wir auf Aussagen von Politikern und den Main-Stream-Medien? Was hindert uns daran, einmal über den „Sender-Rand“ hinaus zu schauen? Wieso heißen distanziert, kritisch denkende Menschen auf einmal „Querdenker“ und werden gemeinsam, ohne jegliche Differenzierung, in die rechtsradikale Ecke gedrängt?
Where have our (forward) thinkers suddenly gone? Why are they not getting a platform and a hearing on a broad media front? Why are we suddenly so afraid to stand up for our free opinion? How can it be that in this pandemic (emergency) situation there is still no internationally recognized body of scientists? Why all of a sudden only opinionated scientists and ethics councils? What power can these influences exert on others? Where are the insights from our recent history about the exclusion of parts of society? What in us allows this behavior of division?
I am sincerely grateful to all of you for your courageous energies.
I would also like to thank all like-minded people with whom I can and am allowed to exchange ideas on a daily basis.
Me too. Ich stimme in den Chor der Hoffnungsträger ein. Und soweit noch nicht genannt empfehle ich „Corona als Weckruf“ von Ruediger Dahlke mit dem schönen Untertitel „Warum wir noch zu retten sind“.
We may have to go through this valley of tears for another half a generation.
When enough suffering has befallen everyone, hope can germinate and good can prevail.
I believe that we humans are moving up a developmental level for the first time since becoming sedentary.
Because too much is at an end: capitalism in this form, democracies, education, device medicine, belief in science, hierarchy, etc. etc.
I call out to Allen: Never give up.
Dear Ms. Schmitz and all others concerned,
can understand this end of the deception so well and keep trying to categorize and understand it.
I think this "global opportunity" will only serve to relieve our social systems worldwide!
I think that for many of those vaccinated, it was pure fear of having to die at the hands of this invisible enemy, as the number of years of life is emotionally reduced faster than ever before once you reach 70. In addition, there are few people who admit that they have allowed themselves to be deceived by politics and above all by the MSM and are now trying - as politicians do - to discriminate against those who have been able to defend themselves with backbone as right-wingers or social enemies, so that the unvaccinated are now enemies of the state and are downright marginalized. I have learned to live with this, for many people it is also the lack of education - which gives these people an incentive when they have already achieved nothing else in life, try to score points by marginalizing others - wherever they are - and suddenly see themselves as a "respected member" of the masses (1933-45). My experience with a disease of the immune system has shown me that any intravenous medicine administered to me has visibly worsened my condition. As a result, I now only take a small amount of medication, exercise regularly and have completely changed my diet and feel and am almost healthy. My son, who supported and forced this healing process with me through special personal training, is also very critical of this vaccination process. As a candidate for a civil servant position, he was now said to be dissatisfied with his performance and was threatened that his employer - a public authority - would not take him on as it currently stands. However, he was given a high special payment because of his first-class and oversized work commitment (he was informed of this in writing although he had only been working in the office for 3 months), which was communicated and handed over to him approx. 3 weeks beforehand. .
Then came this last week, the absolute pressure in the authorities and the bullying that is exerted on unvaccinated people! He would like to keep his job, but he doesn't know how much longer he can escape this vaccination pressure.
The worst thing is the bullying of some colleagues and the ostracizing of unvaccinated people and unfortunately this is only possible in a society with a total tendency towards stupidity.
So I told him that if he decided to get vaccinated, I would fully understand and continue to stand by him - maybe - and that's what I wish for and meet for daily prayer and visualization at 19:50 and our network is growing daily - m this bubble of lies and deception of citizens and voters will hopefully burst as soon as possible.
Friends, acquaintances and relatives who have been vaccinated are acting as judges of these lawless unvaccinated people, so each of us has to struggle with this tiresome topic.
I hope that we will all separate the wheat from the chaff more quickly and that the truth will come to light before a GDR wall is built around the whole of Europe.
All the best and maybe you will all join the Gaia network of meditation, because we are not alone. You all see & read it. That gives confidence.
Kind regards, Rita
Hello Rita,
Do you have any further information or a link to the network?
Kind regards
Susanne
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
was ich da von Ihnen lese, berührt mich sehr, ja, ich habe Tränen in den Augen. Wir (mein Mann und ich) sind „nur“ zu Aussätzigen im Familien- und Freundeskreis geworden; was dieses unsägliche Narrativ angeht, sind wir einer Meinung und gehen dafür auch auf die Strasse. Wie unsäglich schwerer muss es für Sie sein, und alle anderen, die hier über ähnliche Erfahrungen sprechen, wenn der Partner/die Partnerin so ablehnend wird.
You seem like a very smart woman, and I'm sure you know that there are many like-minded people in e.g. telegram groups close to your location who meet, support each other, talk, strengthen each other etc. We come from Kassel and joined such a small group via Freie Bürger Kassel.
Get out of the domestic situation as often as possible and into life with like-minded people! So that you can always find the strength to let your husband go...
Warmly connected in your thoughts,
Petra Wicke
Dear Thinkers,
I am referring to the letter to the editor.
I would like to share a few thoughts with you. Especially in a time of divide and rule.
Love IS.
One aspect of it is freedom, respect.
Everything, absolutely everything, that deviates from this is not love. It is something else.
That's what my logic tells me, that's what my heart tells me.
Finally, it is important to know that it is only about MY feelings, about my condition.
If everyone loves each other, everyone in the world is loved.
This is now our chance and perhaps the only way...
All the best.
I fully agree, Stefan!
But it takes time to reach this state....but we should all start NOW. For Bettina, self-love in my eyes would be: that she separates!!! Everything else is a futile labor of love and self-sacrifice. And we should all take off THOSE shoes!!!
When the much older spouses age...always a difficult topic, not only with C. .... Sad.
Karina
Liebe Frau Schmitz, ich finde eine solche Liebe unglaublich! So duldsam war ich nicht und habe asymetrische Machtbeziehungen verlassen. Freilich habe ich auch unter Alleinsein gelitten, suchte mir professionelle Hilfe und setzte mich mit mir selbst auseinander. Auf diese Weise wurde aus einer ängstlich angepassten Frau, die ihr Selbstbewusstsein daraus bezog, „normal“ zu sein eine Individualistin, die selbst wissen wollte. Anzeichen eines totalitären Überwachtungsstaates bemerkte ich schon länger, doch was unsere Regierung inszenierte, hätte ich für unmöglich gehalten. Durch geschürte Panik vor einem angeblichen Killervirus wurden wir in eine Massenpsychose getrieben, um BigPharma willfährige Probanden für ein transhumanistisches Experiment zu liefern. Nach meinem aktuellen Wissensstand handelt es sich bei mRNA-Vakzinen realiter um Geninjektionen, zur Erzeugung von genetisch modifizierten Organismen, auf die Patente angemeldet werden können. Hinweise auf „Verbesserungen“ des Menschen finden sich auf ihren Websites. Mittels Gleichschaltung der Staatsmedien und Institutionen wird die Wahrheit unterdrückt. Institutionelle Korruption machts möglich – funktioniert aber auch nur, weil mehr als 50% unserer Landsleute unerwachsen geblieben sind und einer herzigen „Mutti“ glauben, anstatt sich nichts erzählen zu lassen. Solange Menschen die Wahrheit nicht kennen, richtet sich ihre Wut gegen die von den Regierenden als Impfverweigerer Kriminalisierten, die angeblich für die Impfdurchbrüche der Geimpften verantwortlich seien, anstatt in ihnen die Mutigen zu erkennen, die dem Druck standhalten. Nachdem sowohl meine Mutter als auch meine Tante kurz nach der Impfung gestorben sind, freue ich mich, dass mein Sohn selbst denkt. Doch bange ich um Schwiegertochter und Enkel, die zu den Geimpften der ersten Stunde gehören und mich und meine Haltung nicht verstehen. Euch allen solidarische Grüße
How do you do?
You are not alone, as you can read from all the comments. Everyone in my family has also had injections. I am the proverbial black sheep of the family. My youngest son (24 years old, nurse in a children's hospital and father of two girls) was already 21 in March and my 29-year-old daughter 21 in July (trainee teacher). As for the middle one, I don't know when. Of course there are always differences, but I don't let that bother me, even if it's sometimes painful because we see each other less often.
What I find worse is the behavior of my landlady (shared flat for 2 people), who is now longing for the third injection and is giving me the choice of getting the injection or looking for other accommodation. I can't find an apartment without a job and I'm certainly not going to get an injection. If she thinks so, she should give me my notice and include this reason.
New friendships have been made in recent years - in the middle of Munich. That's what makes me feel strong and hope that everything will be okay.
Stay true to yourself!
All the best from the bottom of my heart
Ulrike
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
You speak from my soul.
Me 35, my husband 46 have opinions on the current situation that couldn't be more different. He has been vaccinated 3 times, 3 deep vein thromboses including pulmonary embolism, which of course were not caused by the vaccination. BUT ! We have decided not to split up. We have 2 small children. We let everyone have their own opinion. We only talk about Corona very rarely. The whole thing will be over in a few years and then I want to spend my life (hopefully) with exactly the same man. We have 50 things in common. There's just one opinion we can't share. You can't save someone from drowning who doesn't want to be saved. If there is still love, you can get through it. I wish you lots of strength and support and give you a big hug in my thoughts.
Greetings Loreley
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
You are not alone. Our family was also divided. Although my partner and I are on the same page, I have virtually no contact with my father. Contact is limited to the grandchild. Since we took part in a fundamental rights demonstration, we are officially Nazis who have the death of my parents in mind. Any criticism of political measures ended in the accusation that we wanted to kill others. We lost friends who couldn't imagine that you could be afraid of the vaccine - and not just the virus. We don't know whether and for how long we will be able to pursue our profession unvaccinated.
It is a terrible time. The hatred is getting to you.
But you are not alone. Try to show understanding and demand it. If we all showed respect for each other's fears, whether it's fear of the virus, the vaccine or politics, we wouldn't be in this situation.
Best regards from Berlin
Dear Ms. Bettina Schmitz,
just to let you know that many people feel the same way:
Everyone in my family is vaccinated except for my grandparents (my wife and I), my wife now has to get tested every day and has worked for 43 years in the care and support of children and young people with epilepsy. I myself have worked as a specialist nurse for 47 years, initially 3 years in anesthesia and the last 7 years in intensive care. When I was young, I was a test subject for the development of the Hep B vaccine.
I have worked all my life to expand my self-employment as a teacher/instrumental teacher and musician/concert performer after retirement.
Almost lost everything in it, made impossible.
My family, the vaccinated, all vaccinated, take part in it like a gateway to freedom; it has led me to prayers, intercessions.
And they will not hesitate to have their grandchildren vaccinated.
But there are no tensile tests; it is their responsibility.
But - we have lost our two best friends and their families as friends:
Connected for more than forty years: Vacations, birthday parties, going to concerts, attending births in the delivery room, sponsorships, conversations in difficult times. All gone, very painful. We didn't stand a chance: we were social pests, irresponsible to the right.
We are recognized and isolated in the neighbourhood because of our openness.
Was bleibt: In schweren Zeiten oder schweren Stunden, Momenten vertraute ich immer wieder auf Führung und rief es mir manchmal mit dem „Mantra“ – In Gott sein – ins Bewusstsein.
We are more than mere survival and are allowed to experience life, our relationship to transcendence
Perhaps another word from Pastor Fliege, quoted from memory: you don't have to like him; you may even laugh at him:
From memory - I refused to do military service, was always involved in the peace movement ... AND ... I WILL NOT PARTICIPATE IN THIS WAR.
All the love
Martin Borgschulte
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I was very touched by your letter and the many replies. But what can I say to comfort them?
Maybe it will help if they leave this topic out of the equation and let each other's point of view stand. I hope they find new like-minded friends.
I, 64 unvaccinated people, avoid the subject with vaccinated friends and colleagues. For them, it's all over. I can talk openly with a friend and we have been critical of the topic for a long time, partly because of Mr. Langemann's exile contributions.
Unfortunately, I don't have a partner and have been looking for some time. Last year, we searchers were still the same. During my last nice contact the other day, the vaccination question came up straight away and after a few emails about it, the gentleman broke off contact. Yesterday, my girlfriend (not vaccinated) wrote to me to say that her boyfriend (vaccinated) wanted to take a break to think about the situation.
Relationships break up or never come about at all.
It's hard to believe that the vaccination status could have such an effect.
Best regards
Sabine
Dear Sabine,
I can only recommend going to demonstrations! You meet wonderful people there, many of them singles...
Best regards Peppi ✌❤
right, you can also think one step further
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
When one door closes, another usually opens. As an unvaccinated person (and it will stay that way), I had to quit a sports club because I'm no longer allowed to train thanks to 2G; I also had to give up the chess club because they don't like to hear criticism of Merkel / Big Pharma; it's also better not to take part in discussions at work and even in the extended family we're being told to finally get the children vaccinated.
Don't let it get you down and stand firm.... look for your peers ... people with a critical and alert mind.
My circle of friends looks different today....and above all....better. Today I ask myself why I ever classified some people as friends in the first place. A crisis reveals a person's true character...and unfortunately today I would classify some of my ex-friends as what they are: Followers and (unfortunately) fascists.
Maybe you can agree with your spouse not to bring up the C topic anymore. This has worked for me with a few friends.
I wish you much strength and perseverance. The lying propaganda and agitation of politicians will not last in the long run.
With best regards
H. Obermeier
Dear Mr. Obermeier,
Your comment encourages me to comment.
look for your peers ... not so easy
why I had ever classified some people as friends in the first place. A crisis reveals a person's true character ... yes, that may be the case, my own experience is identical ... for me, I realize that I don't want to admit it, which is very painful in long friendships ... (There are worse things, ok.)
to stop bringing up the C topic. It worked for me with a few friends. ... Yes, it worked for a few friends and acquaintances.
Eine persönliche Bemerkung zum Letzten: Bei einem Paar gibt es einen Sohn, der sich nicht impfen lassen will und seine Anstellung bedroht sieht; bei einem anderen Paar kann man vielleicht sehen: In der Familie gab es schon mal Diskriminierungserfahrungen: beim „Gatten“ wegen der Herkunft, bei einem Kind in der Schule wegen des Aussehens. Bei einer Bekannten, eine absolute Einzelgängerin, die sich sicher oft ausgegrenzt oder ausgegrenzt gefühlt hat. (Beschriebene Personen sind alle doppelt geimpft und warten auf den „Booster“. Das mag (?) empfindlich machen für Diskriminierung allgemein.
Best wishes, best regards
Martin
The true origin of many problems in our world is due to the fact that people have distanced themselves from their spiritual origin through atheistic materialistic lifestyles and religious dogmatism.
In this world of fleeting, temporary happiness, we are usually unable to perceive that there are things that exist far beyond our direct sensory experience, but which are nevertheless real. However, in order to be able to have quasi-sensory experiences, we need a certain amount of humility and curiosity on our part. To pursue the questions of where we come from and where we are going. There are
es womöglich ein Weiterleben nach dem Tod, gibt es Gott und was war vor dem Urknall. In früheren Zeiten wussten die Menschen noch eher das von Nichts, nichts kommt. Das bedeutet, wenn da vorher nichts wahr kann da auch jetzt nichts sein. Oder wenn hier einer von uns „normalen“ Menschen Gott wäre, hätte diese Person es nicht nötig Angst davor zu haben von irgend jemandem übervorteilt zu werden. Niemand von uns kann sich z. B. Geburt, Alter und Krankheit entziehen. Das zeigt uns deutlich , daß wir eigentlich nicht die höchsten Kontrolierenden sein können, sondern jemand bzw,. etwas anderes. Wenn dieses etwas, z. B. eine kosmische Energie uns erschaffen hätte, dann vielleicht so, daß diese Energie ein Bewusstsein hätte. Nur wissen wir eigentlich, daß Bewusstsein immer von einem Lebewesen ausgeht, den das Attribut eines jeden Lebewesen ist, sich
to be aware of one's own existence, to develop self-awareness in order to be able to take action at all. In order to be able to perceive things in the world and objectively classify them correctly, this requires a conscious living being, for example a human being, as a living being with the highest consciousness on earth.
In earlier times, even more people were aware that nothing comes from nothing, and if there was nothing before, there could be nothing today either. But if it is now said that there was the Big Bang, that it simply came from nothing and that everything else came about almost perfectly and systematically through evolution, we accept this as a quasi-fact in all educational institutions, schools, universities and research institutes.
Only a few people today are able to recognize that life can only come from life and not from pure chance.
Consequently, God, as the origin of all created things, must exist outside the influence of material energy. But if God is the origin of everything, then everything also comes from him
und trotzdem wird er durch den Einfluss der materiellen Energie weder beeinflusst, noch eingeschränkt, so wie wir „normale“ Lebewesen. Wir können Fehler begehen, Gott nicht. Wir können irren, Gott nicht. Aber ir können lieben, weil Gott uns liebt, völlig unabhängig von jeglicher religiöser Institionalisierung.
God is the highest individual immortal person, the highest soul of all souls, the highest origin of all origins who, in accordance with the most diverse cultures, bears the most diverse names, and yet is and always remains the same.
We all actually know that we are not our bodies, but that we can move through this world by means of them. Within our existence we are all subject to birth, old age, illness and death. The so-called laws of nature, which in turn are part of this world and apply to all people without exception, regardless of whether they are rich or poor.
So our freedom can only be realistically experienced within a fairly circumscribed period of time; neither at the beginning nor at the end of our lives do we really have control over our destiny.
But now we could also come to the realization that we are much more, namely immortal spiritual souls in temporary material bodies, but who have to struggle with mistakes and errors that sometimes threaten to overwhelm us.
In order to arrive at the right solutions here, a soul is needed that exists uninfluenced, as it were, outside these conditions, and that can only be God himself. God is the supreme controller, the source of all origins. Some say Allah, others Vishnu or Krishna or Jehovah, etc., but he is actually always the same, the supreme personality of God, the one who really gives us souls our own origin.
can offer us the most protection without imposing conditions.
Wir haben eine von Gott gegebene Intelligenz. Setzen wir diese nun einfach mal objektiv ein, um zu besseren Entscheidungen zu kommen und um eine „Pandemie Hysterie wie Sie derzeit existiert, wirksam ein für alle mal zu beenden.
☮️️✝️
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Hallo Frau Schmitz! Auch ich wurde durch Ihren Bericht sehr berührt. Ich kann Sie sehr gut verstehen. Auch mein Partner ist leider völlig resistent gegen alles, was ich ihm an Fakten gegen die Behauptungen der Regierung zu C liefere. Er will schon nichts mehr hören, ich war auch eine Zeit lang ruhig. Habe aber gerade aktuell mal wieder den Mund aufgemacht, weil ja doch immer mehr Fakten ans Licht kommen, die gegen eine I sprechen. Nun er ist schon zweimal geimpft, auch wenn sein Vater ein paar Wochen nach der C Impfung (er war völlig gesund und fit), beim Rasenmähen einfach umgefallen ist. Ich hatte alle versucht zu warnen, aber niemand wollte hören. Seine Mutter hatte auch Nebenwirkungen die nach der zweiten Impfung mehr als eine Woche andauerten. Dann bekam Sie eine normale Grippe, die Sie normalerweise auch relativ schnell sonst überstanden hatte. Aber nach den Impfungen nun hatte sie Probleme und die Grippe dauerte viel länger als sonst, sie hat auch einige Zweifel und ich habe heute noch einmal versucht Sie vor dieser Booster impfung zu warnen. Ich hoffe auch meine Schwägerin lässt Ihre Kinder nicht impfen. Mein Partner liest, so wie Ihrer nur die „normalen“ Nachrichten. Von diesen anderen Infos will er nichts wissen und auch nicht mehr drüber reden. Er ist zweimal geimpft . Ich werde zu gegebener Zeit vielleicht wieder den Mund auf machen und reden, man will doch seine liebsten auch schützen. Aber wissen Sie ich glaube an Gott und Jesus Christus ist Herr meines Lebens, ich bete für alle meine Angehörigen, (unter anderem), dass Ihre Augen geöffnet werden und die Lügen der Regierungen aufgedeckt werden, das die Wahrheit ans Licht kommt und natürlich auch um Schutz. und um Errettung. denn es gibt natürlich dieses Leben hier auf der Erde, aber es gibt auch ein Leben danach und wo werden wir das verbringen. Das finde ich genauso wichtig. L.G. und Gottes Segen, Viel Kraft und Geduld wünscht Ihnen Carmen
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
auch mein Mann (67) ist geimpft, voll auf der Regierungslinie und freut sich sicher insgeheim über die kommende Impfpflicht in Österreich. Offen zu sagen hat er sich das bis jetzt nicht getraut. Es ist das Beste für uns, dieses leidige Thema auszusparen – soweit es geht. Auch mein Mann bezieht seine Informationen von den öffentlich rechtlichen Sendern und danach wirkt er oft wie aufgewiegelt und macht „die Impfgegner“ und „die Coronaleugner“ für die jetzige Situation verantwortlich. Da diskutiere ich dann gar nicht mit ihm („Ist nur Atemverschwendung“ hätte meine Oma gesagt) Im Allgemeinen kritisiert er aber schon viele unsinnige und widersprüchliche Maßnahmen zur Pandemiebekämpfung. Für ihn ist also die Impfung DIE Lösung. Alle impfen, alle Maßnahmen werden aufgehoben und die Pandemie ist vorbei – so einfach ist das. Wir haben vier erwachsene Töchter. Zwei haben sich, sobald es ging, voller Überzeugung impfen lassen. Eine hat sich, weil es ihr unumgänglich und am Einfachsten schien, im Herbst den Einmalimpfstoff geben lassen. Das gilt jetzt nicht mehr und sie muss dieses Jahr noch „daraufimpfen“. Das macht mir Sorgen. Besonders deshalb, weil meine älteste Tochter, die sich nur wegen des sozialen Druckes hat dazu zwingen lassen, nach der ersten Pfizer Impfung eine Herzmuskelentzündung bekam. Sie bereut es jetzt sehr. Sie ist sportlich, durchtrainiert und hatte immer ausgezeichnete Werte. Jetzt, zwei Monate nach der Impfung, kann sie zwar den Alltag wieder bewältigen, aber an Sport oder Belastungen ist nicht zu denken. Und grünen Pass hat sie natürlich auch keinen. Es wurde ihr empfohlen, mit einem Vektor-Impfstoff kreuzzuimpfen. Sie wird es natürlich nicht machen. Ob sie bei einer Impfpflicht eine Bescheinigung über eine Befreiung erhält, weiß sie noch nicht.
It's unbelievable how much people look the other way and trivialize vaccine damage. It wasn't just the doctors at the hospital who tried to play everything down, no, my husband also sees it as an absolute exception: you never hear anything about it on TV - and billions of people have been vaccinated.
That's actually what upsets me the most. How can you continue to cling to vaccination as a panacea and accept your daughter's illness as collateral damage so easily?
Fortunately, we live in the countryside. I've been retired for a year, so most of the measures have hardly affected me. But since 2G and lockdown for the unvaccinated were introduced in Austria, I think I've been watching the wrong movie.
Vom derzeitigen Bundeskanzler kommen Äußerungen wie: „wir werden die Zügel für Ungeimpfte straffer ziehen müssen“ oder „Weihnachten wird für Ungeimpfte ungemütlich“. Der absolute Tiefpunkt war dann die Ankündigung der allgemeinen Impfpflicht ab Februar.
Can a politician - and a trained diplomat at that - make such statements without wanting to deliberately fuel division and agitation among the population? I believe that this is purely intentional.
It reminds me a lot of black pedagogy. Pressure, coercion, punishments... and if all else fails, we set them against each other and let them go at each other.
Ich kannte einen alten Lehrer, der bei „Fehlverhalten“ Einzelner grundsätzlich die ganze Klasse bestrafte. Er war sich sicher, dass die Verantwortlichen dann von den Mitschülern so unter Druck gesetzt werden, dass sein Problem langfristig gelöst ist.
And that's exactly what our governments are doing now. I will try not to join in.
Was mich gefreut und verwundert hat, waren die vielen ermutigenden Nachrichten und Botschaften nach der Ankündigung der Impfpflicht. (Ich muss zugeben, ich war auf hundert!) Es wurden Sprüche, Lieder, Fotos und Zitate verschickt, die das Gemeinsame und das Miteinander betonen. Am meisten hat mich ein Anruf eines Geimpften gefreut, der sich solidarisch erklärte. O-Ton: „Wenn du dagegen demonstrieren willst, begleite ich dich.“ Es ist schön, wenn es solche Lichtblicke gibt.
I wish you, me and all of us much happiness, serenity, health and joie de vivre
Just leave.
Pack your things and leave.
It's the best thing to do before her mental health is so damaged that she can only expect an eternal infirmity (even at home).
Believe me, it is liberating. I myself broke with all coronavirus restrictions back in May 2020 and find it liberating.
That's right, before you go down the drain yourself, it's better to draw a line, because a horror without end is a martyrdom that can hardly be survived.
Yes, I feel the same way. I can no longer stand people who allow themselves to be manipulated so cheaply by the media and who believe any crap, no matter how ridiculous and contradictory.
Tolerance is held so high and is also propagated by opponents of vaccination. No, I no longer want to be tolerant of people who force others (in whatever form) to be injected with a substance that can make them ill and kill them. I would see this tolerance as complicity. For me, it is a clear no to all this inhuman behavior on the part of politicians, the pharmaceutical industry or whoever is responsible for it.
Yours sincerely
Ursula
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I wish you all the best in this difficult situation. Above all, I wish you strength and stability in your fight for love and freedom.
I'm lucky that my close circle of family and friends is still close. But the endgame has already begun and when it comes to "what happens next, what do we do if..." questions, there are sometimes differing (and understandably so) views as time is running out. Fortunately, we have not yet had any disagreements with vaccinated friends and colleagues.
But what to do now? I am someone who never gives up and believes that there are always solutions, but I am seething. I think I have internalized our constitution and legal system very well and now the government is drifting away from it to a considerable extent in my eyes. From the very beginning, too many politicians and others have known what was going to happen and presented clear insider knowledge. A disease with a manageable mortality rate and a one-sided approval of certain experimental vaccines that are not only apparently almost ineffective, but whose side effects are incalculable. A new Swedish study also suggests that the SarsCov2 spike proteins have a negative effect on the cell DNA repair mechanism and that this could therefore also apply to mrna vaccines. In my opinion, the MSM are clearly spreading propaganda and censorship is omnipresent. One can certainly speak of witch hunts for certain people. How could all this be legal?
But: 25 million are still unvaccinated. 25 million! This state cannot "act", no matter what threatening gestures they try to scare us with. You certainly can't lock up 25 million either. In my opinion, the state is afraid of such a huge control group, which is why it is now attacking in this way and unleashing all its chain dogs.
Unity and justice and freedom are the pledge of happiness, not obedience and fear and agitation. Stand firm, fight for your love and freedom. There is no more valuable goal.
Best regards
Oliver
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
My thoughts are with you and I feel your despair, your fear of everything that may come and the despair regarding your feelings towards your husband. He can't help himself right now. He is trapped and only wants to derive the right thing from the data that he tries to confirm every day. You won't be able to reach him, but you can stop trying to change him. Look inside yourself and try to find the things that once made you happy. The anger about her husband's unchangeability probably drained my mother of all her vitality. Please take a different path. A garden, like-minded friends, good music, outdoor exercise and realizing that you are standing up for yourself. If he had started smoking, drinking or doing other things that contradict your attitude to life, then so be it. In the areas where he criticizes or restricts you, you can be strong when you think back to all the lovely letters here. There are many people who resonate with you. We are connected in heart and spirit and we will make it through. Cry, scream and write - everything that is out makes you free and strong. I wish you all the best. We broke you!
With best regards
Alex from Leipzig
You can't help a person in a bubble, they can't get out of it. You have to wait until the bubble bursts, and usually the people previously trapped in the bubble are surprised, filled with shame, amazed at their own ignorance. Like raising your children, you have to watch, often without being able to intervene, as your loved ones burn themselves, cut themselves, break their bones and hearts, fall or beat their noses bloody. Part of this is allowing each person to go their own way and not asking for advice or help.
Let go, give your attention to a hobby or like-minded friends, and keep the loved one in your heart as you have come to know and love them. You can't change them, they have to become convinced of their own accord. This may take time, or it may not happen at all. Seek joy, recognition and insight in things that are important to you and independent of other people. Read, educate yourself, start a correspondence course, work on yourself - instead of working on others.
Hello Josef,
Very well formulated! You hit the bull's eye with your speech. Whether it's the "bubble" of denial of education, Covid-19 and the effective brainwashing by the well-known media, alcoholism, stubbornness in old age, etc., your core message is: Let go! Her core message: Let go! Better to work on yourself than on others. Mrs. Schmitz's situation is not unknown to me and I hope for your sake that you, dear Mrs. Schmitz, will perhaps manage to let go.
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
auch ich lebe mit einem Mann, den nichts von der Spritze abhalten konnte, zusammen. Wir sind seit 37 Jahren verheiratet, das schmeißt man nicht einfach so weg. Meine erwachsene Tochter lässt sich von mir seit März 20 nicht mehr von mir umarmen und kommt nicht näher als einem Meter in meine Nähe. Jetzt bekommt sie ein Kind, mal sehen, ob ich es mit Schnelltest überhaupt in die Arme nehmen darf. Mein Mann hat Angst um meinen psychischen Zustand, da ich mich dem “ Impfruf“ widersetze. Keiner in meiner geimpften Familie aber auch im geimpften Freundeskreis versteht meine Ablehnung! Ich bin seit über 50 Jahren Diabetikerin, seit 2 Jahren endlich sehr konstant eingestellt, dazu (nicht praktizerende) Heilpraktikerin und kenne mich mit naturheilkundliche Mitteln und Heilungsverfahren aus. Ich bin seit 2 Jahren nicht an respiratorischen Krankheiten erkrankt, da ich entsprechende Naturheilmittel einnehme und regelmäßig Sport mache. Ach ja, Fitnessstudio geht nicht mehr, da ungeimpft. Zum Glück gibt es noch die Natur, die mir noch nicht verboten wurde. Es ist einfach nur ein kafkaesker Albtraum, aus dem ich nicht aufwache. Meinen dritten Lebensabschnitt habe ich mir anders vorgestellt. Ich kämpfe gegen familiäre Erpressung an. Mein Arzt lässt mich in Ruhe, hat er doch meinen Mann in die Fänge bekommen. Ich weiß noch nicht, was passieren wird, aber vor dieser genveränderten Substanz habe ich größte Angst und sehe auch keinen Sinn darin. Ich bete, dass ein Wunder geschieht, dass meine Familie und Freunde diese Shots überstehen. Wir müssen stark bleiben, uns unterstützen und zusammenhalten.
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I was very touched by your letter, as I am also alone with my attitude towards C. and vaccination. I can well understand how you feel in your marriage in this situation.
However, I believe that our urgent desire to convince others, especially those very close to us, of our own opinions makes everything very difficult. Especially in these times, when the division of families and society is undoubtedly in the foreground.
As many people as there are in this world, there are probably just as many different truths. Every person has put together their own truth from countless, very individual life experiences and learning processes. He/she believes in it and is convinced of it! No one can see exactly from your point of view, because that is where you are.
I used to be a man who was so firmly convinced of his own truth that he was determined to convince everyone else of it with supposedly unbeatable arguments. That doesn't work, the other person comes under massive pressure and "walls themselves in".
My wife left me after 19 years of living together and started a new life. She no longer wanted to talk to me about problems at the end of our marriage. She knew where it would end.
I have now learned to listen patiently to everyone's opinion.
I also report my opinion, but without the intention of trying to convince. Everyone can form their own opinion of the situation and weigh up the arguments against each other.
In my opinion, the only way to avoid the current scenario is to sit down at a table, listen to all opinions and allow them to be heard. Let's work together constructively. Everyone is afraid, everyone is right in their own way and according to their level of knowledge, everyone wants this unfortunate situation to end.
Love is not tied to whether someone agrees with me. Love is unconditional.
I wish you lots of strength and perseverance! This is a very difficult time for all of us, but only love will bring us forward together and make us strong.
Best regards
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
gerade habe ich zu dem aktuell veröffentlichten Artikel von Herrn Langemann „…habe ich nicht Recht…“ im Kommentar den Begriff der ‚kognitiven Dissonanz‘ erwähnt.
It also fits in with your husband's behavior.
Yes, and as I also mentioned in that comment, this behavior currently applies to about 80 % ... probably more rather than less ... of the German population.
I can only say to you ... hang in there ... hang in there ... hang in there, even if you are slowly but surely losing your nerve and patience - if only because of the increasingly aggressive rhetoric of the mainstream media at the moment.
But when I see and read the number and content of all the previous comments alone ... it gives me courage and hope again ... to keep going.
Und wenn man auch nur eine Handvoll Menschen findet, die bereit sind mit einem gegen den Strom der Massen zu schwimmen, dann ist es das wert sich weiterhin gegenseitig Mut zu machen und an das ‚Richtige‘ zu glauben!
With this in mind ... we will not give up!
Best regards
Joachim Riegel
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Ihr Brief hat mich sehr beschäftigt. Im Freundeskreis meiner Mutter (Ende 70J) spielt sich im Moment so etwas ähnliches ab. Die Freundin meiner Mutter, auch ungeimpft und regierungskritisch, ihr Mann voll auf Regierungslinie und fiebert auf seinen Booster hin. Letzte Woche erzählte sie mir ihr Mann hätte jetzt Angst sie könne ihn anstecken. Ich beruhige sie immer wieder und bekräftige sie darin stark und „cool“ zu bleiben. Dazu muss ich erklären, sie kommt jede Woche einmal bei uns vorbei, damit ich ihr mit einem Schnelltest „Gesundheit“ ausstellen kann und sie mit dem Schein zum Friseur und/oder Kaffee kann. Ich habe eine entsprechende Schulung durchlaufen und ermögliche so allen im Familien und Bekanntenkreis diese Tests zum Preis des Testes (€1-2). Die Zeit spende ich gerne, wir sitzen dann am Küchentisch und erzählen ein paar Minuten bis das Ergebnis fertig ist. Gott sei Dank sind wir selbstständig und haben Zeit für so etwas. Was ich Ihnen sagen möchte, Sie sind nicht alleine. Ich glaube es gibt viel mehr die so denken wie wir, sie sind nur meistens vorsichtig ihre Meinung kund zu tun.
I recommend that you carefully feel out your circle of acquaintances in conversations, ask questions and perhaps meet like-minded people.
My children (in their late 20s) are vaccinated, against my warnings and very unhappy with my decision. After a few verbal arguments and 3 weeks of radio silence, we talk to each other normally again. However, we avoid the subject of C or just make jokes about it without going into detail.
My partner was vaccinated and had a stroke 8 weeks after the 2nd vaccination. He is now back on his feet and says (as a doctor) that it could very well have been caused by the vaccination, but that he can't prove it. He regrets the vaccination very much.
I wish you all the best and strength.....
Hello Karin, my darling's father also fell over in the garden while mowing the lawn a few weeks after the vaccination. I had warned the family about such possible consequences, but nobody would listen to me. He was completely healthy and fit. The bad thing is. It's being suppressed, nobody wants to admit that it was probably caused by the vaccination and there's nothing I can do about it. Everyone except me has already been vaccinated twice. I hope my sister-in-law won't have the children vaccinated when the time comes,
L.G. and lots of strength and stamina!
Dear Ms. Schmitz, dear Mr. Langemann, now I am writing a second time after reading the flood of responses, you can't manage that much. So much openness!!!! I can see that new inner territory is being created, beyond the misery.
Thank you all very much
G. Helmers
Creating new inner territory! What a great metaphor! I'm making it my own and will continue to use it. Thank you for that and all the best for you.
Dear Ms. Schmitz, dear everyone,
I was very touched by your letter and would like to take the time to write to you. After such a long and, I hope, generally happy marriage, you have reached a point that you could never have imagined. Thank God I am personally divorced from the father of my child (more on that later) but perhaps it will help you if I tell you about my best friend and myself.
Sie ist geimpft, ich nicht. Schon seit April 2020 habe ich ihr oft, wahrscheinlich zu oft, meine kritischen Gedanken mitgeteilt. Sie ist meines Erachtens nach arglos und kann sich nicht vorstellen, dass hier ein, sagen wir mal „größerer Plan“ dahinter steckt. Mit dem Great Reset, der verschleierten Wirtschaftskrise, Pharmalobby etc brauche ich ihr nicht zu kommen.
We've been friends for almost 35 years now and we practise tolerance. Live and let live. We each tell the other what we think, but then it's good again.
Vielleicht ist das auch eine Möglichkeit für Sie? Besinnen Sie sich auf die schönen Momente und die Gemeinsamkeiten, versuchen Sie „das Thema“ auszusparen.
Divide and rule. Once you understand how much kings, popes and politicians have profited from this and still do (probably worse and more perfidious than ever before), you realize that you are playing their game through strife and disagreements!
Ich selbst habe viele „Freunde“ und Bekannte verloren. Das hat mich geschmerzt. Gleichzeitig sind aber viele tolle Freunde in mein Leben getreten. Es gibt Menschen welche ich erst einem Jahr kenne aber welchen ich mehr vertraue als Leuten die ich mein Leben lang kenne. Ich wünsche Ihnen von Herzen solche Freunde die Sie auffangen können.
Ich persönlich habe mich komplett aus der „Ausgehszene“ verabschiedet was mir nicht schwer fällt. Allerdings lebe ich in ständiger Angst weil der Vater meines Kindes pro Impfung ist. Mein Kind ist mittlerweile durch die Schule, Freunde, Trainer und seinen Vater so indoktriniert, dass es geimpft werden will. „Wenn ich 12 bin will ich geimpft werden um die alten Menschen zu schützen. Papa sagt jeder der sich nicht impfen lässt ist asozial“.
Ich behalte Ausweis, Krankenkassenkarte immer bei mir, an Tagen an denen der schicke Impfbus in die Schule kommt behalte ich das Kind Zuhause…. damit nicht eine „spontane Gelegenheit“ genutzt werden kann. Ich weiß nicht was ich machen würde wenn es soweit ist dass mein Ex wegen eines Termins anruft…
Hang in there, everyone. They want us to go crazy and no longer be able to think clearly.
Dear sunflower, my son is 12 and thank God he was spared a recovered certificate ... until March ... now positive for the second time ... again quarantine which he has to spend in his room with his vaccinated father and girlfriend for the second time ...
The food is placed in front of his door.
I pray that this recovery certificate will now be extended until May.
My son doesn't want to be vaccinated, but his father has already let it be known that if mom doesn't want it, we will sue her.
I understand her very well, her fears ...
That was my hardest school at the time!
I'm coping quite well with it (also due to the postponement, of course) ...
I can't give you any tips...just always work consistently on yourself, face your fears and look closely at what they are trying to tell you.
Es wird gut ausgehen davon bin ich immer noch überzeugt !“!
My warmest regards
Thank you. I pray for you that your son will receive another extension of his convalescent status.
Ich wünschte wir hätten so etwas. Gar nicht für mich – mir ist es mittlerweile vollkommen egal ob ich jemals wieder ins Kino, Restaurant etc „darf“. Wenn sie mich nicht wollen, bitteschön, ich habe genügend Alternativen – sondern für mein Kind.
We recently had contact with a PCR-positive child. I prayed and hoped so much... unfortunately everything was negative for my child. I'm really doing everything I can to get infected, but it's not working.
And then I laugh, seriously, how crazy is it to pray about catching a disease that everyone else is scared to death of?
Mir wurde von meinem Exmann auch gesagt „dann entscheidet das das Jugendamt“. Ich bin mittlerweile so weit, dass ich dann klagen würde um Zeit zu schinden. Man macht sich dann aber wiederum verdächtig, ich sehe die Blicke wenn wir in der Schule sind. „Ach ja, stimmt, Siiiiiiiiiiiiiie waren das, Sie sind ja nicht geimpft“. Ich wünsche uns allen gute Nerven diese Demütigungen zu überstehen.
And a positive test for all of us 🙂 at least for the children
Es ist erschütternd und rüttelt mich zutiefst wenn man sich diese Kommentare durchliest. Eltern bangen um ihre genesene Kinder, daß sie doch um Himmelswillen eine Zertifikatsverlängerung bekommen. Dabei weiss man doch inzwischen, daß der Schutz durch eine natürliche Immunisierung zig mal höher ist als der durch die Impfung, sprich: besser kann man nicht geschützt sein bzw. andere schützen. Aber der Druck/Zwang durch Medien, Politik, Behörden, etc. um am „gesellschaftlichen Leben“ teilzuhaben, wird täglich größer. Ich kann nur appellieren: „Bleiben wir standhaft. Vertrauen wir auf eine Macht die größer ist als wir. Üben wir uns in Toleranz und Mitgegefühl und suchen wir Gleichgesinnte die nicht vergessen haben über den Tellerrand zu blicken.
Ich bin der einzige Ungeimpfte in der Firma und verstehe sie sehr gut,Man erhält immer und von jedem,nach jedem Impfdurchgang exakt die gleichen Worte „Mir geht es gut“ nicht mehr nicht weniger.Obwohl ich mit allen Prognosen seit 2020 Recht hatte.Maskem Lockdown etc. Bin ich ein Feind.Ich sage nichts mehr,ziehe mich zurück und lasse die Anderen in ihrem Saft schmoren.Reden bringt gar nichts,Fakten werden ignoriert,also warum die Nerven ruinieren.
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
My partnership and some friendships also broke down during this crisis.
That hurts and is caused by deliberate division.
But it is probably true that it takes a crisis to reveal true character and that we have been under the illusion that some of the people we were once close to are the brainchild of.
Disillusioned greetings!
Just yesterday I said goodbye to 40 years of friendship. No longer bearable. Seriously wishing for less complications if I get C anytime soon... MSM brainwashed. Seriously parroting MaiLab indoctrination nonsense! I haven't noticed this much stupidity in 40 years. I now believe that something is switched off in her brain and that the vaccination also changes her character.
Best wishes and you will always find something better than death...
Hi, bin ich froh das ich nicht alleine bin, habe jetzt gerade einen Eintrag gemacht um mit Dr.Stöcker Corona Impfung behandelt zu werden:“https://luebecker-impfung.de/Impfwunsch!“ (auf Chrom lässt sich die Seite nicht öffnen aber unter Firefox) weil es sich um eine normal und nicht um eine DNA Impfung handelt. Ich habe schon früher keine Freunde gehabt nur gute bekannte, den sind wir ehrlich, richtige Freunde gibt es nicht (vieleicht unter 1000 einen) Meine ganze Familie 2 Kinder und Frau sind geimpft und machen mir das leben genau so schwer wie Ihr Mann. Mir wird auch bei unseren bekannten gesagt:“ Du steckst uns an!“ Da hab ich gesagt Ihr seid doch geimpft eher steck Ihr mich an, da lachen Sie mich aus. Ehrlich?? Sie sind Irre!“ Aber das ist mir egal die Zeit wird die Wahrheit ans Licht befördern.
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
So many comments. You are not alone.
I was very moved by your words, but also by the many comments.
I'm very lucky that my husband and I are on the same page. It's a different story with my colleagues, friends and family.
But as so many people have written, do we really want to be divided?
The many comments gave me a lot of comfort because I realized that I am not alone.
May they also give you comfort.
And thank you Mr. Langemann for your work.
Sincerely
Birgit Schörner
Mein Vater, Dr.-Ing., 30 Jahre im gleichen Fachgebiet, einst amtlicher Weltmeister seines Faches (Messtechnik), glaubt an Inzidenzien, glaubt an PCR-Testergebnisse. Ich habe letztens zwei Stunden immer wieder angesetzt, ihm auf eine email zu antworten, bis ich nur eine Zeile schrieb: „Ich will keinen Kontakt mehr.“ – Seit dem bin ich im Frieden mit mir. – Ziehen Sie aus, in eine Rentner-WG oder zu Gleichgesinnten aufs Land, vielleicht nur mit Kohleofen und Bad halbe Treppe. Vielleicht kommt er zur Besinnung, vielleicht nicht. Toxische Beziehungen töten. Im Raum WF kann ich was anbieten…
Hello Carsten,
I was surprised twice when I read your lines.
Tief in Meßtechnik und will Inzidenz & PCR-„Befunde“ nicht durchschauen 🙂
„keinen Kontakt – toxische Beziehung“ – klingt ähnlich krass.
Du hast Dir zum Nicht-wahrhaben-wollen- o. Mitläufer-Syndrom möglicherweise ebenfalls einige Gedanken gemacht. Das beschäftigt mich seit langem und habe dazu Playlisten angelegt und in den Beschreibungen der letzten 3 Videos meine Kurz-Erklärung notiert. Es freut mich, wenn Du das kommentierst. Yt-Kanal „Selber Denken“
Dear Ms. Schmitz, I feel very strongly for you and have had similar experiences. I, too, am largely a lone fighter in this madness and have had terrible experiences in partnerships, friendships and also in my close family circle. But you also learn something beautiful about yourself in this situation. It's hard to describe, but it's the certainty of being able to maintain clear thinking and a sense of fundamental rights and an ethical basis, even when the world around you has gone mad. I think it says a lot about a person's character not to be caught up in propaganda and brainwashing. Be proud of yourself. Stick with it. Oh yes, one piece of advice: network in local groups, e.g. at theBasis, look for like-minded people via Telegram, maybe start a small women's group, go into the forest every day and take a deep breath. And what helps me most personally is practicing yoga whenever I can. It gives me the peace, strength and health I need to face the madness again. All the best to you and a hug in my thoughts from afar
Hello Mrs. Schmitz...even if it is hardly comforting, every one of us enlightened people feels the same way as you.
Wenn Sie Interesse haben, dann lesen Sie doch einmal das Höhlengleichnis von Platon. Das „Problem“ ist 2.500 Jahre alt und eine Lösung gibt es nicht. Damit meine ich, Ihren Mann zu überzeugen, der von sich glaubt, er wüsste alles. Er ist einer der „Gefesselten“ im Höhlengleichnis, während Sie sowas wie die „Befreite“ sind.
Kind regards
Sven
Dear Jana,
I can hear myself talking through them. When there is no longer any orientation out there, it is important to find support within yourself. Sport, reconnecting, breaking through routines, learning to listen to the quiet voice inside us. New worlds open up. We set sail for ourselves and suddenly not only is everything different out there, but also the newly discovered worlds within us.
There are great people here at the club.
Hello!
Ich habe zurzeit Angst. Aber nein, ich habe keine Angst vor der Regierung. Ich habe (dank IT Beruf und Homeoffice) auch keine Angst vor dem Jobverlust (Gott sei dank und ich leider dennoch mit all denen, die dieses Ängste durchmachen müssen)! Aber ich habe Angst vor meiner eigenen Ex-Frau. Ich habe Angst, weil wir zwei wunderbare Kinder haben und die Rufe nach der Impfung für Kinder immer lauter werden und weil ich nicht mehr weiß, wie ich meiner Ex noch vertrauen kann, nach all den Dingen, die sie mir bereits zu Beginn der Corona „Pandemie“ angetan hat.
I am afraid that one day she will grab the children and take them to be vaccinated and do the same thing in secret as she has already done with herself.
Gott sei Dank, steht der Kern meiner Familie geschlossen als Coronakritisch und Coronamaßnahmenkritisch zusammen, doch habe ich viele Freunde bereits insofern verloren, als dass sie den völlig Regierungskonformen Weg beschreiten wollen und bereits die ersten Feiern mit systematischer Ausgrenzung durch Tests, etc. abgehalten wurden (Bisher ungetestet durch die „Pandemie“ und das soll auch so bleiben)
Patience is the order of the day, because there will still be dark days ahead, but it will end with humanity as a whole waking up and standing together against tyranny.
Greetings from Bavaria!
Hallo Christian, leider bin ich in derselben Situation. Versuch die Ausweise und die Krankenkassenkarten deiner Kinder zu bekommen. Vielleicht machst du mit ihnen einen Termin beim Arzt wegen irgendetwas und vergisst das alles zurückzugeben? Seitdem ich beides nicht mehr aus der Hand geb fühl ich mich etwas sicherer. Mit meinem Exmann, der ganz wild darauf ist unser Kind zu impfen, vermeide ich das Thema. Wenn er es wieder anspricht werde ich versuchen zumindest eine Schonfrist bis zum Sommer herauszuhandeln. „Wir haben unterschiedliche Meinungen. Was ist wenn ich Recht haben sollte? Lass uns BITTE noch abwarten“. Es ist ein Alptraum.
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I understand that very well! Unfortunately, the case law for separated couples is such that if there is disagreement about a vaccination, the recommendation of the Stiko is used and the decision is made accordingly. Terrible. Stay strong and you have your family behind you!
I also hope for an awakening of the people, but I have also experienced the disagreement and the cooling of the relationship in my extended family. Courage !!! All the best for you
Thank you very much for these words! I will always try to talk openly with the children, I can only trust that they will decide against it themselves and not just project my innermost desire for it onto them.
Best regards, remain steadfast 🙂
Dear Christian,
if you can anticipate in sport, you have an advantage.
Either you move or you are moved.
You are either a rabbit or a snake.
Think about something. There is no alternative.
Take courage!
Greetings from a robin
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Your letter touches me. Fortunately, my husband and I are on the same wavelength, and not just when it comes to C and vaccination. Unfortunately, we are alone in our patchwork family. His two older daughters are vaccinated, but they respect us not being vaccinated. Corona is avoided as a topic. I fear they will also have our 5 sweet grandchildren vaccinated as soon as this is possible. It's different with my biological children. For them, we are tin foil hats, show questionable tendencies and, although we would have always considered ourselves to be more left-green, we are suddenly open to right-wing ideas in their eyes. We have underpinned their view by joining the party "dieBasis", in which we actively campaign for an end to the C-measures.
Apart from my husband, my grown-up children were my best friends until C. We did a lot together and I could have sworn there wasn't a piece of paper between us. After 18 months, I'm not even sure we celebrate Christmas together, and even think it's possible we'll lose each other entirely over this issue. I push away my fear that they could be harmed by the vaccination. If what Dr. Wodarg and Prof. Bhakdi fear happens, I will be by their side. If it gets bad, I will hold their hand and if it goes really badly, I hope that it at least goes quickly.
My daughter let me know today that, in her opinion, I have maneuvered myself offside with my eyes open and am now complaining about the consequences. She finds all my sources questionable. Because Dr. Wodarg also speaks to KenFM, he is discredited in her eyes. What is important is not what he has to say, but who he is talking to. My son told me that if I took part in demonstrations where there were also Nazis, I would be no better than them. So here I sit, I have two children, one of whom is a high school teacher for history, among other things, and a son who is studying political science, thought I had brought them up to be open and critical minds and feel that I have failed. At the same time, I sometimes feel almost immeasurably disappointed at how little they actually think of me when they think of me and my decision in this way.
I fear there will only be a rapprochement again when this whole scam is finally exposed.
Dear Antje
You have not failed your children at all...the outside influence on your children is simply greater than the human values you have taught them. Please stay true to yourself and continue to be strong...they will thank you in the end. I am alone with my son (20) and I am lucky that he thinks the same way I do...we are both unvaccinated and will stay that way.
God bless you and may he give you the strength and energy you need to get through everything well.
Kind regards
Katrin
Dear Antje,
I am deeply shocked! Yes, I lost my partner of many years to this nonsense, but if my children turned away, even vaccinated themselves, I would take my own life. I'm grateful on my knees that they think for themselves and that I must have done something right. When one of them thought desperately about doing it at the beginning of university because of the rush, my heart briefly stopped beating. I was able to work it out with him and now I'm no longer afraid of anything in life. As a teacher from a very authoritarian home, I have struggled for recognition and praise all my life. Now that I have lost all respect for the incredibly stupid people around me and especially my superiors, I am absolutely free. I am no longer afraid of anything. This madness has made me freer than ever before. I sincerely hope that your children wake up in time and that you don't have to pray for a quick death on their deathbed. Give me a big hug!!! Chris
Dear Chris, no, you won't kill yourself if your children get vaccinated. I'll tell you why: the regime wants us to kill ourselves! Why do you think the suicide rates have still not been published?
Ich sag mir an ganz schwarzen Tagen: sie wollen, dass du durchdrehst. Sie wollen, dass du dich umbringst. Und aufgibst. Das ist meines Erachtens nach eingeplant und gewollt. Deswegen dieses verdammte „social distancing“. Und da fallen wir nicht drauf rein!
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Thank you very much for your sympathy! My children will not be vaccinated. They are very firm in their decision, even the older one now. I've already had two suicides in my family, but my thoughts about it have now faded as there is no longer any fear. But I must also admit that the thought of death has always been a good friend to me because it was a last resort. I'm not afraid of it either. I just don't want anything to happen to my children.
One of them once had myocarditis from catching the flu. You should never expose your children to something so horrible because of a completely useless vaccination. A friend of another son was blind for three days after treatment for a clot, the father of a colleague has facial paralysis, but none of the dozens of pupils who tested positive were ever really ill. Why do so few wake up?
So few wake up because they have to admit that 1) they have been completely lied to and cheated by the government. All their lives! 2) we were right all along.
I know mathematicians in my immediate environment who don't realize what's happening here. In my immediate environment I have someone with a heart attack, someone with shingles and someone who died seven days after being vaccinated.
Nevertheless, people are blind.
I'm no longer afraid of death. I used to be. I also used to have respect for water cannons, the police.... I'm much braver than I thought, I've learned a lot about myself and met wonderful people. I pray, I've become a believer and I'm convinced that there are dark forces at work here. I can't explain it any other way.
<3
Yes, I also feel freer than ever before
With all due respect? Who offered the children the opportunity to study?
Who financed most of the studies?
Hello dear Antje,
mir geht es mit meinen erwachsenen Kindern genauso. Ich bin die größte Verschwörungstheoretikerin und natürlich auch ein Nazi, seitdem ich für unsere Grundrechte auf die Straße gehe. Meine Kinder sind von einem Afro Amerikaner, ich spreche mich also selbst frei von jedweder Fremdenfeindlichkeit. Es ist für mich bis heute nicht nachvollziehbar, dass meine Meinung und mei Rat vor dieser „Krise“ für meine Kinder immer von höchstem Wert und sehr willkommen waren, nun bin ich in ihren Augen eine durchgeknallte Schwurblerin. Ich werde wie eine Aussätzige behandelt und man meidet mich wo und wie es nur geht. Alle meine „alten“ Kontakte, Freunde und Bekannte sind auf den Zug nach Corona aufgesprungen und mir abhanden gekommen. Die restliche Familie ignoriert mich so gut es eben geht, ohne dass man sich als komplettes A…….. outet. Auch ich habe mich der Partei „die Basis“ angeschlossen und dort eine wirklich tolle Freundin gefunden und ganz viele, ganz wunderbare Menschen getroffen und lieben gelernt. Zwei meiner Kinder sind total auf Spur und haben sich diese Biowaffe injezieren lassen und es hat kein bitten und kein betteln meinerseits geholfen. Ich bin irgendwie innerlich zerstört, weil ich so unendlich Angst davor habe, dass meine Mädels krank werden oder dass ich sie im schlimmsten Fall werde beerdigen müssen. Gestern hat mir dann meine Mutter ( 3-fach gentechnisch verändert) per SMS mitgeteilt, dass wir uns nur noch sehen werden, wenn ich mich vorher teste. Ich fand das ganz fürchterlich, weil ich meinen Kindern niemals die Tür weisen würde, egal wie krank oder ansteckend sie sind. Die Propaganda Maschine hat ganze Arbeit geleistet und unsere Kinder sind ganz klar in der Schule „verkorkst“ worden. Ich erkläre mir das Ganze immer wie folgt: es ist wie in einem Horrorfilm, die Menschen stehen hinter einer Tür, die in die Freiheit führt und wissen, dass das Böse dahinter steht. Sie wollen und können einfach nicht akzeptieren, dass wir alle von vorne bis hinten belogen wurden und sie bleiben hinter der Tür stehen. Wir alle wissen mittlerweile wie unsagbar durchtrieben und schlecht das Ganze ist und wie weh es tut, wenn man sich der Tragweite klar wird.
Dear Antje, I can assure you that you are not a bad mother and that you have not failed twice. I am glad that people as sincere as you are are on the same team as I am.
I don't know how I'm going to get through all this myself, but we have to stand firm and keep fighting for our children's freedom. I send you lots of love. Nicole
Hello,
I read your letter here, I wish you were my mother. My parents put me in a children's store and brought me up in an alternative way. Who, how, what, who doesn't ask remains stupid! That was their motto, they went to demonstrations against Chernobyl. And now? My father is a doctor, I always thought he was a good doctor, he didn't vaccinate me as a child, it's in a children's diary. And now he's behind this vaccination. What did he complain about when I was a child, about the pharmaceutical industry influencing doctors and politics, what did he complain about values being lowered, e.g. high blood pressure and diabetes, so that more people have to take medicine. What a rant he had about too many medicines that older people in particular have to take, which can possibly cancel out their effectiveness and thus hinder or react violently with each other and put the patient in danger. He complained that more and more consultation time was being cut because health insurance companies were no longer paying for it. Sometimes less medication is needed, often conversations are much more important. I could go on like this. As a child, I listened to the beetroot, later my mother scolded Russian and Turkish fathers. I'm disappointed in them, they taught me values that they never believed in themselves. Or believed in, but drank their own opinions down with alcohol in order to belong to society. My parents argued so much. We were almost thrown out of hotels when I was 10 or 11 years old. They always said they didn't argue, they discussed openly and wanted us to learn to discuss. When I got to the age where I could join in the discussions, I was told that I had no idea and wasn't on their level intellectually. That's right, I never started smoking and drinking, no matter how many stupid comments came my way. I've always stayed true to myself. I started doing research. My grandparents once accused my parents of voting for and following people who led us into misfortune (the Greens). Now I know what he meant. The Greens were founded by old Nazis. Werner Vogel, Cohn Bendit (not an Old Nazi, of Jewish descent) was an educator in a children's store and as a child at the notorious Odenwald School. Werner Vogel (old Nazi), a co-founder of the Greens, was closely associated with the Nuremberg Indian Commune. You can read up on that. Not for the faint-hearted. I feel used and lied to and deceived by my parents. The values they instilled in me never really counted for them. Everything that was frowned upon, they lived by themselves when I grew up. The Porsche, the expensive clothes, traveling several times a year. As a child, I was allowed to be laughed at because of second-hand clothes, I wasn't allowed to read Bravo or have a Barby. Everything was frowned upon and commercial! I am extremely disappointed in my parents. Because they are now traveling the world, vaccinated, in a pandemic. But their grandchildren are not allowed to do anything! They have lived, they have lived well, if I had to choose, I would always choose to protect my children! They still have their lives ahead of them. But not with an experimental vaccination so that I can travel and party again. Because children are hardly affected by coronavirus. Honestly, I'm angry with my parents, who called themselves hippies. I get the impression that the people who get vaccinated are only concerned about themselves. It's not about the common good, but about their own fear that they might die! And these are values that I didn't learn. I'm worried about the future of my children in such a society. And I ask myself what kind of future is that? If the unvaccinated have been hunted and displaced, who is to blame and will be hunted if the climate gets worse and worse? I saw The Wave (film Experiment of a Teacher 1981/83), was in Dachau, in the documentation center, read the diary of Anne Frank, Schindler's List. These fates really got to me. I always asked myself how that was possible back then. I asked my grandfather, he said that he had heard about it, he once ran after a car that was picking up a Jewish classmate, the soldier said, if you keep following, I'll shoot you! He said, what could I have done as a child? And what can our children do now? They can't do anything about this policy, nor can they prevent anything worse. It's not about us parents, it's about the future of our children! And man has only caused damage so far through his interventions in nature! It will be the same again with Corona! But you as a mother have not failed! The Wave from 1981/83 a really good movie, my almost 14 year old son had to watch it with me, shows very well how it works, no matter which parental home or upbringing.
Dear Antje,
I also have 2 grown-up children. And before C., I was firmly convinced that we parents had brought them up to be critical, open-minded people. My son in particular was always very critical of the government and never missed a May Day demonstration. What can I say, both are triple vaccinated and fully in line. And I'm a stubborn donkey. We have to avoid the subject, otherwise it will damage our relationship. Does her uncritical conformity make me sad? Very much! Have I failed in my parenting? I don't think so, because they still want contact with me and they make their own decisions. And I don't have to like them, unfortunately. But as long as we stay in contact with each other, I have the opportunity to provide occasional food for thought.
Kind regards
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Your words have touched my heart. From my own experience, I can tell you that words will unfortunately do little to change your situation.
My mother (80 years old) also only gets her information from the public media. She didn't want to believe me when I tried to show her other reports. When my sister and I showed her pictures and videos of us at the demo in Berlin, she was completely flabbergasted. It was exactly the opposite of what she saw in the public media at the same time. That was a bit of a wake-up call for her. Since then, she understands us better and we can talk openly about everything as a family again.
Another topic, but perhaps this will help you in your life with your husband. I've been vegan for a few years now. My husband has remained a meat eater. I have come to accept that he has his opinion and I have mine. We have decided for our lives that we love each other enough not to let these different attitudes to life separate us. I cook vegan and if he wants to eat meat, he cooks for himself. Many friends can't understand that either. Some friends have stopped inviting us over because it's so difficult to cook for me. Other friendships have become stronger.
Perhaps these experiences have helped me to come to terms with the current situation.
If you love your husband, then look for common ground. Accept each other's opinions but don't let them become the dominant theme in your marriage.
Look for people who think like you. On the Telegram page: Cafe to sit you can find loved ones locally.
Please excuse my many spelling mistakes. Since I have a reading/spelling problem, I usually run my texts through a spelling program. Unfortunately, this was not possible here. Nevertheless, it was very important for me to write to you, as your letter touched me deeply.
I wish you and your husband all the best and hope that you will find a way out of this crisis together.
Kind regards
Petra Roth
Dear Mrs. Schmitz
I would like to thank you for your open letter, which is very valuable as an exchange and encourages us to think. My husband and I agree, thank God, but of our 5 children, only my son and his wife are unvaccinated, which is a big worry, of the grandchildren
I don't even want to talk about it, it's too bad. You can't talk to the vaccinated children because they don't want to talk about it right from the start.
have rejected. But now we have so much unsaid! It's different with girlfriends, where we were able to let the opposites stand and share our opinions.
respect each other, which is a good thing.
I sincerely hope that you will find your way and thank you once again for this encouragement. All the best for you, your husband and also for Mr. Langemann.
All the love
Ursula Lüthi
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
You are not alone in your pain. I have had to experience how my daughter's marriage, which has worked quite well up to now, has suffered because my daughter has dealt very intensively with the reports on the side effects of the vaccination in particular. As you can imagine, there are a lot of doubts and concerns.
She herself is under incredible pressure at work to get vaccinated and is also worried about the health of her little boy, my grandson. And I also have serious fears for my daughter and grandson - how could it be otherwise? My son-in-law - until now a responsible, helpful person - mutates at times into a rabid dogmatist - objections and offers of discussion are brushed aside. For reasons I don't understand, he blindly believes the propaganda.
Es trifft also zu, dass in der Krise mitunter Charaktereigenschaften hervor treten, die eben auch negativ überraschen. Zugleich konstatiere ich, dass meine Tochter eine bislang nicht vermutete Leidensfähigkeit und Geduld an den Tag legt- es ist die Liebe einer Mutter- ohne Kind hätte sie Reissaus genommen, ganz sicher. Ich fühle mich von diesem Familiendrama derart mitgenommen ,dass meine eigene Situation, die hier auch noch ins Prekariat führen könnte , in den Hintergrund tritt. Ich versuche , Optimismus zu bewahren, was mir in den letzten Tagen kaum gelang. Darunter leiden dann wiederum Anrufer aus der Familie- es fällt mir so schwer , nicht nur zu schimpfen und mich zu beklagen. Wahrlich -Telefonate mit mir sind derzeit alles andere als erfreulich, doch habe ich mich einfach nicht im Griff. Ein wenig kann ich davon zehren ,dass ich mir den Urlaubstraum , eine Reise durch Namibia zu machen in diesem Jahr , nicht durch Corona habe zunichte machen lassen. So haben wir uns ungeimpft auf die Rundreise getraut. Da das Land sich erst zaghaft wieder dem Tourismus öffnet, hatten wir Zeit uns mit Einheimischen über Corona auszutauschen- und so habe ich berichtet- über Ärzte , die in Deutschland angefeindet werden, wenn Sie sich Mit Maskenbefreiungstests für Ihre Patienten einsetzen und über Richter, die von Kollegen schikaniert werden, über friedliche Demonstranten , die in Berlin verprügelt wurden und über Medien, die -von Steuergeldern bezahlt-den Verstand beleidigen. Was ich berichtete wurde interessiert, ziemlich erstaunt aber vor allem ohne Hysterie aufgenommen, wie auch ich so manches über das namibische „Infektionsmanagent“ erfuhr. Nun – Namibia wurde ja aus Deutschland frühzeitig und „fürsorglich“ mit PCR Tests und Vakzinen versorgt. So lautete mein Rat an pfiffige Hotelmitarbeiter: Don´t let them fool you. Use your brain.-Wir haben dort Freiheit genießen können-und die Gastgeber Ihrerseits waren echt dankbar. Es waren schöne 3 Wochen, entspannt und unter Menschen , bodenständig und normal- Deutschland ist eben nicht die ganze Welt- und es tat gut, dass zu erleben.
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I am and will remain unvaccinated. My sister, who has been vaccinated twice, told me yesterday that she was thinking of getting the booster soon. She still has about two months to go (vaccination protection ;-). My brother-in-law will get the booster soon.
For months, I passed on information critical of vaccination to my brother-in-law and sister, talked my head off, argued with facts and figures. In the end, I was told not to do this. She no longer wants to talk to me about this topic.
I am now doing what I resolved to do weeks ago but have not been able to keep up until now: I'm letting go for good. I respect your wishes (unfortunately very belatedly) and pray for your survival without permanent damage.
Kind regards from Mathias H.
Unfortunately that doesn't help, you can't get to the people with it, I experience it that way too. I've given up and hope that nothing happens to my original family as a result of the vaccination. There is nothing more I can do . All the best for you
Hello Mathias,
am currently going through the same experiences with my family and friends. And the only thing that helps me against the worries, anger and sadness is to know that Jesus Christ has overcome the world and will have the last word. As a weary and burdened person, I follow his invitation to hand over my worries to Him and be refreshed. I allow myself to be blessed with His peace and look to Him for the wisdom I need. I wish you and all of us God's rich blessing and strength.
Greetings from Neuwied
Karsten
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
mein Mann und ich haben eine ähnliche „Altersrelation“ wie es bei Ihnen der Fall ist. Zu meinem großen Glück sind wir uns jedoch absolut und höchst kritisch einig in Sachen Corona-Politik und Impfung. Mit unserem Freundes- und Bekanntenkreis sieht es dagegen ganz anders aus. Auch hier haben wir die totale Ablehnung jeglicher anderweitiger Informationskanäle erfahren (auch RKI, DIVI, Statista etc. – alles nicht der Mühe wert). Die Ignoranz ist unerträglich. Viele Kontakte sind zerbrochen und das schmerzt immer mehr. Selbst unsere Tochter ist dem geltenden Narrativ mit allen Konsequenzen verfallen und sieht weder die gesundheitlichen noch die politischen Gefahren. Aber zumindest ist mit ihr trotz alledem weiter ein liebevoller Umgang miteinander möglich. Vielleicht können Sie sich auch bezüglich ihres Ehemannes auf verbleibende Gemeinsamkeiten fokussieren und die Diskrepanzen so gut es geht ausblenden. Ja, oberflächlich – aber vielleicht hilfreich für die Seele. Im Übrigen: Auch für die Seele gibt es Unterstützung in vielen Gruppen an vielen Orten, die sich regelmäßig treffen. Das „böse“ telegram kann hier weiterhelfen.
I wish you much strength and all the best!
Anja
Good day to all dear people, as a great optimist, I am often shocked at how some of my "friends" tick, I am the only one in the family who is not vaccinated, apart from my two children 19 and 15 and their mother, everyone around us is now vaccinated. Today my partner and I had to cancel the trip to "friends" in Stuttgart planned for next weekend, I wrote that unfortunately I couldn't go to the restaurant for dinner because I wasn't vaccinated. Less than 30 minutes later I got a call saying that was terrible and how could I not be vaccinated, they don't want to meet unvaccinated people at the moment. That's terrible and as I write here, I'm shedding tears like the sun is always shining. But I'll be back in a minute ...... The sad thing is that someone who has almost been chain-smoking for 40 years is telling me..... I think to myself, but well, on the phone I said that I understand everyone and ask them to accept my current decision. That's my actual attitude, but words like that are hard to process, even for optimists.
If someone had told me that we would be turning the screw even more from the top this year, I wouldn't have wanted to believe it with my optimism.
At some point it will normalize, it can't go on like this every year, in my opinion.
No one needs this very crazy time, but I have been able to learn a lot for myself during this time. I now understand history for myself, which I would never have guessed how what could happen in history and how over the centuries, much in its way is repeated again and again, it just comes through the door with different faces.
My partner is vaccinated, is 100% behind me and accepts my decision, I also accept hers, she doesn't know if she will be boosted, she gets what I read and watch and is also zero for 2G which makes no sense.
We made ourselves comfortable in the garden 3 weeks ago, with beautiful decorations, lights, bonfires, almonds, mulled wine and chestnuts. Invite friends over who accept it as it is. I personally feel sorry about doing without, but I wonder if my partner can hold out with me, she knows that she can eat with others or go to a Christmas market and doesn't have to be considerate, I hope that she actually does it, nobody should be disadvantaged by my attitude.
Now I wish you all out there a wonderful Christmas season ♥️.....you are not alone...
Dear Thorsten,,, I wish you and your family all the best... I am also unvaccinated and will remain so ... Come what may. I can say that because I am single and don't have to take anything or anyone into consideration... A lot will happen... and I think it will be important to be there when the awakening begins and the truth comes to light... For all the tears, the pain and the suffering... Love from Bavaria... from Solveig
Mr. Langemann - simply thank you!
Your contributions - quality!
All this gives hope!
Dear Ms. Schmitz, I also had tears in my eyes when I read your words. And like most people here, I have had many similar experiences. Including with my closest friend after more than 30 years together. But! And perhaps this will give you some comfort: I have also learned to deal with the other person's attitude and some of my relationships have actually changed for the better. For example, I decided together with my ex-husband (who is vaccinated) (also as a result of the ever-increasing isolation) that we will now share the apartment again where we raised our daughter together many years ago. My ex-husband is open to my attitude, listens to my criticisms from time to time, but also draws my attention when he has the feeling that I'm getting carried away with something. We complement each other well and share our everyday lives with mutual respect. The only disturbing thing is that there are friends who can't understand how this can work because they probably wouldn't want to live with someone who hasn't been vaccinated. But I can shake that off quite well now. A very close friend of ours (he was our best man many years ago) suffered a severe stroke after the second vaccination because his high blood pressure was not diagnosed and nobody at the vaccination center was interested in taking a medical history. He is now in a wheelchair and even if it unfortunately cannot be proven that the vaccination was/is responsible, every visit to the rehab center is a moment of deep reflection and doubt for my ex-husband and I appreciate that very much. What I want to say is this: it works! Certainly not with many people, but it's not impossible. Sites like this one give comfort and I'm sure that in the end, everyone who somehow belongs together will find each other. The staying power required for this is sometimes a great challenge. Your relationship sounds to me at first like it will be worth it. I sincerely wish you and all of us the strength we need to get through this time and stay strong. Sincerely, Ulrike Stallbörger
We live together in a parallel world. Hang in there and, as they say, only in a crisis do true friends show their true colors. All the best for you in the future
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
The other day I was driving through a miniature village in the Swabian Alb, and someone had written on his living room window in big red letters: stand firm!
I was delighted and resolved to stop, ring the bell and say thank you the next time I passed through.
It is now almost 30 years since I went to a lecture by a doctor who wanted to talk about cancer, but at the beginning wrote the letters AIDS on the blackboard, one below the other, which led to understandable murmuring in the audience, but the doctor then went on to write: after the A-ngst, after the I -st , then D -as and S - worst. Fear is the worst! Every illness is made worse by fear!
Wasn't there once a movie called: Fear eats the soul?
Black out due to anxiety, e.g. at the dentist, or before a paper at school/university or an exam...
Fear of death because you have lost faith, forgotten how to pray...
Were Florence Nightingale or Mother Theresa afraid? Why did they not fall ill despite close and prolonged contact with hundreds/thousands of seriously ill and infectious people?
Soon it will be Epiphany (January 6th ), in old pictures you can see the 3 kings with waving cloaks walking/riding towards their destination, only the star in the sky is their guide and their destination. When they suddenly no longer see the star because they initially think that the child must be in the castle in the city, they meet Herod...the star appears again when they go to rest...
Sometimes the sky is so clear here at night that you can see a few stars shining and the moon at the moment. They stand there steadfastly, unshakeable, forever and ever, in peace... So you can become calm inside.
All the best and love to you!
Thank you Mr. Langemann for your work!
Yours sincerely
Barbara
❤️
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Could it be that your husband has always been the way he is now showing his extreme age? Perhaps you should reflect on the decades of your marriage.
Personally, I drew the line at self-love after 54 years.
Today I am 78 years old and a clear thinker. There are so many of us and the vaccination terror will soon be over!
Kind regards
Premi
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
my current nightly research on the Internet,
to deal with this political madness, last night
interrupted by your touching letter to Mr. Langemann.
What a warm feeling of connection flowed through me.
I was so pleased that you shared your feelings and thoughts with all of us, thank you for that! Quietly and wisely, Mr. Langemann has opened up a safe space for all of us,
where we can talk and listen to each other. And that's really good. Thank you for that too!
Each of your letters and stories is unique, touching and harrowing at the same time.
I now know that my nightly search through the Internet had exactly this purpose:
To find comfort in connecting with people who can still think and feel clearly in these difficult times. This public space is being taken away from us - and that is bad.
After all, the No1 means of attrition for independent minds and thinkers was and still is
‚Ausgrenzung‘ und ‚Isolation‘.
Dear Mrs. Schmitz, what you are experiencing with your husband is a real ordeal.
I feel very much with you. Because I experience - as we all do in one form or another - the same division.
In my case, with my adult twin daughters. Two really great young, smart, perceptive women - and yet: with the vaccination they took for granted, they apparently also leased the divisive and belittling narrative and treated me
(I'm a philosopher & author) at least at first like a mentally deficient person who has strayed into completely wrong territory in terms of opinion, is unsupportive and irradiated.
When the walls went up more clearly, politicians began to publicly and increasingly shamelessly discredit the rights of the unvaccinated, political programs suddenly did the same and there was not a single objective report to be found anywhere in the leading media - I turned to my children in despair. They shrugged their shoulders and said: "Well, just get vaccinated - then it will stop."
That was actually the worst thing. I would almost say:
one of the darkest days of my life. In 27 years as a loving, devoted and passionate mother, I felt an unprecedented anger towards my own children for the first time and thought in my first affect: that's it, friends of creation!
I'm packing my bags now. There's probably no more room for me at your place.
How often in extreme situations do I hear my father in my mind
(he's been dead for 10 years) - and this time it was just two words: "cui bono?"
At first I didn't understand it - my dad was an old Latin scholar and
liked to quote proverbs. But then came the realization: who benefits from this division?
The person who benefits from it also caused it. That suddenly changed my perception into a
bathed in a different light. I realized that the despair, the rage, this raging anger -
is not mine, not ours, and doesn't even belong there - but the anger of those in power.
The lawyer and journalist Milosz Maturschek calls this "the state's desperate cruelty". And because this division is an attempt to break our resilience, we are fighting within our families and circles of friends. Cui bono. That makes sense. My father certainly sees it even more clearly from above - without the clouds 🙂
That's why, dear Ms. Schmitz, I'm keeping it that way now:
I go into peaceful resistance and strengthen relationships through everything that connects us. With all those who are worth it to me. And send the burgeoning anger back to this inhuman, soulless power that will soon hunt itself down. Let's wait and see.
Think of the gray men in "Momo" by Michael Ende. My favorite book.
They vanish into thin air because their time is over. It's the same now.
I'm currently reading a lot of poems by Erich Mühsam and Georg Kreisler.
Poems give a lot of comfort. And I would like to end with that.
I wish you, dear Ms. Schmitz, dear Mr. Langemann
and all people who write here or who feel alone and marginalized,
God's blessing, protection and support - and buckets of love every day,
by whomever.
Yours, Sonja Anne Blüml
Confidence
Even if the lead weight of the dungeon chains
sometimes force the body to the ground -
Comrades, courage! The strongest chain breaks
and with it every hardship; - except one:
the languor of bent soul wings.
Can you feel the sun shining through the fog?
Your beam drill welds the dungeon gate.
Watch out - the shackles are loosening, comrades!
The field of vision appears wider to the eye;
The familiar sound of weaning rushes to the ear.
The future, surrounded by the past,
tightens our souls: Up!
Erich Mühsam
❤️
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I know exactly how you feel; in my case it's my father, who behaves almost exactly like your husband. From morning till night the TV is on with some mainstream news program. He too is not open to a single other alternative news outlet, or refuses to listen to or watch any of these opposing views to make up his own mind. Just like you, I have sent him several articles and videos with interviews (e.g. with Prof. Bhakdi or Dr. Wodarg) and he has not watched a single one. So much ignorance could make your skin crawl! Sometimes I want to shake him so that he finally comes to his senses. When Jens says the booster vaccination is due, he runs off to get it; it's just unbelievable. You're in a quandary; on the one hand, you just want to drop these people to spare your own nerves, but on the other hand, you can't just give up on them because there's a little spark of hope somewhere that they'll finally take a critical look at what the government, with all its contradictions, is saying.
Thank goodness I have a few friends who are just as critical as I am and who don't want to be injected with this stuff. You now know from all the comments that you are not alone. I hope that gives you some support.
Take good care of yourself and stay the way you are, because that's the way it should be.
Best regards,
Isola
MY LETTER TO ZDF AND OLIVER WELKE:
„Sehr geehrter Herr Welke,
are included in your shipment https://www.zdf.de/comedy/heute-show/heute-show-vom-19-november-2021-100.html eigentlich schon einmal die Parallelen zum Nationalsozialismus aufgefallen? Die Nationalsozialisten haben von den Medienschaffenden eine Stigmatisierung ihrer Mitmenschen, u.a. Juden, Osteuropäer, etc. gefordert und diese haben bedenkenlos geliefert. Ist es für einen übergewichtigen Comedian und damit Corona-Risikopatient zu viel verlangt, einmal über die deutsch-polnische Grenze zu blicken? Wenn Sie Ungeimpfte als schwachsinnige Untermenschen darstellen, steht das ZDF in „bester“ deutscher historischer Tradition. Denn besonders viele davon finden sich in Polen. Dass dort zusätzlich Restaurants, Friseure, Geschäfte, etc. ohne Zugangsbeschränkungen wie 3G oder 2G jedem offen stehen und auch Masken aus der Mode kommen und das, obwohl die Impfquote niedrig liegt, müsste Menschen wie Ihnen zu denken geben, zumal die Inzidenz niedriger als Deutschland oder gar Österreich liegt. Doch wer sein Gehirn zermartert, wie er seinen Beitrag zum Neofaschismus in Deutschland möglichst effizient erfüllen kann, ist anscheinend zum rationalen Umgang mit dieser Krise nicht mehr fähig. Es wird der Zeitpunkt kommen, an dem das Thema Corona für die allermeisten Länder durch ist (s. https://www.msn.com/de-de/nachrichten/welt/gro%C3%9Fbritannien-das-ziel-lautet-herdenimmunit%C3%A4t/ar-AAQWIkC?ocid=uxbndlbing) and we are still supposed to consume your anti-Corona nonsense on a daily basis. I apologize for the clear words. Please see for yourself the human suffering you are causing: https://clubderklarenworte.de/brief-an-den-herausgeber-1/
No, this is not caused by corona. It's caused by people like you or Klaus Schwab, who have long since discovered corona as a business model for themselves: https://www.amazon.de/COVID-19-Great-Reset-Klaus-Schwab/dp/2940631123
It goes without saying that, like Angela Merkel, you are subordinating everything to the goal of the great transformation of our society (see A. Merkel in the 19:00 heute Nachrichten from 22.04.2021). I have explained in detail in several letters to the editor that you should think more before using terminology such as corona or climate deniers: https://clubderklarenworte.de/generation-911/
But as I said, thinking and defamation increasingly no longer seem to go together with people like you, Mr. Welke. The fact that people like you, Mr. Welke, who stand in the tradition of Mr. Bush, Mr. Rumsfeld and Mr. Cheney in terms of concealing the truth, find fertile ground for their methods of defaming the Enlightenment, is both terrible and frightening.
Yours sincerely
Roland Aßmann"
The answer is neither expected nor desired. After all, it seems increasingly impossible for the protagonists of the panic democracy to come to their senses. They have long since entrenched themselves in the Berlin leadership bunker together with the political and social elites, at least until the reality of the world outside collapses on them once again.
Dear Dr. Aßmann,
just thank you!
Despite the trials and tribulations of the current p(l)andemic scenario, I hope you have a great Sunday.
Best regards
Angela Brown
Dear Dr. Aßmann,
Ihren Worten kann ich gerne zustimmen. Berufs- und Gewerbeverbote, Ausgehverbote, Reiseverbote, Einschränkungen oder Verbot von Demonstrationen, Kontaktverbote usw. Dieses Land, welches unsere Generation als frei, gerecht und mit vielen Möglichkeiten kennengelernt hat, steckt in einer Sackgasse fest! Eine Umkehr ist mit diesen Amtierenden kaum zu erwarten? Sie finden weder den Rückwärtsgang noch können sie das Lenkrad so umsteuern, dass sie wieder aus der Straße des Irrtums herausfinden? Wir leben jetzt im zweiten Jahr der sogenannten „Pandemie“ und der durch Verordnungen und Gesetze vorgeschriebenen Verbote. Also ist heute eigentlich der 21. November 1934? Am Freitagabend wurden um 22 Uhr in der Gastronomie unserer Kleinstadt alle Lokale mit vier Polizisten, vier Mitarbeitern des Ordnungsamtes und einem Spürhund kontrolliert. Selbst bis in die Toiletten der Gaststätten und Restaurants! Unsere Kinder werden heute beim Zugang zu Ihrer Arbeitsstelle schikaniert. Und keiner vergleicht die sogenannten „Inzidenzen“ zwischen 2020 vor der Ompfung und 2021 nach der Ompfung? Hätten wir unseren Gehirnschmalz und unsere Energie in den letzten 24 Monaten in die wirtschaftliche, spirituelle und lebenswerte Gestaltung unserer Beziehungen gesteckt, wären wir heute geheilt!
This is the humor that our media professionals from ZDF currently love, i.e. 1934, 1941 or really already 2021 (?):
s. https://www.zdf.de/comedy/heute-show/heute-show-vom-19-november-2021-100.html
Excerpt from the short film: SISSI - SCHICKSALSJAHRE EINER UNGEIMPFTEN
„Franz, was willst Du denn mit dem Gewehr?
I wonder what, you stupid funzl? I'm checking the curfew for the unvaccinated. Someone's sitting in car 4!
(Note from the passing steam train. He docks. Sissi eats. Franz is briefly distracted. The unvaccinated man flees from the train).
Franz: Now he's running away. Sissi, are you unvaccinated or just stupid?
Sissi: Well, both. You don't know anything about the long-term effects.
Franz: Then I'm afraid I'll have to shoot him (he fires, a shot rings out).
Sissi: besser als impfen! (großer Beifall im Hintergrund – ENDE)“
We are forced to pay our broadcasting fee for such nonsense - justification: (political) educational mission! We can only hope that these programs, like the newsreel films, will later be classified historically correctly. As you have described Mr. Hohenstein, we don't seem to be that far away from these hunting scenes in reality. I wonder why?
I would also like to thank you for your clear words, which also encourage the rest of us!
Best regards
Sabine Henn
Many thanks Dr. Roland Assmann
Es ist wie im 3. Reich, so habe ich es aus dem Geschichtsunterricht in Erinnerung, die Künstler, welche sich unter die Bettdecke des Regimes legen, werden von der Erwerbsarbeit, nicht ausgeschlossen. Alle „Künstler“ welche man noch auf dem Bildschirm sieht, sind korrupt! Wenn sich die Schulmedizin und die Medien mit den Verbrechern verbrüdern, dann ist immer Gefahr in Verzug!
Rima and Thiel to name just 2 artists from Switzerland, both are excluded from state television! This is the dilemma facing our mentally healthy fellow human beings! If the modern media only deal with the products of criminals, then it is always advertising for the regime!
All the conspiracy theories are being put into practice, because nobody has any intention of building a wall! Where is the judiciary? Really put into agony, like in the 3rd Reich!
Have a nice Sunday, doing the right thing is not always easy!
Dear Mr. Bender,
You are right. We were brought up in the social-liberal era to insist and stand up precisely when what is currently rampant threatens the well-being and freedom of us all: the disregard for civil and human rights as well as the stigmatization of entire population groups
It is an encouraging sign that, despite state and social repression, more and more people are able to overcome their natural inhibitions, especially when it comes to expressing their opinions by name, to break away from the silent majority and to take a clear and unambiguous stance on the blatantly undesirable developments in our politics and society.
If we do not want to be declared 83 million chronically potentially ill people who, like a drug addict, MUST regularly collect their syringe from the healthcare sector as a means of accessing society, we must stand up now and fight back with all the means that our just-yet-democracy allows, even if Seehofer and his authorities are already sharpening their knives. If those politically responsible continue as they have begun (see https://clubderklarenworte.de/exklusiv-rki-schriftverkehr/), those responsible could face criminal prosecution at some point. I could imagine that the shredders are once again running at full speed in the Federal Chancellery and subordinate authorities these days..........
Best regards
Roland Aßmann
Dearest Mrs. Schmitz!
Ich verstehe Sie 100%-ig. Mein Mann (62) ist doppelt geimpft und er ist ein hämischer, hinterlistiger Impfbefürworter, wo er mir jetzt abwertend sagt „Schau, jetzt MUSST du dich ab 1. Februar impfen lassen!“ Er geht mir extremst auf die Nerven, ich habe mir schon eine eigene Wohnung genommen, das hälst du im Kopft nicht aus. Ich habe 3-4 gleichgesinnte Freund*Innen, mit denen treffe ich mich zu politischen Diskussionen. Das hilft. Sie müssen sich einer Gruppe anschließen. Machen Sie Ihre eigene Gruppe! Es hilft mir auch mein ebenfalls ungeimpfter Arbeitgeber, ein Rechtsanwalt in Wien, der zu mir hält, mir in allem Recht gibt, was diese „Pantemie“ betrifft. Mir tun die ganzen jungen Menschen mit Kleinkindern leid. Auch meine eigenen Söhne (32 und 34)! Sie haben sich impfen lassen. Weil sie ihre Arbeit brauchen. Die haben jede Maßnahme mitgemacht, daran geglaubt, weil sie an einem guten Leben danach glauben und darauf hoffen. Was soll ich tun? Ich habe den Mund wundgeredet. Suchen Sie sich Ihre Freund*Innen aus! Und lassen Sie sich nicht terrorisieren. Liebe, solidarische Grüße!
It's never too late for a divorce. No amount of moaning will help ...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1oV14zwbGmg
I only achieved my freedom after 39 years of marriage (or after 33 years of living together). It feels right, and still very good.
Hallo , Willkommen im Club. In meiner Familie das gleiche. Mit Argumenten brauch man gar nicht erst anfangen. Habe im Familien – und Kollegen Kreis Bücher geliehen, keiner gelesen. Videos, Zeitungsartikel, verschickt, wird nicht beachtet, „noch keine Zeit gehabt“.
Statistiken gezeigt, „wo hast du die denn her aus dem Dark Net“. Mittlerweile sage ich nur noch was kommt b.z.w. geplant ist. Wenn es dann eintrifft gehen alle darüber hinweg, was ich gesagt habe wird nicht diskutiert . z.B. im Kollegenkreis“ Wir buchen für Ostern Unterkünfte auf Ameland, sollen wir für dich mit buchen“, „könnt ihr euch schenken Ostern wird der Reiseverkehr eingeschränkt, da fährt keiner nach Ameland“. So war es dann auch. Auch keine Diskussion danach.
But I can understand them all, because until about 4 years ago I felt the same way. Today I watched the Journal and read the newspaper. I felt well informed. At some point I saw a report by Udo Ulfkotte, searched the internet for more articles and read a few book recommendations. There are often 100s of references in the books, so I followed them up and marveled at how badly we are being taken for a ride. I think everyone realizes that we are being taken for a ride, but you can't imagine the extent of it if you don't do your own research.
That's why they don't despair, most of them are afraid, fear paralyzes, intelligence doesn't matter. People don't dare to ask questions because it could destroy their world view. Rainer Mausfeld once put it in a nutshell. Influencing people is so skillfully done that you hardly have a chance to see through it.
Dear Ms. Schmitz.
You are not alone. I was struck by your letter after my wife (48) and I (64) discussed this topic again over breakfast just today and once again swore that the C issue must not be allowed to divide us
She is a nurse and fully supports the government's measures. I can't get her to think about all this herself using alternative media. We've tried to keep discussions like this out of our everyday lives, but it doesn't work in the long run. I have 6 children. 5 of them are from my first marriage. 4 vaccinated 2 not. My understanding that everyone has the right to decide for themselves is also contradicted by her. When I told her that I wasn't going to get boostered, she was completely flabbergasted. In spite of everything, we agree that our love will be stronger and that this issue won't tear us apart. I really hope so and wish you can do the same. It's not worth it.
I am less optimistic when it comes to the division of society. We will probably have to prepare ourselves for very unpleasant times.
Best regards from Dresden
Peter B.
Hello Mr. Peter B
I feel almost exactly the same way . My wife 55 works in a children's home with handicapped children and has been vaccinated twice, the boost unfortunately comes on December 2nd although she has been struggling with skin rashes and swollen lymph nodes for weeks, as Professor Sucharit Bhakdie said in his explanation of the spike proteins, that her own immune system is under attack and her psoriasis is also getting worse.
Our family doctor at least told her that it was due to the vaccination.
She is caught between two stools: on the one hand, she sees the irritation in the media, but because of her work she is forced to go along with everything they want, even her colleague who has not yet had a vaccination now wants to get her first one.
In my company I have to test myself every day from Monday even though I know that I am healthy.
Kind regards Joachim
Dear Bettina Schmitz, dear Markus Langemann, dear fellow readers and fellow sufferers,
For me, too, the split occurred in my partnership, in my family, in my circle of (friends) acquaintances, in my neighborhood, in my work environment,...
Mein Leitspruch ‚Liebet einander und gebet nicht auf (Niemals).
Even though the marriage ended in divorce this year after more than 30 years, I still love my wife and I know and feel a benevolent attitude towards the current and long-standing system that surrounds us, despite all the differences.
Our children have experienced our differences from an early age and yet our separation still has a clear impact.
In our divided outside world, the only thing left for me (and my ex-wife) is to hold on:
‚Liebet einander und gebt nicht auf. Niemals‘ und kommt zu Zweien oder Dreien … zusammen in Gottes Namen.
In and with love, Peter Röhrig-von Oehsen
P.S. Dear Markus Langemann, stand firm
Dear Pit,
How nice to meet you here!
We will persevere - together with everyone who has found their way here - I'm sure of it!
Best regards
Sabine
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I would like to take this opportunity to offer you some consolation and I must say that I am single, which is certainly a blessing in the plandemic.
Due to my lack of experience, I can't contribute much on the subject of relationships, but at least I know one thing for sure: A relationship is a give and take, if your partner is not prepared to approach you, accept a different point of view and stand up for you, then unfortunately you have to ask yourself whether it is still a relationship.
As the situation gets worse and worse, you have to ask yourself: what's next?
Would you report the unvaccinated to an authority/anyone if you got a bonus for it?
Can you rely on your partner in such a situation?
For example, I have also used the pandemic as an opportunity to try something new and will move to another small town with more greenery, nice people who are important to me, with whom I can and will exchange ideas and continue to defy this madness.
Ich werde mich nicht mit experimenteller Gentechnik impfen lassen. Es beeindruckt mich auch nicht, dass jetzt schon sämtliche Leitmedien die Erfordernis einer Impfpflicht heraufbeschwören. Ich würde dieser „Pflicht“ ganz einfach nicht nachkommen und verweise in diesem Zusammenhang auf unser Grundgesetz und vor allem auf den Nürnberger Kodex (https://de.wikipedia.org/wiki/N%C3%BCrnberger_Kodex).
Mass vaccination with a vaccine that has not been tested in the long term is a medical experiment because nobody can know the long-term consequences. The Nuremberg Code with its guideline of voluntariness therefore applies and I would not recommend that the German government violate this code, especially in view of German history.
This genetically engineered, untested vaccine is not going into my body against my will, period. I'll say that to anyone who wants to hear it. I wouldn't dream of being banned from speaking out and I appeal to you all not to be intimidated under any circumstances. Historically, it has always been wrong to stand on the side of the cowardly masses - and it is the same today.
In these times, it is very important to speak your mind loudly and clearly. The injustice that is happening right before our eyes must not go unchallenged.
Finally, I would like to encourage you with a quote from a cabaret artist:
I inoculate myself with confidence, courage and dignity.
This combination is best used regularly and in abundance, because the external threats to my mind, my intuition and my sovereignty are mutating, at least that's what the experts say.
🙂 beautiful text - determined and cheerful at the same time - that's a mixture that impresses me - all the best for the future
Dear Bettina,
I am sure that many people feel the same way as you do.
My husband and I - we live in the south of Portugal - are united in our common NO, and that connects us in a very special way.
But sometimes I think about what it would have been like: whether my parents would have agreed on the assessment of the crisis and the measures, whether they would have sent me to school with a mask, tests and a needle. How they would have dealt with the crisis ...
My observation is that the so-called wheat is currently being separated from the chaff, and by that I mean the different levels of knowledge and awareness.
Your decision, dear Bettina, to approach Mr. Langemann openly will change your life. For sure. Um abraço e beijinhos from the Algarve. Best regards, Solandra
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
You are certainly not alone. My circle of friends has shrunk, but a small, valuable one has remained and new friends are being added, even without demos (I'm not a demo-goer). Until the virus entered our lives, I didn't know that I was a right-wing extremist, anti-Semite and conspiracy theorist. I always thought of myself as open-minded and liberal and rather green-left. At the moment, I don't even know where I stand politically and now I'm just a person who wants to remain empathetic.
Personally, yoga and meditation help me to stay strong. I take good care of myself and go for walks.
I don't have a husband, but I do have a teenager who follows the conventional wisdom simply because of peer pressure. We avoid the subject, sometimes we have a row, sometimes he listens.
We spent four days in a hotel in Austria with daily tests, little news and social media and it was so relaxing. Maybe your TV will break one day, then you would have one less disturbing factor.
If you've been married as long as you have, then your marriage would be worth more to me than this virus that has spared you both. Gratitude, humility and your love for each other should be the foundation of your life together.
I bought a book about Jewish jokes, laughing is so good....Laugh together again.
I sincerely wish you all the best and have faith.
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
There are several answers. And each one would certainly be correct but partly contrary to the other.
On the one hand, you can rigorously go your own way, repay like with like and exclude all people with different opinions. But you could also argue until you can no longer hear yourself. You can withdraw and focus on yourself. You can also put on a good face and use all kinds of tricks to avoid being noticed or offended by your position. And there are many other options, which will certainly be discussed here.
And I'm pretty sure that each of these "private measures" can be appropriate in certain situations, that you always have to reassess what might be morally right and/or what your own energy reservoir currently provides, that sometimes only a zigzag course can pave the way forward.
You will take all the advice and tips to heart in one situation or another or may have already done so. And there is nothing dishonorable about not having acted consistently in the eyes of some of your fellow sufferers.
Let us not do exactly what seems to be so en vogue today. Let's not allow those who are building more and more new walls to incite us to do the same.
Always go into every discussion and every internal argument with an answer to the question of what arguments would be needed to change your mind. This mental gymnastics helps to relax any situation and to remain flexible and self-critical. And ultimately, it will also help you to avoid pointlessly questioning private and proven life decisions because of an issue, no matter how fundamental. On the other hand, it will also speed up the process of realization in the opposite case and make many a fork in the road in life appear in a new light.
In any case, this attitude serves internal hygiene.
And finally, there is one thing left to do. And that is to create an environment that allows you to regularly recalibrate your perception when you are exposed to the daily bombardment of the old media. This includes reading sources like this one from time to time so as not to sink completely into hysteria or, alternatively, hypnosis. But also creating your own group of people with a similar spirit.
Such a group is often pejoratively referred to as a bubble if someone doesn't like it at all. If it doesn't bother anyone, then you can call it a self-help group. And that's exactly what it is. A self-help group for coping with the consequences of society as a whole being dependent on a needle. A dependence on the feeling of finally doing "the right thing" and being on "the right side" in a completely diffuse world, while at the same time being able to relinquish responsibility and elevate oneself above third parties. The latter applies to all sides.
Stay relaxed and try not to let your view of the essentials be obscured. Try to keep in mind that very few of those with political responsibility are concerned with health, but rather with punishment and servitude, because this makes it easier to govern and control. And we certainly don't need to debate at length about the drive to profit from the immoral increase in money. But it is also about hundreds of millions of promised taxpayers' money for the dying print media industry, which, badly intoned, not only sings one and the same song, but also just one verse of it over and over again.
I have already survived a dictatorship and can warn you not to sink into a doomsday mood. There is always a way forward. And the truth will come to light sooner or later. And perhaps we won't be able to bask in this light in our lifetime. But it is important that not all people follow every piper without contradiction at all times.
Stay soft and emphatic. Be forgiving towards others and, above all, towards yourself. Let's let go of the idea that we absolutely have to be the captain or at least the helmsman on the great journey of life. Instead, let's stand on the right side of the railing with composure and enjoy the sunset.
In other words, if we manage not to lose all composure and retain the joy of life, of truth, love and change, then nothing bad can happen to us humans.
I wish you and all of us exactly this serenity and confidence. Because no measures or new infection protection laws can force us to surrender them. They are our treasures and, if life is kind to us, they will remain our compass.
Best regards from Brandenburg,
Axel Kühne.
Good evening, Axel Kühne -
... what a wonderful commentary on this landslide letter from Bettina Schmitz; thank you very much for your gentle and yet clearly differentiated response. (soul balm)
The world would be a much richer place if empathy, humanity and cordiality were heard and lived again ... above all, everything would be much easier for all people with these close encounters with nature.
A deep embrace in friendly, hopeful thoughts,
Maria von der Mulde (Saxony)
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I read your message to Mr. Langemann and almost physically felt your turmoil between your heart for the person to whom you gave thirty years of your life and your mind that tells you today that it can't be that we shared our lives for so long and now this wall has grown between us. A wall that I believe has been created by different approaches to life now that it has become serious. Where everyone has to ask themselves, how do I feel about illness and death? Am I prepared to live life with an open mind until it is, however, over? Or am I the type of person who fearfully locks myself away, isolates myself and avoids everything worth living for until the inevitable end in order to live a few more days, weeks, months or years in a corroded, disgusting, panicky and misanthropic environment. I opted for the former. Fortunately, my wife and I have also been together for thirty years. The majority of our family, however, have opted for the other life. Always doing what they are told, putting on masks and getting boosted until the doctor comes. Out of solidarity, of course. Nobody wants to admit that they did it out of sheer fear.
However, reading the comments on your letter gave me goose bumps with emotion! There are people who still have a realistic view of things and we will be right in the end. I am sure of that.
Despite all the grief, the situation over the past year and a half has also shown us who we can really rely on. We can draw strength from this and I am sure that good will prevail in the end!
I wish you a lot of strength! We will get through this together!
Best regards!
Dear Ms. Schmitz, your words are moving. I would like to say this to you: stay true to yourself! Even if it is very difficult. Sincerely, Michael Scharenberg
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
You are not alone.
My course was as follows:
I went to demos (unaccompanied, of course I had slipped into the dark conspiracy network!) I met so many nice people there who gave me strength and confidence. We have formed 2 groups that meet regularly in the same way. We go to demos, elevators or walks, sometimes we meet at one of them and then at another. I've been doing this for 1 year and for 1 month I've been meeting WITH someone again. He was fed up with hanging around Zuhasue and having his brain washed. Among other things, he noticed a change in me - he's in such a good mood during the worst pandemic ever? ) Now he's actively involved (still skeptical, but always a 180-degree turnaround) He's starting to make friends with the other men in the group, talking about hobbies. The focus is not on the C issue, but on the debate about how we want to live.
Just start taking care of your good feelings. If he doesn't go along with it, it's not your problem, it's his. Stay neutral and open and don't declare war on friends, spouses and CO. Clarification is available to everyone and anyone can do it if they want to. If not, that's not your problem either.
Good luck, it will work if you want it to. Best regards Sonja
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Sie sind nicht alleine – ich habe meine Beziehung im Frühling verloren, nicht die einzige Ursache, doch eine davon und auch Anlass waren die ganzen C-Diskussionen, bei der plötzlich meine Perspektive nicht mehr zählte, sondern nur noch „meine Facebook-Freundin hat gesagt …. dass diese Quellen AFD-nah sind“ und ähnlicher Bullshit.
Nach mehreren Monaten ‚Verarbeitung‘ ist mir das Universum überraschend gnädig gewesen und ich habe eine neue Partnerin gefunden (leider 430km entfernt – aber das kriegen wir auch hin). /// Ich musste im letztem halben Jahr für mich lernen, dass es WIRKLICH ok ist, MEINE eigenen Werte & Prinzipien zu leben und es nicht meine Pflicht ist, mich selbst unendlich zu dehnen und mich damit zu verraten …
Alles Gute für Sie und bleiben Sie ‚bei sich‘!
Dear Ms. Schmitt, dear Mr. Langemann and dear fellow human beings,
Thank you very much for finding so much compassion and meaningful words in all these comments. Your letter, dear Ms. Schmitt, has become a symbol for the many rifts and cracks in old friendships and acquaintances. All in all, we have an almost print-ready document of humanity, despair, but also hope.
As a consolation, I might add: In the meantime I, 59, single, have met more valuable people, had more in-depth and meaningful conversations with them and been able to embrace more warm-hearted people in the last 12 months than in the last 20 years. The divide is not between the vaccinated and the unvaccinated/genetic, but between the sensitive/empathetic and people who are not yet where they should be.
I wish them - I wish us all the best from the bottom of my heart. Good things. I believe in the divine in people and that a different, more spiritual, more sustainable society awaits us at the end of this escalation. No - I don't believe it: I am convinced of it.
Andreas from the Markgräflerland
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
You have my deepest sympathy!
Ich erlebe ähnliche Situationen mit meiner Schwester, die, mainstreamgläubig, sehr rasch ärgerlich reagiert und „dicht“ macht.
It makes my pulse race too, especially when she comes along with untenable information from the newspaper and gives me
accuses of misinformation.
Beim letzten Telefonat, bei dem es wieder fast eskaliert wäre, habe ich mich innerlich gefragt “ Um was geht es hier eigentlich?“
I like my sister and agree with her on so many things in life. How stupid is it, really, just to fall out over disagreements in
to argue about a small aspect of life (corona) and gradually distance myself from it. Is it worth it to me? I gave her the phone
and after some hesitation she agreed. The clouds of anger have gradually dissipated. Of course, there is still a slight aftertaste.
Ich habe auch gemerkt, wie stark es mir selbst ums „Recht haben“ geht und wie stark es mich verletzt hat, wenn mir „Fehlinformation“ vorgeworfen
although I was sure that I had informed myself very objectively and thoroughly. As soon as I realize that a discussion is pointless, I'm currently working internally on simply letting other opinions stand without feeling attacked/hurt by them. Oh my, I find that difficult! Mind you, I only do this if the other person's opinion has no direct consequences for me!
Dear Ms. Schmitz, as you write, you intend not to let C. break up with you after almost 30 years of partnership.
It sounds to me as if there is a lot between you and your partner besides this stupid C-issue.
Mir fällt dazu die Frage eines Zen-Meisters ein: „Wie kann man einen Stock kleiner machen, ohne ihn zu zerstören?“
Antwort: „In dem man einen größeren Stock daneben legt“.
I hope that you succeed in placing a lot of connecting elements next to the C-stick, thereby making it less important.
Best wishes and lots of strength for you
Christoph Finke
dear bettina,
i simply and simply have a few words in verse for you and for all of us here...
anyone who hears butterflies laughing knows what clouds taste like.
it will be in the moonlight
without fear
discover the night.
it becomes a plant when it wants to
the animal, the fool, the wise man.
and can be completed in one hour
traveling through space.
he knows that he knows nothing,
just as the others know nothing.
but he knows what he and everyone else still has to learn.
who feels himself in foreign shores,
and has the courage to stretch,
gradually,
discover yourself without fear.
down to the peaks
of himself, he looks up,
the battle with his underworld,
he accepts calmly.
who hears butterflies laugh
white as clouds taste.
it will be in the moonlight
without fear
discover the night.
who is at peace with himself,
he will die the same way.
and is even more alive then,
than all his heirs.
( by carlo karges, songwriter)
i wish you, dear bettina schmitz, all the best from the bottom of my heart.
tilda
Dear Ms. Bettina Schmitz,
ich höre und verstehe Ihre Verzweiflung und bewundere Ihren Mut sich nicht „brechen“ zu lassen.
I'm about to turn 70 and I'm very lucky to be in a partnership where both of us have alternative information. We both have a medical background (by profession).
We inform ourselves (to name a couple) at:
http://www.nachdenkseiten.de
https://clubderklarenworte.de
https://apolut.net
https://www.achgut.com
https://multipolar-magazin.de/
https://off-guardian.org/
https://www.globalresearch.ca/
and many more.
Resist the beginnings! (Latin: Principiis obsta!) Publius Ovidius Naso (43 BC - 17 AD)
See: The painting: http://blog.kunstsammlungen-chemnitz.de/2021/09/09/lovis-corinth-1858-1925
Ecce homo, "Behold, the human being"
Painting from 1925, oil on canvas by Franz Heinrich Louis Corinth, German painter, sculptor, university teacher, graphic artist, draughtsman and lithographer. July 21, 1858 - July 17, 1925. Lovis Corinth was one of the most important and influential representatives of Impressionism in Germany.
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His last famous work, Ecce Homo, dates from 1925. The Nazi regime interpreted the change in the artist's work as a result of Corinth's stroke in 1911. In 1937, a total of 295 of his paintings were confiscated, including a large number from the collections of the Nationalgalerie Berlin and the Hamburger Kunsthalle. Some of the works were shown in the same year at the Degenerate Art exhibition in Munich.
Source: http://blog.kunstsammlungen-chemnitz.de/2021/09/09/lovis-corinth-1858-1925/
You are invited to drop by for a chat (free coffee and cake)!
With grassroots democratic greetings
Rainer & Ingrid
A comment from a user in another forum, and I quote:
„Es ist das erste Mal in der Geschichte der Medizin, dass die fehlende Wirkung eines Medikamentes auf die Schuld derer geschoben wird, die das Medikament nicht genommen haben“.
That's exactly how it is...unbelievable
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I read your message to Mr. Langemann and almost physically felt your turmoil between your heart for the person to whom you gave thirty years of your life and your mind that tells you today that it can't be that we shared our lives for so long and now this wall has grown between us. A wall that I believe has been created by different approaches to life now that it has become serious. Where everyone has to ask themselves, how do I feel about illness and death? Am I prepared to live life with an open mind until it is, however, over? Or am I the type of person who fearfully locks myself away, isolates myself and avoids everything worth living for until the inevitable end in order to live a few more days, weeks, months or years in a corroded, disgusting, panicky and misanthropic environment. I opted for the former. Fortunately, my wife and I have also been together for thirty years. But the majority of our family have opted for the other life. Always do what mom says, put on the mask and get boosted until the doctor comes. Out of solidarity, of course. Nobody wants to admit that they did it out of sheer fear.
However, reading the comments on your letter gave me goose bumps with emotion! There are people who still have a realistic view of things and we will be right in the end. I am sure of that.
Despite all the grief, the situation over the past year and a half has also shown us who we can really rely on. We can draw strength from this and I am sure that good will prevail in the end!
I wish you a lot of strength! We will get through this together!
Best regards!
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I have been in the same boat with you for 18 months, unnoticed, as have countless others. I can so understand the frustration and unhappiness that arises from the split - and also the strangeness that suddenly arises between two people who have been together for so long. In our case, it is a 36-year partnership that has been severely jeopardized by this catastrophe out there - for me, probably the greatest pain during this time was that I couldn't warn my partner about the treatment, my arguments didn't count for anything. Now he's been treated twice, and I'm getting ready for the fact that we might not be able to spend the rest of our lives together.
If that can be any consolation: You are not alone in all of this. We're going through it together and trying to stay in love. As a couple at least, we've both decided that the C issue no longer has any place between us. I'm keeping a low profile and we don't talk about most of it anymore. However, my husband is just as aware of the destruction of our culture and values as I am.
I send my best regards
Heike
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I can only recommend you: Go YOUR way!
Andreas Bernknecht - dm-harmonics, willpower seminar, shows very clearly how the path can look, if necessary without your husband, because he is probably not your partner, if you want to get through this transitional period into the new time safely.
Cheer up, there are ways if you/we get away from the problem.
Sunny heart, Johanna-Elisabeth Nehm
Dear Mrs. Schmitz
We are in the same boat!
My husband is vaccinated and he thinks that's a good thing. He thinks the measures are good and that they should be enforced. In the meantime, he can at least accept my attitude.
Worse for me is the vaccine bullying from the wise old men (father-in-law and uncle) who would prefer to declare me insane and also the sources of information of my choice.
I gave up one job because I was labeled as a nest-polluter, a social parasite and a danger to humanity.
Now the universe has just been merciful and I have recently recovered. I thought I was now at peace...far from it...it's going on happily, because according to a doctor, natural immunity is not comparable to that of the vaccination.
Virology in 2020/2021 is already very special.
And of course I have divided the family and should show some remorse.
I have always emphasized that everyone is welcome here.
A topsy-turvy world.
Fortunately, I have many like-minded people in my life and that is a real source of strength.
Neither I nor you, dear Ms. Schmitz, can change people on the basis of facts.
It takes place at the heart level!
As long as I live my inclusive life model with an open heart, I still have a chance that others will jump on board.
This website quotes Hesse, which I find very appropriate:
„Damit das Mögliche entsteht, muss immer wieder das Unmögliche versucht werden.“
Best regards
Constanze Herrmann
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Dear authors of the almost 130 responses, and in such a short time.
Sie sind nicht allein. Die aktuelle statt findende „Ausführungen des großen Plans“,
or should we call it their last resort... the large corporations and financial administrations are dividing society more and more. For me, 46, married with a son of 10, it's similar to most of the authors here, although not quite as severe as for Ms. Schmitz. At least we still talk about it. Anyone who thinks like the people who write here will confirm how difficult it is to explain the situation to a child in a child-friendly way and, above all, that they have to endure the pressure at school that arises when you think differently and breathe freely through 8 hours of lessons...
My solution also means that I'm leaving. At least I will leave this country. I hope there is more cohesion, more empathy and more willingness to engage in discussions, even controversial ones, elsewhere. Usually paired with much less bureaucracy and even fewer taxes. The hurdle in this case is emotion, if the family doesn't want to leave, because everything will be put back in order, as they tell themselves. Whatever order may mean.
However, the sheer number of responses in this short time should give us hope that not all brains are contaminated yet, and that there are still a few normal people alongside the many Homo mediainfluencis fascistikus.
I would also like to thank Mr. Langemann repeatedly for his good work. A few more of you in the right places and the world would be a different place.
Cheer up!
Yours, Jan
Dear Jan, there is no point in leaving, you are needed right here, with your head and your heart.
Sincerely, Inge
Hello !
I read the letter and had both reactions.... 'I know ...' and 'phew, I was really lucky...'
With my husband (57, I am 48)
we are absolutely of the same opinion! We are very critical, scrutinize, turn on our heads and don't go along with anything that doesn't seem conclusive and logical to us. We are unvaccinated. Out of conviction! I also refuse to be tested!
So far we have gotten through the 2o months without any illness or quarantine. But the psyche suffers and I have big mood swings - my husband too . I get strength from meetings with like-minded people!
It is different with a family - mother, brother, uncle, etc. .... All vaccinated and loyal to the government. Terrible . Contact is almost completely gone . They think I'm crazy !!!!! And I think they're stupid!
I have given up ....
I couldn't live with my husband if he was like yours! I would try to separate .
It takes too much strength - I wouldn't be able to stand it on top of that!!!
All the best for you
Dear Bettina,
My sympathy for you!
Please try to find like-minded people and live YOUR life!
Letting go is painful
I had to make a very bad experience....except for 2 friends far away I have no more contact...had to leave my husband after 32 years and also my sick daughter. I had to give away my dog because I am no longer able to walk after wrong surgeries.now I have to live 600km away in the east without infrastructure... luckily I have a doctor who helps me a little!
Musste wegen Maßnahmen aus Klinik…nun im Rollstuhl ‚ unbehandelt!
Hier gibt es noch “ blockwarte“….und der hass nimmt zu!
The parents, aunt, cousin, siblings and acquaintances have turned their backs on me....partly insulted me....and for the most part have shrunk! My 25 year old sick daughter lives in her world! / obsessive-compulsive disorder / years of caring for her) I am infinitely sorry. And if I wasn't so ill, I would do more to save her, because she is an angel who lives in her world!
At the time, I was working for the pharmaceutical industry!
They don't want to and or they can't recognize it?
I wish you much strength and send you
Kind regards ❣️
Bettina
Dear Mrs. Schmitz
I'm in exactly the same situation. My son and daughter-in-law are in the same league.
I had thoughts of separating and had already mentally moved out, but I couldn't pull it off economically and organizationally. The hurdle was: where to go?
Where should there only be people who think like me? Where should I be able to live without help in the event of illness or other external difficulties?
Then I had a helpful thought:
Wherever I go, I'm surrounded by the same crazy people as my family. With just one difference: they would be strangers. So I voluntarily prefer to live among the crazy people I know.
I let go of the expectation that they should think and behave like me.
I have realized that fear and despair prevent them from opening their eyes. How you must feel when you realize at the age of 81 that you've let yourself be bullied your whole life.
How must you feel if the strong father was a misguided man? Is it the fear that the wife will run away from such a "jerk"?
You're all still stuck in the spider's web. I'm sticking by you and I'm enduring this because I made a conscious decision to do so. Because I love them all. And because I know that they do too.
Despite the virus and the government.
I hope I have been able to help without seeming presumptuous.
Kind regards
Brigitta
For dear Werner
No matter what you are professionally, it takes compassion, humanity and interest in the well-being of humanity.
It is necessary to make up your own mind and since there is the Internet and books and whatnot to do research to try to look behind the real things, it is definitely worth it.
Or do you seriously believe that you want healthy people? I know what I am writing about . We would have so many more unemployed if everyone was healthy .
A small example is India where they vaccinated against polio (it's been a while) and many of those vaccinated developed serious health problems, to my knowledge the case is still in court.
It is really important to see who has the most to gain, especially in this current situation! The EU and countries that are members and are not in a good financial position play a role, there is aid (also called Corona aid) if they do not follow the guidelines, there is nothing. No, it is not a crazy idea, nor is the reduction of beds (intensive care) and then to claim that everything is overcrowded, believe me it is enough to look at the so-called intensive care bed register, click on the countries, compare numbers and calculate the percentage based on the number of inhabitants. And let's not forget that there are other illnesses from which people also die, there is also a list and you are amazed why people are so intimidated by corona. Actually, we weren't allowed to get up in the morning and breathe without thinking oh what could happen to me today, do I have to have a vaccination or is it like this. Yes I know dear Werner it sounds a bit sarcastic, in this sense all the best and live in the truth
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Sie haben ja schon viele gute Reaktionen erhalten. Selbst würde ich nur sagen: lassen Sie Ihren lieben Mann einfach so denken und fühlen, wie er eben ist und denkt. Es ist seine — wenn auch nicht von ihm allein gefundene Überzeugung — die ihn zu dieser Positionierung treibt bzw. treiben hat lassen. Soll er damit leben, solange er noch lebt, niemand wird ihn jetzt noch „konvertieren“ können. Wir leben immer schon im Parallelwelten, die wir irgendwie wahrgenommen und akzeptiert haben. Hinter solchen Differenzen steckt nach einem so langen positiven Zusammenleben und gegeseitigen Verständnis doch immer ein tiefer Grund der Übereinkunft. Manche nennen das Liebe. Vielleicht können Sie ganz einfach auf dieses riesige Potenzial zurückgreifen, es ist das Wertvollste, das wir sonst so oft dummen Menschen haben.
With best wishes and regards
Lucas Gehrmann
(professionally: art historian and exhibition curator for contemporary art; privately: optimist)
Dear Ms. Schmitz, dear Mr. Langemann!
Wow, what extraordinary feedback with the same tenor. I am thrilled!
I feel similarly about your lamented situation. I think our collective self-confidence, with our free thoughts, will strengthen us throughout this pandemic.
Best regards
Dirk Botschen
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I still remember my parents vividly. My father was conservative, my mother more left-wing. My parents were Greek and escaped the dictatorship from 1969 to 1972. Greece freed itself from the dictatorship, I believe partly because there is a culture of debate among the people. A culture of debate within the family is important so that the current fascist health policy of the state does not penetrate into the bedroom. You are not alone. Sincerely Nikola
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
dear writers here,
den ganzen Abend über musste ich an Sie denken, und an die Schreibenden, die sich inzwischen hier versammelt haben. In meiner „Mittagspause“ hatte ich die E-Mail von Markus Langemann gesehen, gelesen und somit auch Ihren Brief.
I've just read the fresh entries and I'm sorry, I'm in tears.
For me, the picture is similar to that of many others here.
My gut told me from the start that something was wrong - of course I had no idea last Jan/Feb what would happen over the next few months. Everyone, or most people, just kept saying: ... you don't think they're doing this on purpose, do you? ... quite indignantly ...
After my demo visit in Berlin I got the N. stamp, the really longtime friends began to say goodbye, or I withdrew because I could no longer bear the accusations.
I can hardly talk about it with my family. We completely avoid the subject with my daughter. When she told me she was thinking about getting vaccinated, I just asked: what have I done wrong?
I hope my son remains steadfast.
A very good, old friend (70), who studied biology, is an alternative practitioner in psychotherapy and a shaman - all in one person, is sad because she thinks I am no longer available. The last time I spoke to her I thought she was the sister of Mr. Drosten or Wieler, or works for the government.
It can't be intellect, a thirst for knowledge - that's there, or laziness, but I haven't yet figured out why such clever people can become so obedient. Nor is it a certain age - as you can read very well here.
I (56, grew up in the GDR) have always been naughty - or rather disobedient 😉 ... which doesn't exactly make life easy. But I refuse to go along with this nonsense.
I don't have many friends nearby in this regard. Unfortunately, being healthy is no longer enough, which is a disadvantage for various sporting activities.
But I have seen impulses in some of the letters. And I need to get out the door more.
Dear Ms. Schmitz, Ms. Behrendt and all of you, we are not alone in our experiences, even if we often feel that way. I hope everyone finds new confidants nearby and can strengthen themselves.
Dear Mr. Langemann,
Thank you a hundred thousand times over for your great work. Whether you write seriously, flippantly, bitingly or you can read the hair standing on end: it is a pleasure and encouragement!
A wonderfully unifying Sunday to us all!
Geschichten und Geschichten wiederholen sich , und die Menschen in der Masse , “ sind Dumm und Lenkbar “ , W.C sagte : “ ich glaube nur der Statistik die ich selber Gefälscht habe !!! “ lesen Sie Bücher und sehen und hören sie Wissenschaftlern und Ärzten zu , sie werden erstaunt sein was sie und „Die“ alles wissen oder auch nicht wissen !!! Versuch und Irrtum ist in der Wissenschaft gang und gäbe ebenso sehr viele Fehler und Mängel schleichen sich da ein … und wer da „glaubt , die werden schon richtig entscheiden ??? Irrtum wie kann ein Außenstehender das was in einem vorgeht und passiert ist immer 100% ig nachvollziehen ……
there is a lack of knowledge and the ability to want to learn something new in the masses or to take an uncomfortable path and try something new .....
Fundamental questions, such as in whose interest what is happening here, who earns from it and who pays for the whole thing .....................
has any drug or vaccine ever worked as predicted ...... You will be surprised ...... never without side effects in the long term with constant use - they are poisons - no matter what the dosage !!!!
Unfortunately I had to watch my own mother die a miserable death in 2002 from TBC in Coswig near Dresden ..... about 2.5 months of wasting away with terrible pain and in the end she was just skin and bones !!! -- I cannot advise anyone to be vaccinated and no doctor in the world can guarantee that what has been and will be done here will contribute to a cure or health maintenance - have a liability form signed before treatment and vaccination or administration of medication !!!!
Hello Mrs. Schmitz,
Thankfully, an enlightened view of the crisis of the past few months has emerged in my closest family circle. I was also able to persuade my brother and his wife to consider a differentiated view of the current events, with success.
I recently turned 60 myself, my wife 62, and our parents are still in full 90, 88 and twice 87.
My father, who is 90, has been treated several times in different hospitals over the last few months for various age-related ailments. During this time, he has switched from home care, which my mother could no longer afford at the age of 88, to inpatient care in two different retirement homes. During all this time, my mother, at 88 years old, visited her husband every day on public transport, had tests, vaccinations etc. and sat on the bus wearing a mask. Thank God she now only has a 20-minute walk to visit her husband.
Fortunately, my wife's parents are still living in their house and we (my wife and I, our daughter and husband and our two virus spreaders, 1 1/2 and the five-year-old kindergarten superspreader) have been visiting them every week since the start of the pandemic and are involved in their social life. For reasons that cannot yet be explained, no one in our family has fallen ill yet. How could that be until now? Honestly, we are at a loss. And here's the kicker. --- Apart from the four old people in the family, we are all unvaccinated !!! Imagine that... we're just healthy. Inexplicable.
Yes, corona has left its mark, even on my circle of friends. It hurts when people simply turn away from you after many years without a word of explanation, openly or sometimes in secret, you don't get in touch anymore, or when you see each other again, you realize quite quickly when the topic comes up that you'd rather sit down at another table from another side. I'm trying to live with that now, it takes time but it will happen. On the other hand, you make new friends, and they are more valuable than the ones you had before. The conversations are more profound and people are simply more considerate and empathetic towards each other.
And then you come to her case, which is apparently not so special. It's hard to imagine an external event breaking up a marriage like that, but as we've seen in recent months, it doesn't seem to be an isolated case. It's actually something that leaves you speechless. I don't think anyone here will be able to give you any really good advice in your situation, and I'll abstain from doing so and can only wish you all the best for the future.
Dear Mr. Kronenberg,
You are absolutely right when you write to the lady that you can't really give good advice in this situation.
That's what makes the situation so hopeless. As I write this, my throat is tightening, a kind of bewilderment has spread through me.
It's a blessing to have a family that accepts different life choices. I'm 68, divorced, the only unvaccinated person in my immediate and extended family. Everyone has been vaccinated 2 or 3 times, including the teenagers. They obviously take it for granted, like brushing their teeth. Not only my whole family, but also friends and acquaintances are now vaccinated and recently a friend I have known for almost 40 years told me that he thought it would be good and right if unvaccinated people had to pay for their own health insurance and any costs of intensive care treatment from now on. The ensuing discussion ended our decades-long friendship. Pure hatred poured out of the mouth of a cultured person who I had previously considered to be liberal.
I am Austrian and the political tightening of the lockdown for the unvaccinated and compulsory vaccination from February, the propaganda of the media, the wording of politicians, experts and virologists,
which most closely resembles the wording of pharmaceutical representatives, salespeople selling shady financial products or simply normal lobbyists, has become so unbearable that I am in despair. Alone in a family and a world that seems to be different from the one I live in.
All of this is now topped off by the fact that my little grandsons, aged 6 and 4 years and 5 months, are also threatened with being vaccinated in the near future. Because, although the vaccination is only permitted from the age of 12, schools, kindergartens, pediatricians and state politicians are not only recommending off-label vaccination but are actually forcing parents to make this decision. Because my first-grader grandson, who currently has to wear an FFP2 mask at school anyway, would otherwise soon no longer be able to attend various events, such as weekly gymnastics.
I myself, 68 years old, have not yet contracted Covid. However, eight double or triple vaccinated family members so far...
With best regards
Ursula EHRMANN
Dear Mrs. Schmidts,
I am 86 years old and like to paint, I regularly take part in courses at the VHS (Schleswig-Holstein). I am (was) currently active in a course and unfortunately had to learn on Friday how our politics divide, divide and exclude us people.
Since I am not vaccinated and my regular negative test (it has been accepted for weeks) will no longer be valid in the future (2G regulation from Monday for all courses), I am no longer allowed to participate. I was informed of this by email. All vaccinated persons are allowed to attend the course together without a test, although the state ordinance states that vaccinated persons can also be carriers of infection. And according to the RKI, these people can also end up in intensive care units or the cemetery. Why? The course participants and staff at the VHS are deliberately exposed to this risk. This is negligent and incomprehensible!
Stay strong. We all have our burdens to bear, each in our own way, but we shouldn't let them get us down.
VG
Margret
Dear Bettina Schmitz,
Ihr Brief hat mich sehr berührt, weil ich Ähnliches erlebe! Zwar geht es bei mir „nur“ um meine beiden Söhne, die nicht mehr bei mir leben und ich dadurch nicht täglich unter ihrem Unverständnis, ihrer Verachtung gegenüber meiner Entscheidung (Impfung) und Denkungsweise zu leiden habe! Ich bin 96, lebe alleine und bin ungeimpft. Und ich liebe meine Kinder, aber seit Corona bekomme ich viel seltener Besuch von ihnen und den Enkeln! Wir haben anfangs versucht, über unsere verschiedenen Meinungen zu diskutieren, das Ergebnis waren Wutausbrüche, oder sie verließen mich wortlos ohne Abschiedsgruß! Dann haben wir beschlossen, das Thema Politik und Corona in Zukunft aus unseren Gesprächen auszuklammern. Seitdem können wir immerhin überhaupt noch miteinander reden. Aber unsere Beziehungen zueinander sind nicht mehr dieselben, sie sind kälter und nicht mehr so herzlich wie früher, ich spüre immer die Ablehnung, oder Vorwürfe und das tut weh! Auch habe ich viele Freunde seit Corona verloren und fühle mich sehr einsam. Diese ganze Impfpropaganda und Panikmache erinnert mich übrigens sehr an Goebbels! Das hab ich doch schon einmal alles erlebt in der Diktatur!
But I would like to help you so that you can cope better with the disappointment of your husband thinking so differently! Stop trying to change him, it's pointless! With people who are so compliant with the government, who don't want to hear other views and are not open to any kind of logic, there's no point! I think many people are simply too comfortable to do their own research and think for themselves, they just take what they hear on ARD and ZDF at face value!
Machen SIE sich jeden Tag eine Freude, tun Sie etwas Gutes für sich! Ich helfe mir mit guter Musik, ich male viel, das lenkt mich ab und gibt mir zusätzlich Erfolgserlebnisse, oder ich gehe mit meinem Rollator durch den Park, genieße die Luft, die Bewegung, die Bäume und das Vogelgezwitscher! Gestern habe ich die Matthäuspassion im Radio gehört, vor mir der Klavierauszug, ich habe sie selbst im Chor mitgesungen! Bei den Chorälen „Befiehl Du Deine Wege“, „O Haupt voll Blut und Wunden“ und „Wenn ich einmal soll scheiden“, kullerten dann die Tränen und mein eigener Kummer wurde ein bisschen kleiner! Vielleicht finden sie selbst auch Irgendetwas, was Ihnen Erleichterung bringt!? Ich wünsche es Ihnen sehr!! Und suchen Sie Sich Gleichgesinnte zum Austausch, das hilft! Alles Liebe für Sie, Sie sind nicht allein!
P.S.: It's good that there are people like Markus Langemann! I thank him for his good comments!
Dear Ms. Behrendt,
I was particularly touched by your answer, thank you very much!
After your and all the other letters here, I can no longer agree with you when you say: the elderly must be protected!
This has already made me feel strange, of course, it is encroaching. No matter how young or old someone is, you retain your right to self-determination. Thank you for making this so clear to me. I will think of you when I see ladies with walkers in the future! 🙂 That will give me courage.
All the best for you!
Dear Ms. Behrendt,
You touched me incredibly with your answer.
Thank you for your wisdom and compassion, despite the sad experience.
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I was amazed at how similar your situation is to mine - I am 64 years old, unvaccinated by conviction, also to avoid the promises of a Great Reset
in einer überwachten Gesundheitsdiktatur nicht dienlich zu sein oder zu werden. Mein ehemaliger Lebenspartner, der jetzt „nur“ noch mein Chef ist in gemeinsamer Geschäftsführung eines Ladens ist 10 Jahre jünger als ihr Mann, aber ebenso überzeugter regierungstreuer, doppelt geimpfter „Zeit“ – Leser, Tagesschau – Fan und hält mich für die Ausgeburt der übelsten Verschwörungstheoretikerin, wenn ich nur den Ansatz anderer Fakten an ihn heran zu bringen versuche. Gespräche über das Thema C sind so zwischen uns eben nicht mehr möglich, manchmal aber für die Organisation in unserem Laden notwendig.
One thing has proved successful so far - which I don't want to recommend to you, but simply relate as an experience: We have been living separately for several years (he with his new partner, I alone after my last two children moved out) and have fought our way through to a benevolent way of dealing with each other that respects each other's differences. Of course, the fact that we are no longer in close proximity and our lives are no longer intertwined makes the whole thing easier, but it's still a valuable achievement.
I have learned a lot for myself personally in these last 20 months - to trust myself and not to let anyone or anything lead me astray.
Like many other people who feel the same way, I have made new friends and let go of old ones, I have a new appreciation of the value of the path into my own inner self, of dealing with spirituality and faith and I am learning to deal with my old and new fears.
I can understand you sooo well and wish you very much to find a way - if at all possible, also with your husband! All the best and love to you!
And I think it's wonderful that so many people have responded! THIS is the solidarity we need....
So a BIG THANK YOU to Mr. Langemann!
Your Sabine Henn
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Your letter has already been commented on a lot, so I will be brief. I find your situation very sad, stay strong!
The video link will be helpful for your decision: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ll0AM0_bhXc
Yours sincerely
Michael Walther
Thanks for this link
Thank you very much for this tip!!!! I will recommend it to others. I wish you a wonderful Sunday with lots of harmony!
Hello Mr. Walther,
just for the record... the video has been removed because it violates YouTube's community guidelines...
However, keeping your spirits up is a real challenge!
All love
Beate Magerkurth
Dear Mr. Walter,
I was still able to view the link you provided, but at around 16:30 it was no longer possible. Is it just me who is reminded of the darkest times?
Kind regards, Christian Frei
Dear Ms. Schmitz, dear like-minded people,
I am comforted by the fact that so many people reply/comment here. Fortunately, I don't have a similar situation myself, but there are several examples in my environment. I wish us all perseverance, each and every one of us in our own individual way. We are many!
May real qualities: love, humor, wisdom, serenity, humanity....siegen!
Ursula S.
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I would also like to express my sympathy. It's nice to see so many like-minded people writing here. That is at least a small consolation, even if it is no relief from the nightmare.
My own case is somewhat different. I am 72 years old and live alone, I have no family. So at least I'm spared the hassle, but the constant agitation against those of us who have been vaccinated and the ever-increasing pressure put me under a lot of strain. The biggest problem for me right from the start was having to wear a mask. I have breathing difficulties and probably also a psychological problem. I see the damn rag as a humiliating imposition, a symbol of submission. That's why it doesn't just bother me when I have to walk around wearing it, but also when others do it, some even with growing enthusiasm. I haven't used public transport for a year and a half because I have to wear a mask, even though I actually rely on it.
Now the pressure to vaccinate is getting stronger and stronger, forced vaccination is on the horizon. I am determined not to give in to the blackmail to the last consequence. Where will this lead? - I'm sorry I can't be optimistic, but the situation is serious.
All the best!
Wolfgang Krüger
We can agree with your view
Dear Wolfgang
Just connect.
We remain steadfast ...
Ulli and Margit
I am younger than you and would like to thank you. For seeing the mask as submission. If only all people were as intelligent as you. I wish you all the best, stay strong.
I have no idea where this will lead. But I too am determined to fight it to the bitter end. You have to be able to bear your own reflection, everything else is irrelevant.
Dear Mr. Krüger,
I agree with you, the situation is serious and we will resist. I can also understand that you are losing your optimism.
My days fluctuate between confidence, faith that everything will be fine, and anxiety and fear. The anxious days become fewer as the measures get tougher, because I take good care of myself and connect more and more with people who think like me. We go for walks, drink coffee together, laugh together and make plans. I consciously stay positive. I want to strengthen the positive side, increase the positive power and do what I can to change things.
At the weekend I spoke at a small rally against child vaccination, we were about 200-300 participants, with a lady aged 82 standing next to me. She said:
„Gerade meine Generation muss hier stehen mit unserer Geschichte. Ich stehe hier für meinen Enkel, der in Köln studiert, wo bald 2 G gelten soll.“
That made a deep impression on me, because my own parents (84 years old) fled the GDR in 1960, don't understand what's happening here and are afraid of the virus. I am the only one in my nuclear family who has not been vaccinated, apart from my aunt, who is 82, and my partner.
I can imagine that it is particularly difficult for you to be alone with your thoughts. I can only advise you to network and share your thoughts. It's so good for you. Perhaps there is also a rally near you? Dates can be found on the Democratic Resistance website, for example. There you can talk directly to nice people from your area.
Let us strengthen each other.
I hope you rediscover your optimism.
There is always hope.
Nadja Böhnke
Love, light and confidence,
to you dear Mrs. Schmitz and to everyone else on this site and to people all over the world.
I have also experienced rejection, exclusion and a lack of understanding in my family and sometimes in my circle of friends. On the other hand, new friendships have formed, casual relationships have deepened and many a network has been loosened that was already tearing and fraying before 2020 and has now finally been torn apart by the coronavirus pandemic.
There are always two sides to a coin. We can also change our perspective and put ourselves in the other person's shoes. Doesn't he or she feel the same as we do? We have also become strange for the other person and don't really listen to what the triumvirate of Drosten, Spahn and Wieler mantra-like preach to us. Are we too stupid to understand what the SZ, the public broadcasters and Die Zeit have to tell us?
Was geschieht dann mit dieser Perspektive? Es entsteht wieder eine Gemeinsamkeit. Es ist für beide Seiten schwer, weil man sich im Grunde doch mag und das gilt es zu betonen. Da halte ich es mit dem Satz von Herrn Dr. Daniele Ganser „Du hast teilweise recht. Ich muss ja nicht verraten zu wie viel Prozent.“. Aber selbst dieser Satz kommt mir manchmal schwer über meine Lippen, das gebe ich ehrlich zu.
Ich kann Ihnen, liebe Frau Schmitz, von H. Ganser den Vortrag „Corona und die Angst“ aus September 2020 wärmstens ans Herz legen, sowie die Vorträge von Frau Vera F. Birkenbihl, Kommunikationstrainerin, die auch noch auf YouTube zu finden sind. Vielleicht schauen Sie sich diese gemeinsam mit Ihrem Mann an und lachen zusammen ein bißchen. Oder für die politischen Gemüter den Vortrag von H. Professor Dr. Rainer Mausfeld „Warum schweigen die Lämmer?“ Das Gute daran ist der Vortrag ist von 2015/2016 abseits von Corona entstanden und H. Mausfeld ist bei den Leopoldina Mitglied. Auch hat er 2020 ein Interview in den Deutschen Wirtschaftsnachrichten zur aktuellen Coronalage gegeben mit dem Titel: „Gesundheit nur Vorwand: Eliten instrumentalisieren Corona-Krise für Massen-Manipulation und mehr Kontrolle.“ Mein Freund ist damit bei seinem Chef auf offene Ohren gestoßen. Oder zu Weihnachten das Buch „Die Welle“ von Morton Rhue verschenken?
Each of us acts out of a different fear. We need to understand that. And there it is again, the common ground. We are all afraid. Of the virus, of losing our livelihood, of being forced to be vaccinated, of losing democracy and of losing our freedom. Fear as a commonality. Common ground is the bridge we need to get to the other side without giving up on ourselves. I can cross this bridge back to my side at any time, just as the other person can stay on their side. At best, we simply visit each other from time to time and accept each other in our own way.
Manchmal brauchen Dinge auch einfach Zeit. Ein chinesisches Sprichwort besagt. „Wenn Du etwas liebst, lass es los. Kehrt es zu Dir zurück, ist es Dein. Bleibt es fort, hat es Dir nie gehört.“
I come from the other side. At the beginning of the pandemic, I also thought that the virus was dangerous, especially for my parents (84 years old), and I sent them into lockdown a day earlier than the politicians demanded because I was afraid something might happen to them. I ceremoniously hung up my masks to dry according to the day and how often I wore them and looked at my friends strangely, who, in my eyes, were quite open about the corona rules. But I also drew up a chart myself from October 2020 with the daily case and death figures and the number of free intensive care beds. Purely based on a gut feeling. I accompanied my parents to their first vaccination, which they had decided to do voluntarily without me ever talking to them about it. They described themselves as guinea pigs. I myself, again based on a gut feeling, said from the beginning that I wanted to wait with the vaccination until more data was available. I dismissed the lateral thinker demos as cranks, which I am very sorry about today.
This summer I was struck by the realization. It came to me suddenly because my boyfriend and I, both unvaccinated, were no longer allowed to stay overnight at my sister's (vaccinated) house. That hurt me deeply. That tipped the scales. I researched intensively for six weeks. I had set myself a target: fact-based research, away from the mainstream media, as I already knew the perspective. No social media, I'm not active there anyway. I also excluded H. Wodrag and H. Bhakdi, as they were notorious. I went to the EMA, STIKO and Public Health England websites and opened up a whole new world for myself. I became more and more stunned, could hardly sleep for fear and came across more and more terrible things. Now I'm here with you. Insight can sometimes be very painful. So I know both sides. Today I was at my first rally in Wolfratshausen organized by a small initiative that is taking action against childhood vaccinations. Better late than never.
In my opinion, there are four hurdles that need to be overcome in order to enter into the discourse.
1. Deutsche Geschichte: Wir müssen klar stellen, dass wir nicht mit den „Schmuddelkindern“ sympathisieren.
2. excessive demands: Many people have become tired of the topic and want to be left alone.
3. fear: Some may consciously or unconsciously realize that something is wrong and are afraid of the realization.
4. ego: Many simply do not want to admit that they have been deceived for fear of being ridiculed and dismissed as stupid, or consider themselves omniscient because they read the SZ.
It is important to talk to each other with a lot of sensitivity, understanding and goodwill without trying to convince. Every now and then I succeed and people's ears open. The squirrel feeds on hard work. We must continue to take good care of ourselves and look after ourselves so that we don't despair.
Was gibt mir Kraft? Der Glaube, das alles gut wird. Wir stehen mitten in einer kompletten Umstrukturierung unserer bekannten Welt. Sie wird nie wieder so sein wie zu vor. Aber wir haben es in der Hand wie sie werden wird. Eine bessere Welt als vorher, geprägt von Freiheit und gegenseitigen Wohlwollen oder eine düstere unfreie Welt. Die Chancen stehen 50:50. Es wird eine Entscheidung für die gesamte Menschheit sein. Und das gilt es zu verstehen. Auch wenn nicht alle mitmachen und unserer Meinung sind. Wir können für alle Menschen beten, glauben, singen, tanzen und lachen. Wir können für alle Menschen widerstehen. Für unsere aller Freiheit, für eine bessere Welt. Bleiben wir im Guten, im Glauben und in der Liebe. Malen wir uns eine positives Bild. Stellen wir uns vor wie es sein wird mit unseren Lieben in einer schönen Welt zu leben. Der Glaube kann Berge versetzen und die Menschen auch. Auch wenn nicht alle mitmachen und unserer Meinung sind. Es braucht nur eine kritische Masse, so sagt man doch, glaube ich, um die Kettenreaktion in Gang zu setzen und diese kritische Masse gilt es zu erreichen. Das haben wir Menschen dieses Jahr schon einmal bewiesen: An der Ahr und in der Eifel. Mit Hilfsbereitschaft, Mitgefühl und Unterstützung. „Furcht ist nicht in der Liebe, sondern die vollkommene Liebe treibt die Furcht aus.“ 1. Johannes 4,18
Let us resist fearlessly in love.
Dear Mrs. Schmitz, I am thinking of you and everyone else.
Everything will be fine, I believe that.
Ms. Böhnke, your reply to Ms. Schmitz's letter is an absolute highlight worth reading. Thank you very much for it. Kristina
Dear Kristina,
Thank you very much, your praise makes me very happy.
A friend has often told me I should start writing. Sometimes I think she's right.
I'm currently looking for a job anyway.
I wish you all the best from the bottom of my heart
Nadja
Thank you very much! ♥️
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
What you are describing is unfortunately very common today and clearly shows how great the so-called collateral damage of this pandemic is. It is probably not even possible to treat this medically because it has political causes. Unfortunately, from a medical point of view, I can only strongly advise you to separate immediately and make a fresh start. You still have many years ahead of you, which will only get better. If you stay, you will turn into a mental wreck within a very short time. Sorry, but even after 30 years it's not worth it!
Dear Ms. Schmitz!
Bei mir ist es ähnlich. Mein Mann ist, wie ich es nenne, ein Systemling, der regelmäßig das lokale Käsblättchen liest, angefüllt mit von dpa übernommenen regierungskonformen „Nachrichten“. Der schwarze Kanal und aktuelle Kamera bzw. ARD u.ZDF sind ihm ein Muß. Seine Fachzeitschriften beinhalten Verlautbarungen auf der Basis von RKI, Drosten, Lauterbach & Co. Politische Themen, C -Wahnsinn sowieso, spreche ich schon lange nicht mehr an und laß mich auch nicht zu einem Kommentar hinreißen. Es bringt mich, ob der Ignoranz, nur unnötig in Rage. Argumente kann ich eh nicht anbringen, denn sobald ich nur ein Stichwort, Namen bekannter Wissenschafter sage oder ihn auf den PCR-Test und seines Aussagewertes anspreche ( ich arbeitete schon ca. 1988 mit PCR-Testen), werde ich bezichtigt in einer Phantasiewelt zu leben, Verschwörungstheorien anzuhängen. Dabei kommt mir, bei seiner fast wütenden Reaktion, der Verdacht auf, daß er sehr wohl hinter Lug & Trug schauen kann, es aber nicht wahrhaben will bzw. im System bleiben will. Meinen Fragen und Argumenten setzt er sich nicht aus, sondern wird unsachlich, beleidigend, und flüchtet.
Er ist noch im medizinischen Bereich tätig; ich bin es glücklicherweise nicht mehr, sonst würde ich bald zu den „Impfpflichtigen“ gehören, d.h. ich würde meinen Beruf aufgeben und anderweitig einen Broterwerb suchen müssen.
In the meantime, I have become stoically calm. C doesn't happen to me. I can buy groceries without a mask and have only been made fun of from time to time in 2020. I get fresh fruit and vegetables at a small market stall run by a Kurdish family, where customers wearing masks are informed that they can remove their face coverings with impunity. Some don't know the current regulations and wear masks outside for fear of getting a ticket. At the market stall, there is always a purely coincidental meeting of like-minded people who are easy to recognize. Our conversations indirectly inform other customers who belong to the other group; and there have also been positive conversations with FFP2 mask wearers who were relieved to take the thingy off.
There is a lot of storytelling and laughter, which is critically scrutinized and reprimanded by the authorities in the nearby town hall.
Incidentally, the park-like cemetery is more fun and conducive to socializing than the city centre.
My friends waiting for me on the bookshelf, the musicians who play for me, singers who enchant me, long walks for relaxed togetherness, chance encounters, conversations about God and the world, singing a song, putting the dry fountain pens to work, writing letters, feeling kissed by the muse...and keeping my common sense...that's my recipe against the madness and its disciples.
I thank you warmly for your public letter and wish you much serenity.
Your
Inge S.
p.s.
The Stoic Marcus Aurelius wrote:
Look inside yourself!
There is a source of goodness inside,
that never stops bubbling,
as long as you don't stop digging
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Thank you for your courage in opening up in this way and also many thanks to Mr. Langemann for the opportunity to exchange ideas with each other.
I can empathize with their despair from the bottom of my heart. There have been and still are many goodbyes in the last 2 years. I am 46 years old, a single mother of one daughter, have two
older sisters and my parents are 83 and 82 years old (war children). Our family has been extremely divided since spring 2020 (in addition to the usual family dynamics). Our parents are convinced that the truth is in the daily newspaper, are hypnotized all day long by Deutschlandfunk news and TV news and parrot the predetermined narrative. My eldest sister is single and a teacher, highly intelligent, but I don't recognize her. Obedient like our parents, also vaccinated like them. My middle sister (also a single parent, one son, living in DK for three years) - she and I are the "black sheep" in the family, so to speak. But the most amazing or unbelievable thing about all this (apart from our mother's insults about us being stupid, lateral thinkers, right-wing, lacking solidarity or whatever) is that I can still remember how our parents brought us up and what they gave us and now they are behaving in a completely contrary way and feel absolutely in the right. "Never go with the crowd, but swim against the current." "Just because everyone else is doing it, saying it, doesn't mean it's right." "You have to be able to stand alone with your opinion." "Form your own opinion." and so on and so forth..... My parents were very authoritarian and they did a lot of things wrong, but luckily I've come to terms with it all and forgiven myself. What I still find incredible, however, is that my parents seem to have lost their own way of thinking somewhere along the way as they got older. My father was always very correct and liked to stick to the rules, but my mother, on the other hand, liked to be cheeky from time to time, didn't let anyone tell her what to do and didn't always follow all the rules if they didn't make sense to her. That really impressed me as a child. I can follow recipes and rules in traffic, but I can also take responsibility for changing a recipe or crossing a red pedestrian light when I'm completely alone at the crossing. I really admired my mother's ability to think and make decisions for herself and it shaped me. It made me strong when my mother said to me: "Just because everyone else has or does this or that doesn't mean you have to have or do it." We were brought up and strengthened in such a way that even as children we were able to stand completely on our own and put up with everyone being against us or having a different opinion. I always followed my intuition or my clear mind, which was also reinforced by my mother. I can now deal with this division both within the family and externally. It was and is a recurring process of letting go. In love. For peace. Letting go is the greatest gift you can give yourself and others. I follow the truth, my inner alignment, nobody can break that and I am grateful for that. I go through life unmasked with a smile, untested and naturally unvaccinated with a functioning immune system and know that good will prevail. In gratitude and solidarity with all other truth-seeking souls -
Best regards
Ulli
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
We humans are experiencing so much sad tragedy right now. My attempts to spread factual information in the family have also been met with aggressive rejection in some cases. I can't believe that people can so actively look the other way... and that most mainstreamers confuse the bearer of a message with the perpetrator of a problem.... That's one side of it.
The other: We are able to get to know many new people right now, I am experiencing a whole new quality of togetherness, open, interested and curious, I wouldn't have got to know them without C.. There is so much diversity among us humans, it's so beautiful to experience and it's carrying me through this madness.
The positive and negative are always there at the same time and we can decide at any moment where we want to direct our attention. This makes us self-effective again.
All the best to you and to all of us
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
In response to your courageous stance to remain unvaccinated, may I point to the circumstances of your husband's obedience. It was a time when disobedience was punished. Conformity to the point of denying one's own free will was the order of the day. You may be familiar with this from your parents. Therefore, equanimity would actually be the order of the day - love for all that is. Especially when it is difficult, because resistance hardens the fronts and any conversation fails. On the other hand, there may be a fear of an invisible enemy - Corona is also framed as the enemy of all mankind - and a possible stubbornness of old age.
Segnen Sie ihn in seinem Sein. Wenn er sich wieder ablehnend äußert dreimal tief atmen und ihn in Gedanken umarmen. Ob dies hilft wird sich zeigen. Viel Kraft für die nächste Zeit. Stress mindert das Immunsystem und könnte so diesem „C“-Gesellen die Pforte öffnen.
A lot of power,
Sincerely
Bernhard Wilhelm Kirschbaum
Hello Mrs. Schmitz,
I don't really have the right to give you any fine advice; advice can also be a slap in the face.
I am 73 and vaccinated, but not out of conviction about the promised effect, but out of cowardice and convenience, combined with the hope of being able to maintain contact with children, granddaughter, relatives, friends and acquaintances. My soft-spoken opportunism is one more reason to admire you and your attitude.
You write about your once firm conviction that C could not keep you and your partner apart.
Without wanting to sound know-it-all: Corona will not keep you and your husband apart.
It is the coronavirus policy measures that divide people.
It is the Merkels, Lauterbachs, Spahns, Söders, Müllers, Baerbocks etc. who talk about unifying solidarity but mean compulsive conformity.
It is church and association representatives (including doctors, trade unionists, business bosses, etc.) who see people only as homo hygienicus and zoon bioticon, but no longer as zoon politicon.
Without wanting to play the pseudo-psychologist:
Set a rational and emotional contrast to the incriminating images that are politically propagandistically intended, sensationalized in the media and also very privately COMMANDED.
Betrachten Sie Bilder von gemeinsamen Reisen und Urlauben, von ’schönen‘ und für Sie (beide) positiv besetzen Orten und Landschaften, Personen und Situationen.
Look at these pictures as an individual or (if possible) together.
This is not an escape from a divisive reality into a lived past, but offers access to a unifying aesthetic and a joyful future. It is not about freedom FROM horror and pressure on you, but freedom TO vibrant color and beauty. Contrast the political and pseudo-private COMMANDMENTS with a beautiful private OFFER. Don't just be a mask-like person (lat./gr. persona = mask), but a personality.
You are an admirably strong woman. You can do it.
I wish you continued strength, stamina and vitality.
Best regards
EH
Hello Mr. Hofmann,
I find it extremely important that you point out that it is not corona that is the dividing factor, but the propaganda of politicians, the media and doctors that is responsible for this.
Fachleute wie Dr. Wodarg und andere weisen immer wieder darauf hin, dass es dieses Virus schon sehr lange gibt und im Prinzip keinen aktuellen Bezug hat. Es scheint mir angebracht zu sein, im Hinblick auf die derzeitige Situation eine „neue Sprache“ zu entwickeln um so, auch verbal, einen Weg zu finden ohne Diskriminierung einen eigenen Weg zu gehen.
Best regards
Wolfgang Habisch
Dear Bettina Schmitz,
This is the first comment I've ever left on a platform - and I've read all the comments so far (which I never do otherwise).
But the comments do express one thing: Compassion for you (which is a beautiful human value) and you are not alone - although sometimes you can get the impression that you are alone.
Aber die „Hardlinern“ sind so wie sie sind. Dafür gibt es viel Gründe – auch den, einer riesigen Todesangst. Wer solche Angst hat, der kann nicht mehr klar denken (egal aus welchen Grund: Angst vor der Spritze oder Angst vor dem Virus). Wer diesen Gedanken zulässt, kann die (oft sehr scharfen und unlogischen) Reaktionen andrer auch für sich besser einordnen – was einen näher zum eigenen inneren Frieden** bringen kann.
Ob die Politiker diese Todesangst haben, weiß ich nicht oder ob es andere Beweggründe gibt (ob einen ganz „großen Plan“ oder „nur“ Angst seinen eigenen Pfründe zu verlieren).
Ich habe früher selbst Unternehmen als Geschäftsführer geführt. Wenn jedoch immer ins „selbe Horn geblasen wird“, ist das nicht gut. Es gibt IMMER eine andre Sicht und Argumente für ein anderes Verhalten und Maßnahmen. Das ist das was ich den Politikern und besonders den Mainstream-Medien ankreide, dass sie sich mit keiner anderer Meinung öffentlich wirklich (in Quantität und Qualität) auseinandersetzen . Ich wünsche mir eine Regierung und nicht einen Vorsteher der „schon weiß was für mich und meinen Kindern gut ist“.
Im Augenblick kann ich meine Kinder (7 und 10 Jahre) nicht mehr besuchen, was aber auch für die Kinder (aus „persönlichen“ Gründen heraus wichtig wäre), weil auch in Sachsen die 2G-Regel gilt und die Hotels geschlossen haben.
You see, the regulations (not the virus) cause suffering on so many different situations and levels.
All the best and love for you - and keep looking for your own center (you can do this, for example, with **, meditation and becoming aware of the value of your own life)
Manfred
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
You speak from my soul! Although my husband is 1 year younger than me, we have the same thing here. We've spent 30 more or less good years together and raised five children. He worked 100%, I was a mother for 20 years 100%. That's why I always took care of all the children's needs and didn't vaccinate them. But now with Corona, he thinks my attitude is terrible.
Our youngest son is severely disabled, not physically but neurologically. He needs 1:1 care. And now a caregiver in his residential group tested positive and our son had to go into quarantine because he wasn't vaccinated. He would have been locked up in the home for 10 days, which was out of the question for anyone. So we took him home and I now looked after him. But my husband, who was double vaccinated, was so scared of us that he always walked around at home wearing an FFP2 mask. He reproached me so much that it was only because I wasn't vaccinated that this situation had arisen. True to the line. I know what he sees on TV. I read the newspaper every day to know what's being served up. It's exasperating! The defamation of the unvaccinated is almost unbearable.
Our other children have also been vaccinated voluntarily, for different reasons. We can no longer talk about it as a family.
If it goes on like this and I am excluded from my family because I am unvaccinated, I don't know if I can stand firm. I feel like I'm selling my soul!
Best regards
Christine Fässler
PS, during the first lockdown our disabled son couldn't go home for 12 weeks and developed depression. He only came out again a few weeks ago. Even back then in March 2020, my husband and I didn't see eye to eye. I couldn't understand how you could lock down an entire society to save 0.5% from death.
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Having to stand up to attacks from outside is one thing, but trench warfare with your partner is something else. I admire you for being able to withstand the pressure. My sweetheart and I agree on this point, thank goodness.
I would like to send you words of comfort, but the only consolation is that you are far from alone. Think of all the people who are still withstanding the pressure of vaccination. Most of them are normal, thinking people like you and me.
Als wir in der Schule das Dritte Reich durchnahmen, habe ich mich gefragt, wie sich ein Volk durch Propaganda täuschen lassen kann. Heute ist diese Frage beantwortet. Wie eine Herde Schafe der Propaganda folgen nennt man heute „Verantwortung tragen“. Gesunde Menschen nennt man heute „asymptomatisch Erkrankte“. Einen schweren Ausnahmezustand mit Einschränkung fast aller Grundrechte auf Dauer zu etablieren nennt man heute „neue Normalität“. Eine Handvoll willfährige Fachleute im Dienst der Pharmalobby nennt man heute „die Wissenschaft“. Menschen, die gegen Tetanus, Röteln, Polio und anderes geimpft sind, diffamiert man als „Impfverweigerer“. Das Versagen der Politik wälzt man auf Sündenbücke ab und trichtert den Menschen die Parole „Pandemie der Ungeimpften“ ein, anstatt von Dänemark, Schweden, Florida und anderen Staaten zu lernen und dem Bürger einzugestehen, dass das blinde Vertrauen auf die Corona-Impfung sich als Rohrkrepierer herausgestellt hat. Hat irgendeiner im ehemaligen Volk der Dichter und Denker Orwells 1984 gelesen? Aber was schreibe ich da, bei denen, die sich informieren, trage ich Eulen nach Athen, bei allen anderen redet man gegen eine Wand, weil Konzerne, Medien und Politik ein unheilvolles Bündnis eingegangen sind, das man nur noch als Wahrheitsministerium im Orwellschen Sinne titulieren kann, und diese Menschen schon im Bereich des blinden Glaubens angekommen sind. Sie sind Opfer der Propaganda geworden und durch Vernunftargumente nicht mehr zu erreichen. Folgt der heiligen Sandale!
Following the latest decisions by Empress Merkel and her right-hand man Darth Söder with the compliant nodders of the Conference of Minister Presidents, there is only one motto left in Germany: vaccination makes you free.
Es sind düstere Zeiten, die vor anderthalb Jahren angebrochen sind. Damals habe ich ein laienhaftes, mehrstündiges Video unter dem Kanal „Corona und Rechtsstaat“ gemacht (welches weitgehend unbeachtet blieb und so das Zensurradar überstanden hat), um mich nicht dem Vorwurf auszusetzen, geschwiegen zu haben. Nachdem die Justiz diesem Trauerspiel fast nichts entgegengesetzt hat, mutige Richter als Rechtsbeuger verleumdet werden und der neue Präsident des Bundesverfassungsgerichts mit Harbart auch noch ein Parteifreund Merkels geworden ist, der vorher nie ein Richteramt innehatte, hat der Rechtsstaat nun wohl endgültig verloren.
But you shouldn't give up hope. So let's keep hoping.
Best regards
Rainer Leutert
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I have experienced your situation 1:1, and that after 30 years of marriage. It can become unbearable at times.
But it gets even worse if the partner is diagnosed with cancer again in the meantime
and the hospital forbids visitors for no less than 3 weeks.
I had to endure that, and it happened in a city with 350,000 inhabitants.
My wife has since passed away. Germany is now a stronghold of contempt for humanity
and is coming out as highly antisocial in more and more areas.
I no longer have any real explanation for this development and unfortunately I don't see any
The tendency is for the pro-government followers to wake up.
Remain steadfast and realize that an infinite number of people feel the same way.
If music is important to you, I recommend Moon River sung by Melody Gardot.
It may be a matter of taste, but there is strength in this calm.
Best regards
Dear Mrs. Schmitz, I feel for you! Our family is having more and more stressful exchanges of ideas and urgent requests for me (63) to be vaccinated - out of concern, of course...
My objection that I am afraid of such a vaccine is not taken seriously. Today I was in town with one of my daughters and had a strange feeling that we weren't allowed to enter the Christmas market. All in all, the situation is draining, even if it is in no way comparable to the drama of a split in a long-standing marriage. The unvaccinated people around me and I give each other courage and strength, pull each other out of the constant chaos of thoughts and I take a vitamin B complex every day to support my nerves. Unknown to you, feel hugged and comforted. I have no idea how to solve your problem. I wish you lots of strength from the bottom of my heart!
Dear Bettina.
We are all struggling a lot during this time.
I myself am lucky enough to be married to a man who thinks exactly like me.
What stresses me out the most is the torture of our children - I work in a school as a PA.
But believe me, there are many of us, and I think more than we realize, more than we are told.
More and more people are waking up and realizing what is happening in our countries.
So please do not be discouraged, you are not alone.
Please stay strong, it will soon be over.
Dear Tonia,
That is exactly my hope, that what we are experiencing now is the end game.
I hope for justice and would like to see all those who enabled and participated in this brought to justice.
Best regards Markus
Dear Mrs. Schmitz !
My dear life friend and father of our grown-up children behaves exactly like her dear husband. I was initially offended, hurt, angry and completely disenchanted. The other day I asked him where the rock-n-roller I once married had gone..... He got vaccinated, of course. Our kids vaccinated themselves into "freedom" at 21 and 24 mM. My only wish was that he would influence the kids to
w a r t e n ..... I already wanted to separate 87,000 times, but what kind of signal is that to the descendants? even more division!
I have sensational parents who have taught me a lot, especially charity. Be careful with your husband, he probably still needs you. Otherwise, I recommend you unplug and stay in nature. You are not alone.
Yours sincerely,
Beate
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Your situation exactly describes the relationship between my parents-in-law. He also puts his wife under constant pressure. They are not alone.
Kind regards
Dear Ms. Schmitz, thank you very much for your article which describes my legal situation exactly. However, we are blessed with two almost grown-up boys in their fifties. I feel the same way as you have described. I have to say that I am now leaving the marriage emotionally. I don't yet know where it will lead. As many friendships have also broken down, I am consistently looking for new friends. I have realized that my husband is increasingly afraid that I will turn away from him. My husband acquired his corona anxiety mainly through a suspected cancer. He is also a West German lawyer and totally convinced of the goodness of (sham) democracy. As an East German academic, I'm used to a lot of things from my youth in the GDR. In general, things seem more bearable here in East Germany. We generations 50+ nod to each other and go back to our beginnings. Or as a genuinely West German friend put it when we naturally shared our resistance experiences with her. "resistance? How do you do that? I'm living in a dictatorship for the first time" - I don't need to explain anything, we laughed a lot, we had a lot of fellowship and since turning to God played a role for many at the end of the GDR, this is also returning. Away from the mainstream churches etc., of course.
We are celebrating a meadow service and are essentially sticking to God's word, which Markus Langemann has already shared here... what do I mean by that? My conclusion so far, and this is certainly not a final conclusion, as this situation will continue to bother us for a long time to come, is that we must step out of the narrowness of the relationship. If we succeed in doing this, the rift will ease and we will move towards each other again or we won't succeed. With my husband, who I experience in a similar way to you, things are also changing. He can't get anything out of the new lockdown, even for vaccinated people, and although he still doesn't ask around himself, he is making his own observations. For example, we have now been on vacation in Sweden for a week and he arrived at the airport 😉 BER with the remark: now we are back here in the masked state. All in all, I think you shouldn't throw in the towel as quickly as you throw in the towel and always realize that there is an incredible amount of fear and defensive perceptions on the supposed other side. Perhaps my experiences will help you...
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
There may be a lot of older people who hide their naive fear of death behind a mask.
They think they are protecting themselves. From what, from dying?
My partner wasn't anxious, but she gave in to the pressure built up by our circle of acquaintances.
On August 20 of this year, she visited her family doctor to discuss lab results.
Flux was also injected with a first vaccination with Pfeiser, although she was actually skeptical about the vaccination.
She passed away 23 days later, shortly before her 70th birthday.
The cause was an anyrisma in the pericardium.
Of course, according to pathology, this had nothing to do with the vaccination.
I reported the case to the Paul Ehrlich Institute anyway, and they actually called me back.
The case has been added to the list of symptoms to be observed.
What I am experiencing now is, on the one hand, horror among my friends and a split.
On the day of the funeral, a best friend explained to me that the death had nothing to do with the vaccination.
And that was only because I said that the uncertainty about the connection with the vaccination was bothering me.
People are looking for reasons to explain what is happening. But you don't want to get involved in the obvious.
How could you, you would have to think about a possible wrong decision.
I now live with my mother-in-law, who is 98 years old and has not been vaccinated. As I'm not vaccinated either, I'm 73 years old, we can both have a good laugh about the evil family doctor.
So even in these abstruse times, there are older people who are of the same opinion.
Naturally, the circle of friends shrinks rapidly.
I haven't heard anything more from the family doctor. It must be a bad feeling when you've possibly got your hands dirty.
People seem to be content with the symptom.
Until now, however, it was usual to know the cause.
If I push someone off the balcony and he breaks his neck, the cause of death is a broken neck. But the trigger was the pushing.
Perhaps you will show your husband my letter and let him light a candle for my deceased wife,
Sometimes people come to their senses.
With kind regards
Horst Beilhartz
https://trauer.merkur.de/traueranzeige/maria-huber111/trauerfall
„Vom standthaften Hiobs habt ihr gehört und sein Ende steht an…“ heißt es im Jakobusbrief.
Remain steadfast, remain true to yourself. Otherwise you would become even more unhappy and desperate. Even today, there are many Hiobs who are sitting on the ash heap of their lives and their spouse is still giving them the rest.
But the Grechte will rise from the dust and rejoice even after today. We need patience and character.
In der Offenbarung im 3. Kapitel heißt es: „Du hast das Wort von der Geduld bewahrt und so werde ich dich bewahren vor der Stunde der Versuchung, die über den gesamten Erdkreis kommen wird und die Bewohner auf die Probe stellen wird. “
Hold on to the truth. Keep looking for it in order to remain firm. Truth is indivisible and you cannot bend it. Continue on the path of justice.
Let him who seeks find, and to him who knocks, the door will - without doubt - be opened.
Danke für die Offenheit Ihrer Worte: Sie sind nicht alleine. Auch für Sie gibt es einen Plan und um es mit Franz Rosenzweig zu sagen:“ den Stern der Erlösung „. Es bleibt nicht immer Nacht….
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Your honest words have touched me deeply and I am writing to you because I would like to give you a little courage in this almost hopeless situation.
At the same time, I'll tell you about my partnership, which is the other way round (me 64, him 42). At the beginning I wasn't allowed to express my doubts about the whole C story, there were immediate arguments and I noticed how it made me feel worse and worse. I now have some old new friends on the internet and in real life with whom I can talk about my worries and thoughts and I no longer talk about it in the partnership. What has happened? My partner now comes more and more often and tells me what he has experienced again in this absurdistan. I then also give my opinion, but our confrontation has weakened considerably.
I am lucky with my two sons, who are also very self-thinking people. I have given up all other efforts because I have read some psychological background to this situation, why it works the way it does at the moment...
Ich wünsche Ihnen und all den vielen Selbstdenkern Kraft und Durchhaltevermögen im Kreise von Gleichgesinnten und sei es eben „nur“ virtuell…
You see and realize that you are not alone with your emotions.
All the best for you, dear Bettina from Martina
Dear Mrs. Schmitz, I can well understand your despair, thank God my wife and I have the same opinion. We have also been very intensively involved with Corona and the measures and have long been unable to see anything positive in the political power play. It is also a tragedy that the fourth estate has allowed itself to be harnessed to politics in this way, but in the end it is up to us citizens to put a stop to it. I can only support their stance and wish them much strength and confidence, best wishes from Switzerland.
B. Aeppli
Liebe Frau Schmitz, ich fühle sehr mit Ihnen. Bis vor Kurzem befanden sich meine Eltern in der selben Situation. Mein Vater, geimpft, regierungstreu und von den alten Medien mehr als nur beeindruckt und meine Mutter, naturheilkundlich geprägt, waren sich sehr uneins und es gab sehr viel Streit…und nun? Nun ist meine Mutter „umgefallen“, ignorierte ihre Bedenken und ihr Bauchgefühl und hat sich impfen lassen. Ist sie deshalb glücklicher? Ich denke nicht. Seither rechtfertigt sie es an jeder Stelle. Wohl eher vor sich selbst… Dies macht, zumindest mir, deutlich, wie wichtig es ist, sich selbst nicht für einen oder viele andere Menschen zu verleugnen. Ich schweige zu diesem Thema seit einem großen Streit mit meinem Vater weitestgehend und behalte meine Ansichten und wie ich damit umgehe für mich. Ich kann Ihnen nur raten sich mit Menschen zu umgeben die Ihnen gut tun. Das stärkt ungemein. Und auch wenn ich den Tag im Jahr 2020 verfluche an dem das alles angefangen hat, so bin ich dennoch dankbar für den immensen Erkenntnisgewinn über viele Umstände des Lebens, den es gebracht hat. Ich wünsche Ihnen beiden von Herzen alles Gute. Bleiben Sie stark.
Dear Ms. Schmitz.
I cried when I read your letter!
I am the mother of four wonderful children (have been !!!!) and now grandmother to 5 grandchildren, and unfortunately, due to these challenging times, I only have contact with 1 daughter and my youngest grandchild. All the others are vaccinated - for my arguments, studies and competent statements from experts, etc., they are NOT vaccinated. NOT too accessible, but I am labeled a "Reichsbürger". My 10-year-old grandson was visibly irritated when I asked about a visit. > but grandma - you're a risk group! I am informed about this via children's television<
Despite being in close proximity, no contact is desired and this has been the case for almost 1.5 years.
I can empathize soooo well with how you feel and what a difficult time we are going through. Hang in there - the madness will soon come to an end!!!
I wish you - all of us - all the love, strength, courage and like-minded friends!
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I can understand your suffering very well. It has become a bit difficult with my one son and his wife. They are vaccinated, I am not. At least they understand me and I accept them. Despite everything, there is increasing friction when I pass on information about side effects. I only mean well, so that they can both look after themselves and not worry about themselves too late. But no, they don't want to know. They are also becoming increasingly frustrated because they can already see how they have been lied to and deceived. Admitting this certainty or error is not possible. Perhaps your husband feels the same way. What remains, despite all caution and consideration? Only our loving heart. Love, confidence, hope and prayers to the source of all being (I am not a believer, therefore no God). As I don't live with my son and family from morning to night, it is easier to approach them again and again. The many contacts with like-minded people that I have on the outside also help me. A drumming group, a women's group, a gymnastics group... If we can't meet inside, we meet outside - parks, woods,...
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Thank you for your openness, which shows a lot of pain. It has certainly not been easy for you. The division in our society is gaining momentum, but - I think - the change has begun. As the saying goes: before something new can emerge, everything has to sink into chaos.
We will emerge from this test with renewed strength and, above all, meet like-minded people. It will then also be possible to make new friendships that may last a long time. No matter what age we are - we are young enough for something new!
I wish you lots of strength, stamina and universal energy. Things can only get better! That brings out the optimist in me again. 🙂
You are welcome to contact me if you wish.
Best regards
Yours, Margrit Manhold
Liebe Frau Schmitz, haben Sie herzlichen Dank für Ihre Offenheit. Ich habe mir ihre Antworten durchgelesen und freue mich soviele nicht gehorchende Menschen zu sehen. Da bekommt man Mut durch zu halten, ich glaube auch, daß es nicht mehr lange dauern wird und ich hoffe das die Nichtgehorchenden in ihrer Klarheit bleiben. „Ein Gedanke, hinter dem kein Menschen-Ich steht und kein Herz dafür bürgt, mag uns nicht wirklich zu interessieren und sei er noch so logisch, richtig und klug.“ Diesen Gedanken las ich und wende ihn auf die Massenmedien an, d.h. ich schaue sie schon nicht mehr.
Dear Ms. Schmitz, it will be
Yours sincerely
Gerd Helmers
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I understand you because I feel very similar. I am 55, my husband 49, have been together for over 18 years (although not married) in a long-distance relationship. I now see the latter as a huge advantage - we live in completely different federal states and parts of Germany. Everything that has made up our relationship over the years - traveling, doing things together, etc. - is gone due to the coronavirus measures. We've never had an everyday life together, which helps me a lot at the moment.
He is fully in line with the government as far as Corona is concerned and absolutely not open to any other arguments. I've been looking behind the scenes for about a year now and have informed myself extensively (also because I lost my jobs due to corona and therefore had more time for it). In spring 2021, when the pieces of the puzzle were fitting together more and more for me, I made my first tentative attempt to share my knowledge with him - for our future together. For an email that I had spent 2 hours writing (including sources) and which I wrote out of love, I received insults and a "thrown" Spiegel article with a "slating" of Dr. Wodarg. My actually dear, peaceful, cultivated husband was unrecognizable - I had never experienced him like that before.
In May, my niece happily reported that she had "finally" been able to arrange a vaccination appointment - for me, the day was over because I couldn't understand how a breastfeeding mother could come up with the idea of getting vaccinated at all and then...why not at least wait until after weaning! At least I was able to get her to get information from her doctors/midwife etc. - but they all advised her against it ("the baby would be protected as well"). I cried for a day. My husband couldn't understand this - and a little later he had himself vaccinated behind my back. He let it slip the next day in an argument - I immediately uninvited him for the following weekend, partly because I was afraid of the shedding - the result: a huge row and another day of crying for me (I'm not usually so close to the water). At least I was able to get him to have his thrombocytes and D-dimers checked during the second injection - they were unchanged. He didn't notice anything at all twice (saline vaccination?) - and therefore understands all the less that I am still unvaccinated ("You should have enough arguments to finally get vaccinated", "because so many people don't get vaccinated, we all have to go back into lockdown" was the message just yesterday - what politics and the media are telling vaccinated people. He doesn't see that this only serves to increase the pressure on the unvaccinated and to divide society - it works "wonderfully" for us.
I don't know what will happen next. It's worked to some extent so far because we've agreed that everyone has to deal with this issue, the biggest crisis of our lives, on their own, each in their own way, with what they think is right. When we talk on the phone, we talk about other things and ignore the issue - sounds weird, I know. I'm the only unvaccinated person in my family (and also the only one "in the know" - but what does the prophet count for in his own country - nothing!) I assume that I will be spending Christmas alone. I've been drawing and painting since spring 2020 - I don't mind being alone - I've never been bored. Fortunately, I have people around me (garden neighbors, sports friends, a former colleague and now close friend (even if she lives far away) who think like me. I talk to my girlfriend on the phone every day - that helps us both a lot.
Sorry for my long post! Thank you all for your comments here for Mrs. Schmitz, from which I also draw strength. We are many - knowing that helps immensely!
What is happening here is a crime against humanity. I very much hope that the house of cards made up of all the lies told by those responsible will collapse very soon and that they will have to answer for it!
In 1989, I would never have thought that I would have to endure the unfreedom I had just defeated once again - and much worse than it was back then.
But there is life "afterwards" - I don't want my health and my life to be ruined by criminals. As the song goes: "We shall overcome some day!"
Good luck to you all!
Dear Mrs. Schmitz, I am in a similar situation to you. My husband (52) is a conventional doctor through and through, and was 'firmly in line' right from the start, completely convinced by the statements of Spahn, Drosten, Wieler, Lauterbach and not forgetting Söder. No matter what criticism I voice, be it of a medical or political nature, all I ever hear is that he doesn't even bother with such lateral thinking ideas. Of course he got vaccinated immediately. Even the serious covid illness of his father (81 - also a strict orthodox doctor and double vaccinated!!), from which he has still not recovered after 1.5 weeks in intensive care, has not made him or his family think. The other day he also said that the unvaccinated like me were to blame for the misery and that vaccination should finally be compulsory!
Our children (20/23) are not vaccinated and try to stay out of the line of fire as much as possible. The subject is not brought up when we are together. Of course, my husband tries to convince both of them behind my back to get vaccinated. So far without success.
What helps me immensely is spending a lot of time in nature with my dog at the weekend (long walks) and surrounding myself with my friends who think similarly to me. Of these, 3 are relatively new friends and only one 'old' friend, most of the other 'old' friends are all mainstream and can't imagine why I'm not. I wonder if they never paid attention in history... even though they all graduated with me and are academics...
I wish you a lot of strength and inner fortitude. Stand by what you think is right! You can't change your husband, you can only change yourself and your attitude or way of looking at things.
Best regards, K.C.
The strict orthodox physicians are not orthodox physicians, if they did anything at all at university other than memorize multiple choice questions, they certainly did not think immunology through. They have turned their backs on the scientific facts and in their trained obedience submit to the corona cult, just as they have always done with the extremely unmanageable prescription of vast quantities of drugs. There they served the pharmaceutical industry without questioning where this was leading. Currently, medicines in outpatient care cost as much as doctors' fees. Patient numbers of over eighty patients a day seem to be normal. How is a doctor supposed to take a correct medical history, make a diagnosis, let alone do justice to the patient as a human being? This has less and less to do with what is taught as conventional medicine and I suspect that this is politically intentional. As a doctor, it's difficult not to buckle and join in. But now wanting to vaccinate all children without any medical necessity can no longer be excused as a weakness of character, that's something else.
Thank you very much for your answer. Unfortunately, many doctors (regardless of their specialty) feel completely infallible and question very little, especially when it comes to Covid and vaccination. The statement by the President of the Medical Association Montgomery alone is a disgrace for the medical profession. Media-effective and inflammatory, but contrary to all reason and medical care. How different is the psychoneuroimmunologist Prof. Dr. Schubert from Innsbruck, who dares to express himself critically and who discusses the holistic aspects of this C-crisis. Best regards, K.C.
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I once read:
„Ein verwirrter Mensch kann Gott nicht schauen.“
...let your husband find his way and wrap yourself in love, then fear won't stand a chance. It is fear that divides.
1,5 Jahre war ich mit meiner besten Freundin zerstritten, doch jetzt findet eine Annäherung statt, da sie merkt, dass „etwas“ in der „staatlichen“ Berichterstattung nicht stimmt…
Some things take time.
Here is a link to an old healing mantra, maybe you will like it:
https://youtu.be/qYT__KuAs9E
Translated it reads like this:
Medicine Buddha, greatest healer, remove the disease, the great disease. Heal me from the illusion of duality.
…
Darkness = ignorance = division...
This time is definitely a challenge, and it's not always easy to hold the torch high ( I am and remain unvaccinated and mask-free and know what I'm talking about )
I'll give you a big hug in my thoughts - unknown, warm and close.❣️
Sandra Thrams
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I'm about your age and I'm lucky that both my partner and my daughter see things in a similar way to me. I have "only" lost friends, one in the row, which still hurts me after almost a year, some because I can no longer talk to them about issues that are important to me. But I've also kept friends with whom I don't have to talk about the current situation because we have something deep in common and I've made new contacts by dealing with this issue.
What you describe is experienced by an extraordinary number of people in Germany and probably also in large parts of the western world. I have heard several times that grandparents are not allowed to see their grandchildren if the former are unvaccinated. A good friend didn't come to the big demonstration in Berlin last year because two of her children threatened to break off contact and stop seeing their grandchildren. I've heard so much about the rift between parents and children. Also between partners. And between friends.
I don't have a solution ready - sometimes break-ups just happen, for whatever reason. Sometimes it's because of something that might not even be the issue.
And sometimes we have to come to terms, even if we can hardly bear the "reality" of our counterpart. I have a very good friend who is 20 years older than me, our age difference is even greater than that between you and your husband. Of course a friendship is not a marriage, but we have been friends for over 40 years, he is a significant, groundbreaking person in my life, and his decision for the first vaccination had shocked me, I don't even comment on the now third one. There is more than right or wrong.
And that brings me to the information war that you are also reporting on - on the one hand, those who are glued to the front row, and on the other, those who are critically informed. We all see, feel and experience that it doesn't work that way: At best, pure information does nothing at all for those who have opted for sheltered thinking. And the "other side" feels the same way. They want to convince us, by force if necessary, we want to convince them, and I'm already hearing from "our circles" that it may no longer work without force.
And if you ask a real conspiracy theorist, someone who has been a convinced conspiracy theorist for over 40 years, he will say: This is deliberate and planned and engineered. That we are tearing each other apart. There is you, there is your partner and there is someone who is setting you against each other. Maybe your partner is stupid, maybe you are stupid (please excuse my stupidity at this point) - there is someone who is clever.
I see the pictures from Holland. It's exactly the same. Demonstrators against police officers. There is one side that I favor, of course. But this conflict is not the conflict at hand. There is a group that doesn't belong to either camp, that remains invisible and that plays us off against each other.
Maybe your separation is due, I can't say anything about that. Maybe it's a revolutionary step to say: Nope, I'm not doing it! I won't abandon mine, even if they are a bit weird sometimes.
That speaks from my soul. It's a bit like cockfighting. You make the roosters aggressive, sharpen their spurs and the owners and their bettors sit in the spectators' gallery. Then the money is distributed. As always, I try the Till-Eulenspiegel act. Unfortunately, it's also absurd theater. Stay friendly as often as possible. Off to the forest. Cemeteries are also good. Good wine helps too. Venceremos!
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Your husband is probably afraid, like so many at this time. The only cure for fear is love. No arguments or advice will help. Accept his fear with love. He will need your appreciation and love. Support him in what he does and leave the decision up to him. It is not your decision to vaccinate yourself. But let him make the decision, just as you can demand that you receive respect for your refusal to be vaccinated. Giving respect is the prerequisite for being treated with respect yourself. Giving love is the imperative of our time. It's not about arguments. We could argue forever and in the end we would have to admit: I don't know what the truth is. Because there are many truths. Don't get involved in discussions, but respect his attitude and his decisions and demand exactly the same from him. If you love your husband, you can also leave him in his world. Anything you do to argue him out of it will make him even more afraid. So leave it alone. What everyone needs right now is respect and love. Especially when the time comes to admit mistakes and errors, this will be easier if we know that we are not being mocked. Feeling loved helps us to be able to admit mistakes. Love, respect and forgiveness are therefore the keys to all our current problems.
Very good. I can only agree with that wholeheartedly.
Dear Mrs. Schmitz, thank you very much for your honest - and touching (!) - words! Dear Mr. Langemann, thank you for your work! To the previous comments: Thank you for the feedback that you are not the only one who has the feeling of being stuck in a horde of lemmings fanatically running towards the said cliff .
I can well understand you, Ms. Schmitz - I, too, have - in other respects - given notice. The contempt for any other point of view, the ridiculing of concerns (a colleague sent me a Spiegel online article to persuade me to get vaccinated...perhaps Mr. Langemann knows the article...) and the fanatical following of the preached narrative are really frightening - and it hurts to see how nothing is left of acquaintances and colleagues who you think you have come to know as clever and critical minds. I am now almost 55 and would never have thought it possible to experience such a situation in this country...
Frau Schmitz, Sie mögen sich isoliert fühlen und da kommen Zweifel auf – „Ist meine Sicht zutreffend ?“ Diese Situation hat was von Gas-Lighting ( man bekommt so oft gesagt, man habe nicht mehr alle Tassen im Schrank, bis man es selber glaubt). Aber ich kann Sie nur ermutigen, auch weiterhin die „andere Seite“mit einzubeziehen. Sie sind damit nicht Teil einer Mehrheit, aber auf keinen Fall allein!
I wish you much strength! (I myself now pray Psalm 23 every day...)
Best regards
AndreasBoy
dear Mrs. Schmitz,
I can totally empathize with this deep pain because I feel the same way. We were an absolutely happy couple for three years. I firmly assumed that we would spend our lives together, and I finally met him when I was 51. And then came corona. And suddenly I'm with someone who says right from the start: you can't read this, it's so evil, you can't even read it or you'll become one with it". What nonsense! I'm a history teacher. I read Hitler speeches. Then I think about them and then I evaluate and comment on them. I don't become what I read. And if the government forbids me to inform myself alternatively, then I do it all the more. And what you find out alternatively, what is really going on in the background of world events, then Corona is just the tip of the iceberg.
He broke up with me a year ago, which is so terribly, terribly sad, we only work as occasional hiking companions.
I'm very lonely now, I've been on sick leave for a long time with depression because I'm the only one at work who has to publicly test myself in front of the boss every day, I can't cope with it all at the moment. It's not so easy to make new friends, friendships take time, but now in the crisis, character traits are really showing themselves that you would never have expected.
Fortunately, I am a Christian and have developed a strong faith. Otherwise I would probably sink into despair. My pastor recently said to me: "Patricia, God is still in control. The situation has not slipped away from him."
The Bible says 365 times: "Fear not! I (Jesus) Am with you until the end of the world."
That is my support.
I now avoid the C-topic wherever possible, as my brains are nailed shut. I no longer work my way through logic and arguments. And I pray a lot more now than I used to. Maybe that's exactly what I need to learn now. To really consistently rely on God that his help won't come too late.
I conclude with Psalm 138:8:
"You Lord will realize your plans for my life. For your love, Lord, is faithful and steadfast."
Best wishes and a big hug to you!!!
Patricia
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
es ist traurig und tragisch zugleich, was Sie erleben und schrieben. Ich bin alleinstehend, ohne Kinder, kann Ihre Situation allerdings aus dem Herzen fühlen und wünsche Ihnen Kraft für Ihren Weg. Xavier Naidoo hat vor längerem unseren Weg „voraus besungen“: „Dieser Weg wird kein leichter sein. Dieser Weg wird steinig und schwer. Nicht mit vielen wirst du dir einig sein. Doch dieses Leben bietet so viel mehr.“
In probably all of our lives, we have already experienced and will continue to experience (?) polarization and division. You could ask what marriage, partnership, family and friendships have to do with attitude, but it's much more than just the odd blip.
Dear Ms. Schmitz, fortunately there are many more of us than we thought, because some are only now coming out from under the radar and showing their light. The great thing is that we recognize ourselves by our aura, our charisma and the smile with which we go through life, despite everything.
Was auch immer Sie tun, bleiben Sie standhaft, bleiben Sie „angebunden“ an die Wahrheit, die Liebe und das Licht.
If you are from Munich or the surrounding area and enjoy a Sunday walk with like-minded people, you are very welcome to join us. (Mr. Langemann will certainly be able to make a contact in this case).
Only the best for you, best regards
Claudia
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I am 26 years old and you certainly have more life experience than I do, so I can't give you any advice, but I would like to help you.
It seems to me that our C. situation is not a sprint, but a marathon. Calm breathing, precise use of strength and looking ahead. We remain true to ourselves. We run together.
I feel for you and wish you the best.
Dear Daniel,
Thank you for your words, which touch me deeply. Precisely because they come from such a young person and show me, 51, once again how irrelevant age is on paper, our souls are often much older, wiser and know the way. All the best to you and everyone else and lots of strength.
Kind regards, Waltraud
Strange, Daniel, your few clear words suddenly brought tears to my eyes. Maybe because my son is only one year older than you and I am so grateful that he is running the marathon with me and my husband in the same team. My one brother and his wife and now my 82-year-old mother too. I send a hug to you and to everyone else who writes and reads here, especially Mrs. Schmitz.
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Your letter to Mr. Langemann touched me very much and also made me feel how your life with your husband is going at the moment. It may be a helpful consolation for you to learn from the personal comments that you are not alone with your experiences, which are having such a burdening effect on your current life together with your husband.
Ich bin mit 75 Jahren altersmäßig eher in der Nähe Ihres Mannes, aber in allem anderen ganz auf Ihrer Seite. Allerdings lebe ich alleine und werde demzufolge nicht ständig auf so belastende Weise herausgefordert. Die Geisteshaltung Ihres Mannes ist vermutlich stark geprägt von einem Gewohnheitsdenken, zu dem auch das Festhalten an einen gewissen Autoritäts- und Obrigkeitsglauben zählt. ‚Die da oben wissen besser, was richtig ist‘ etc… Das zementiert bei vielen älteren Menschen (aber natürlich nicht nur) ein verordnetes Weltbild. Wenn dieses ‚Vertrauen‘ allerdings massiv mißbraucht wird, wie das ja derzeit sowohl seitens der Politik wie auch der Mainstream-Medien geschieht, greift das massiv schädigend in das Leben unzähliger Menschen ein, zerstört Familien, Partnerschaften, ganze Lebensentwürfe.
I am also experiencing a test in friendships, either by being asked to be removed from the mailing list for information recommendations or by contacts either being greatly reduced or ended altogether. From a human perspective, we are currently being catapulted back onto ourselves, which is a much more difficult situation in a partnership/marriage than for a single person. You can also feel very alone as a couple, can't you?
Please feel understood by many people - we are all connected in this respect. This strengthens us and makes stressful situations easier to bear.
I sincerely wish you much strength and wisdom to find the best way for yourself and the best in every respect.
Best regards
Angela Brown
Liebe Frau Schmitz, möchte kurz von meinem Familienleben berichten: 2 Töchter über 20 Jahre – geimpft seit dem Frühjahr wg Nebenjobs im sozialen und gesundheitlichen Bereich. „Damals“ galt noch das Narrativ der Sorge umeinander. Die jüngere möchte sich jetzt den Booster holen. Mann, seit dem Sommer geimpft. Er wollte mit seiner Impfung zur Herdenimmunität beitragen. Sohn, 16 Jahre und ungeimpft im Freundeskreis ca 70% geimpft. Hatte bis jetzt keine Einschränkungen, da Schüler. Muss sich aber dreimal/Woche in der Schule testen. Eröffnet uns diese Woche, er wolle sich jetzt impfen lassen, da ab nächste Woche 2G für Kinder ab 12 Jahre.
My husband had little understanding for my attitude until now. Then there was an extreme argument between him and me, who hadn't been vaccinated, in which I also told him how left alone I felt by my family and how discriminated against by the media on a daily basis. Then a conversation with very open-minded, vaccinated in-laws who had suffered severe side effects from the vaccination for months. This week, my mother-in-law had a very diplomatic conversation with my husband. Since then there has been much more understanding and we are slowly mending the rifts. I have to accept my family's decision in favor of vaccination, they accept mine. And they often express understanding towards me and condemn the denigration of the unvaccinated. My circle of friends has been reorganized into like-minded and tolerant vaccinated people. Tomorrow we're doing a candlelight walk in town for EVERYONE to get back into the conversation.
I also wish Ms. Schmitz a more understanding environment. Sometimes a tearful conversation can also help so that the other person realizes how extreme the situation is.
Dear Bettina,
I don't know whether it is comforting to write to you that you are not alone. In my relationship we share the same point of view and in our circle of friends only to a limited extent. It's tragic that society puts up with this. Try to see things this way. Your husband is quite old and is driven by fear. He can only do so much about that. Be grateful for 30 hopefully wonderful years of marriage. Personally, I wouldn't hold on to relationships that run so contrary to my views. It costs unnecessary energy, which you can put to better use.
I share your age and can say that should my relationship fail after 21 years due to fundamental differences, I will look forward to what lies ahead, without forgetting how wonderful the years have been. I believe that after all the times led by Reichenhand, we are looking forward to a better future. Let's look forward to it. Mr. Langemann wrote months ago that C is an intelligence test. He is so right about that. And intelligence, as I now know, is not shown by titles acquired, but by independent thinking and action, social skills and empathy. I send you strength and confidence and wish you all the very best
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
The cracks are going through all areas of life at the moment and making it clear in an unprecedented way: "who we are". This is often a painful process that demands everything from us. Each of us has a basket of examples at the ready, countless stories of suffering but also unexpected, light-filled encounters. I will probably lose my job now, after almost 30 years of working with disabled people, the fear sits in my stomach and warns: "How will I get my child (13) through this time?" Definitely authentic. I want to be a silent role model and not let the light of love go out. I want to face the fear and walk through it, supported by a "healthy, unvaccinated" body and mind. I want to have the confidence that it will be spring again in our lives. And I try to continue living where I can, to read a book, paint a picture and hug a tree.
Everything can be taken away from me, except myself.
Missionary work is currently unsuccessful, always has been. My mother taught me the art of leading by example. She once brought a nice anecdote from work with her to conclude:
A team of reporters once came to her workshop for the disabled and interviewed one of her carers. He said to the journalist: "Actually, everyone is disabled, only we noticed it!" There's nothing to add to that, so in that sense, keep to yourself!!!
Best regards Udo (55)
...by the way, the Spree also gives the politicians a wide berth...
Dear Ms. Schmitz
I understand your inner incomprehension, resentment, sadness and everything else I have forgotten.
First things first, stay strong and don't let the ignorance (or whatever you want to call it) drag you down, I
sage das nun sehr plakative, Ihr Partner wird Freude daran finden, wenn Sie sich „zerfleischen“ lassen.
I (65) and my wife (12 years younger), have also lost very good friends who are about 10 years older, because the husband of this couple (former Federal Council Secretary in Switzerland), cannot understand that information is a debt to be collected and does not only consist of being fed by the mainstream, also
he cannot imagine that our federal government is not acting for the good of the people.
Vor Corona „bestaunten“ Sie noch mein progressives Vorgehen gegen kommunale und kantonale Mainstream -Ideen/-Vorhaben.
But since Corona, almost 40% of the Swiss population are stupid, irresponsible and much more for him.
Ich kann diesen „Freund“ nicht einmal dazu bewegen, die Daten des Bundesamtes für Gesundheit zu studieren um nachzuvollziehen, dass hier etwas sehr sehr falsch läuft.
Meine Frau ist eine sehr sehr gute Lehrerin, die Kinder lieben Sie und lernen extrem viel auch sozial. Wir beide sind C-ungeimpft. In Ihrem Lehrerumfeld sind 95% geimpft, sie trägt inzwischen als einzige Maske, da ja alle geimpften meinen, „nie mehr“ den C-Virus verbreiten zu können.
Der zweite Grund für das Maskentragen, sind die Kinder Ihrer Klasse (3.+4. Klasse), sie kann auf sehr diplomatische Weise die Kinder durch die „Plandemie“ führen, ihnen Halt geben, sie ablenken von dem Wahnsinn der um sie stattfindet. Würde meine Frau keine Maske tragen und würde ein Kind positive getestet müsste sie als Lehrerin in Quarantäne und die ihr anvertrauten Kinder in dieser schweren Zeit alleine lassen. Es würde meiner Frau das „Herz brechen“.
Mein sehr feinfühliger Sohn arbeitet an der UNI-Zürich und ist trotz vielen Gesprächen mit uns leider geimpft, es schmerzt ganz weit innen, aber es ist seine Entscheidung auch wenn er sehr starkem Druck ausgesetzt gewesen ist an der UNI und wir als Eltern müssen seine Entscheidung akzeptieren. In meinem Inneren hoffe ich, dass mein Sohn ein „Placebo“ verimpft wurde, hoffen ist alles was so Eltern bleibt.
Kind regards
Rene Berchten
Ms. Schmitz,
Please hang in there. It's difficult, of course. But I think the truth can no longer remain hidden. I feel the same way about my fellow human beings. No factual argument is reflected.
We have to stick together and stay strong.
Stay with us
Greetings Ricco
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I can understand it so well, even though my partner and I feel the same way as you do. Nevertheless, it is sometimes difficult for us to keep our balance when the world is going down around us.
I have already had these discussions about corona with many people and no, you can't reach them, because fear flips a switch in the brain that is always activated when something comes along that can shake the world view you have once formed. It is very difficult to admit that you were wrong and even more difficult if you have gone along with everything, trusted people who did not have the good in mind and have placed all those who think and know differently in the corner of evil, wrong and harmful from the outset You want to be one of the good guys, you want to do the right thing. Admitting that you may have been deceived is also difficult because you would then also have to admit that you allowed yourself to be deceived.
I have therefore stopped discussing factual matters with people, because factual matters don't reach them. When a discussion comes up, I first just listen and then decide whether I want to get involved or not and if I don't want to talk about it because I know it won't lead to anything, then I say so politely but firmly - you don't have to agree, you can also disagree, i.e. just leave things as they are. And when I get involved, I only report on how I personally experience things.
And what helps me in this sometimes so distressing world situation is:
To consciously perceive all the things that have not changed and that are and remain the real and constant reality, despite all the mannerisms and changes in our world: nature in the changing seasons, the stars that can sometimes be seen in the sky, the wonderful sunset in winter, the animals outside preparing for the cold season and so on. I consciously go for a walk and notice the smell of frost or leaves, as these are things that are everlasting and calm me down.
A second thing I do is give others small spontaneous gifts that they don't expect - handing out a few baked cookies to someone who is stressed, leaving a small bunch of flowers on the doorstep of someone who is sad. The surprise and the joy that I can spread are a counterbalance to the many negative things that are so prevalent at the moment - for me and for the other person. For example, I'm going to bake a marzipan plait for the staff in the store where I always go shopping on the Saturday before the first Advent and I'm already looking forward to it being a ray of hope for them in all the stress, simply telling them that others realize that you're stressed and that there are still people in the world who appreciate you and your work.
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Your experience will probably be shared by most of the letter writers, as many have had similar experiences.
The time of enlightening the sleeping sheep is over. I had to learn that. My experience was that you can't convince those who are totally controlled by the MSM. You can quote as many sources as you like. I have also lost friends and colleagues, but only the wheat is separated from the chaff.
I have agreed with my husband and family that when we meet, we will leave corona out of it. Otherwise our family and my marriage would have fallen apart.
My whole family except me and all my friends have been vaccinated. Last Saturday, friends were here and talked me into getting vaccinated. This is where I say stop the discussion. To each his own and I say that I include the vaccinated in my prayers.
I cried a lot when I found out about my daughters, who haven't had any offspring yet and have been vaccinated. Now, they are adult women. They also have to live with the consequences if their offspring are born sick or have miscarriages. I couldn't convince them otherwise. That's when I realize how the messed-up education system continues to have an effect. Unfortunately, I couldn't pass on my mother's self-determination to them. My mother never stuck to the rules, and I have that in me too.
I very much hope that they are soulful people and that nothing happens to them.
To all the unvaccinated I say, remain steadfast and upright in heart.
We still have some tough months ahead of us to wake up the vaccinated.
Best regards
A. Weber
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I can empathize very well with how you feel. I am 50 years old and, apart from my mother, my entire family is delusional about the government narrative. Similarly in my personal environment. The only thought that gives me comfort is the deep conviction that good will prevail. In these times, we must be strong for the people who are unable to overcome their fear.
Best wishes and lots of strength from the bottom of my heart!
Dieter Ernst
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I can only agree with the previous commentators and say: I know the problem you are currently experiencing with your husband only too well. My son-in-law and I are almost on the warpath at the moment. To avoid an escalation, I have withdrawn because there is no point in wasting your own precious time working on people who have been highly manipulated by this undemocratic state. In my case it is perhaps a little easier to distance myself than it is for you to distance yourself from your husband. However, there are two grandchildren that I see less of as a result, which of course hurts me. I've also lost a lot of friends around me, but I've gained new ones who are good for me. But it's nice when friendships (or relationships and marriages) stay the same without having to convert each other. It's all about respecting each other, especially in your opinion on the topic at hand, and I hope that your years of love won't be shattered by a little virus.
PS. I have enjoyed Mr. Langemann's professional reports for a very long time, and both his stories and those of my previous commentators have helped me personally a great deal.
Keep your wits about you, you have the strength. Kind regards Torsten Schmidt
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
ja – und in der Folge, sich nicht impfen zu lassen, stößt man weitenteils auf Unverständnis….Nicht: entweder/oder, sondern sowohl/als auch…Die Pandemie ist leider kein fake – in Berlin liegen lt DIVI (Haus der Maximalversorgung) 99 Menschen beatmet mit derselben Diagnose – wer dort arbeitet, hat eine andere Perspektive…weiterhin liegt aber die Hospitalisierung bei ~5% der „Inzidenzzahlen“ mit denen wir täglich gebrainstormt werden und die wahrscheinlich wie im Schrotschußprinzip auch allerlei Nicht-Pandemierelevantes mitzählen. Was soviel heißt wie: der auch vorkommende, gefährliche Verlauf ist deutlich seltener, als medial suggeriert. Häuser der Maximalversorgung lesen wegen der breiteren Kapazitäten oft aus den umliegenden Häusern auf – wo es dann eher ruhig ist. Das Risiko der Impfung gegen das Risiko der Erkrankung abzuschätzen, ist eine individuelle Aufgabe. Wer weniger Gefahr durch die Infektion sieht, weil 80% milde bis moderat verlaufen und vielleicht nicht dauernd oder gar ungern unter Menschen ist, nimmt das nicht unerhebliche Risiko der Impfung nicht in Kauf. Wer dauernd die schweren Krankheitsverläufe sieht, sagt sich: „es ist alles besser als das“.
The worst thing that is happening right now is that people are no longer weighing things up and different perspectives are no longer tolerated. In my family, too, we are unfortunately no longer able to discuss C unharmed...
Unvaccinated no longer in the (municipal) horse stable (where inside equals outside and the horses don't care about Corona) - just because all municipal sports facilities are shorn the same way - and soon probably unvaccinated overtime forced to stroll when 2G also comes at work...it wouldn't be a crisis if it were easy...but it always remains an individual decision what to get vaccinated against - the decision is to be respected, just like the decision for or against any other medical intervention. It's nonsense that vaccinated people can't also get infectious diseases...and maybe soon the fat people will have to eat outside too...
Perhaps this will build you a small bridge against the permanent political polarization of society, right down to the families...divide et impera...we should not allow it.
You address precisely the problem of individual risk assessment: As an old but healthy man, the risk of unknown long-term damage from an mRNA vaccination is lower for me than a severe course of a flu or Coid-19 infection. What's more, I won't lose my ability to move around or travel if I'm vaccinated, which is why my decision to get vaccinated is not difficult.
The situation is very different for young people who still have their lives ahead of them and are hardly at risk from Covid-19 without pre-existing conditions.
Dear Jürgen,
im Wochenbericht des rki ist – neben Grafiken zur guten Wirksamkeit der Impfungen inklusive Hinweis auf unterschiedliche y-Achsenskalierung (!) gleich danach die Tabelle zum Anteil der „Impfdurchbrüche“ der letzten 4 Wochen: 48% der Erkrankten, 44% der intensiv Hospitalisierten und 35% der Verstorbenen sind vollständig geimpft…
A vaccination should effectively counteract an infection. Not: to restore freedom of movement (which is politically restricted in other ways)...how can you politically discuss compulsory vaccination for vaccines that only really protect perhaps half of those vaccinated, but have a potentially significant side effect profile?...And work with 2G if the vaccination protection is not robust after all?...? The cold viruses always mutate faster than the vaccines can keep up...
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
danke für ihre Worte. Wenn ich die vorherigen Kommentare in der Summe lese, frage ich mich, was ich noch dazu beitragen kann, ihnen und den weiteren Kommentatoren, die C-Zeit erträglicher zu gestalten. Aber ich weiß es nicht, denn es wurde schon alles geschrieben. Ich verfolge das ganze C.-Thema schon vom Anfang an und wurde durch zwei Aussagen unserer Kanzlerin sehr aufmerksam geworden. Die erste Aussage und einige Wochen vor dem C-Thema lautete: „Die Welt steht vor globalen Veränderungen von den JEDER betroffen sein wird“. Ich dachte: Was will die den von mir? Die zweite Aussage in den ersten Wochen von dem C-Thema lautete: WIR werden die ganze Welt impfen! Mein Gedanke zu der Aussage: Wer ist Merkel und wer ist WIR? Naja, meine Frau und ich vertreten die gleiche Meinung zum C-Thema und wir werden uns nicht impfen lassen! Ich habe mich aus verschiedenen Aktivitäten (Radsport etc.) auch zurückgezogen, auch aus dem Grund, weil man mit einigen C-Jüngern nicht mehr reden kann. Wenn man sich nur einmal vorstellt, dass das Argument „Alle Ungeimpften sind schuld an der gegenwärtigen Situation“ Früchte trägt, dann frage ich mich, ob die Leute nicht mitbekommen haben, dass auch die Geimpften das Virus auch weitergeben können etc. aber das will keiner wissen und weiter will ich den ganzen Blödsinn nicht erläutern. Aber eins steht fest: Die Bevölkerung wurde über zwei Jahre mit der Erzeugung von Angst quasi „auf Linie“ gebracht. Ich wünsche ihnen alles Gute
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Thank you very much for your open letter, which encourages me to reply to you with pleasure.
We are all looking into the same abyss from two opposite sides of the same chasm that has opened up between us. Unlike an earthquake that tears the world apart in a matter of seconds, the rift you describe, which everyone has probably experienced by now, came slowly, subtly and from behind the scenes. I feel very similar to you with my adult children, who had injections last summer and celebrated this event joyfully like an exciting event that should not be missed. That makes me sad and stunned. I still worry about them today and this feeling remains. The liveliness of our previous exchanges has frozen. When my eldest daughter recently asked me how I was, I hear myself answer in an artificial and evasive manner. I am afraid of her hostility, which immediately assigns me to the AfD without any possibility of an exchange. My experiences in this absurd nightmare have changed me a lot: I have given up fighting for my children. I reassure (actually, I have to be honest here - deceive) myself with the thought that it's time to let them go and stop interfering in their adult decisions.
Gleichzeitig gibt es etwas sehr Stabiles in mir, was mir Hoffnung macht und wie eine ewige Flamme nicht erlischt: ich bin davon überzeugt, dass die „Wahrheit“ sich durchsetzen wird. Das empfinde ich als unumstößliches Axiom, das mich wie eine Basis trägt. Natürlich ist es bitter zu erleben, wie lang der Weg dieser „Wahrheit“ ist und wie viele Opfer jeder Einzelne früher oder später dafür bringen muss. „Lügen haben kurze Beine“. So heißt es doch oder? In mir hatte diese Redewendung die Assoziation verankert, daß „kurz“ für „kurze Zeit“ steht. Das muß ich gerade revidieren. Offensichtlich sind diese kurzen Beinchen durchaus in der Lage, lange Wege ausdauernd zurückzulegen und jegliche Pflanzen auf ihrem Weg nieder zu trampeln.
Fragen Sie sich auch manchmal, was wir vorher übersehen haben? Wie konnte es soweit kommen? Sehr Vieles, woran und wem ich geglaubt habe, scheint verloren. Sie kennen doch auch Sätze in Reden und Texten, die mit „… auf deutschem Boden darf nie wieder…“ beginnen. Ich hatte mich darauf verlassen wie ich mich auf so Vieles verlassen hatte, was jetzt gebrochen ist.
Mich beschäftigen Gedanken an das „Danach“: Wie soll das alles mal heilen? Es wird sehr viel Heilung auf allen Ebenen geben müssen. Wir werden sicherlich noch gebraucht werden, liebe Frau Schmitz. Lassen Sie uns immer wieder die Verbundenheit wahrnehmen, die es zwischen uns „Aussortierten“ gibt und die Sie sicherlich in den Reaktionen auf Ihren Brief spüren können.
Ich hoffe sehr, dass es noch viele Ebenen zwischen Ihnen und Ihrem Mann gibt, auf denen Sie sich miteinander nach wie vor verbunden fühlen und dass Sie die Kraft, die Weisheit und Zuversicht haben, diese immer wieder miteinander finden und gemeinsam nicht zulassen, daß ddieses absonderlich konstruierte „C-Thema“ sich wie Säure durch Ihre lange zuverlässige partnerschaftliche Verbindung frisst.
Best regards and best wishes for you and your loved ones!
Dear Ms. Schmitz, I don't want to take it upon myself to give you advice. Let's try to see what is happening here. We are facing a disease in the wake of which people are being divided. There is disunity, mistrust, discord and, above all, fear. But what are people afraid of dying from? We have to, whether we want to or not, and anyone who closes their eyes to this is closing their eyes to life. Like you, I'm 64 years old and last year my wife went home from one day to the next. She sat down on the sofa, snorted once more and was dead. Without corona! So we will all die sooner or later. That's one of the few certainties in our lives. And what do we do? We cling desperately to this life because we are afraid of the door we will all walk through without knowing what will happen next. I try to bear this situation with faith in God's guidance. Because HE will always be by our side and be there for us. That doesn't always work, that's clear. However, the sudden death of my wife has made this very clear to me. HE decides when a life comes to an end. We are HIS creatures and HE takes care of us, if we allow it. And here - this is my perception - there is a lot wrong. Most people just want to do their own thing. Nobody is interested in what God, our Creator, has planned for us. And HE has a plan, you can be sure of that. HE has an overview. We humans only think we know what's going on. There is this nice joke: How do you make God laugh? Answer: Tell him your plans! Let's get down on our knees again and take HIS hand and never let it go. Then anything can come. The history of the church is full of incidents that prove this. Where people have gone their way trusting in God's guidance, even through sorrow and hardship. And we are in an emergency situation. It just must not be said out loud that we have no real remedy, that we are helpless, that in many areas we have driven our planet so close to the abyss that only powers greater than us humans need to intervene to put things right. The world has gone off the rails and Corona is showing us this in stark relief. And what do we do, we moan all day about how bad everything is. Let's stand up and call for help from the one who REALLY can and wants to help. The one who really cares about people, his creatures, and not about power, money, knowledge, influence and whatever else there is to strive for. Advent is just around the corner and with it a time of fasting in which we can once again come to terms inwardly with the events of salvation. Let's do it and fast, for example, by no longer listening to or watching the news, no longer using cell phones or only to a very limited extent, and so on and so forth. There are so many possibilities. I wish you a blessed time and let us pray for it.
Dear Ms. Schmitz, dear affected persons, dear Mr. Langemann,
I feel the same way. All my work colleagues and family members have been vaccinated. Only a few acquaintances remain steadfastly true to their views.
My children are 11 and 13 and I'm glad that my husband at least agrees with me on this and doesn't want them to be spiked either.
After the treatments of family members, the following side effects occurred:
My father has paralysis in his foot lift and tongue and has lost 20 kilos. He was in the heart clinic with atrial fibrillation.
He has seen all the specialists, had an MRI of his brain and chest. No one can help. He is deteriorating rapidly.
My mother-in-law was in the eye clinic for 5 days with an eye thrombosis. A week later, she was hospitalized for two weeks with a high fever, very high inflammation levels and extensive shingles. She was given intravenous penicillin.
... She is having a booster next week...
My husband's cousin collapsed at the age of 36, non-smoker, no previous illnesses during soccer training. 3 days in a coma, 3 stents, rehab.
The neighbor of my parents and my former schoolmate; healthy, no previous illnesses, died of a heart attack less than 2 weeks after the 2nd vaccination and leaves behind 4 children between the ages of 4 and 14.
...apart from my father, nobody likes/can accept the idea that it could be due to the treatment.
My husband accepts my decision, but sometimes lets it be known that I sound like a conspiracy theorist. He thinks compulsory vaccination for certain professions is fine. I am a teacher and he knows that this will cause me great hardship. This substance is not fully licensed and my husband is a very intelligent lawyer who is very committed to a good transition to freedom for offenders.
But when it comes to the C theme, all that seems to have been wiped away.
Ich sende ihm kommentarlos immer mal wieder Artikel zu, die in für ihn „unverdächtigen“ Medien erscheinen.
I love him, but I realize that I no longer share my fears about the future of our children with him. Instead, I've met nice people who share my arguments and have a similar view of the situation.
If my children had grown up, or I had been alone with them, I would have emigrated with them.
My daughter said:
Mom, you look so sad...
You always say that everything is good for something...
...if it's been so shitty for so long, then something really wonderful must be coming out of it! I think it's going to be really nice.
With these words from an enchanting human child, I leave you with my warmest regards
Mona
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I can understand you so well. It's exactly the same for me. A man who is full of fear of corona, but of course only reads Spiegel, because as you know, they know more. An 18-year-old son who totally emulates his dad and of course got vaccinated immediately to protect everyone else from this dangerous virus. Only mom is stupid and, of course, a lateral thinker. They both studied and got great grades - arrogant to the point of falling over. The fact that I also studied with a diploma is deliberately ignored, I only graduated with a 2, so nothing can come of it. My husband only has a technical college, but at least he earns the money, because I was stupid enough to stay at home with the children. Only my older son sticks by me a little and is not vaccinated.
We don't have any friends either, except me, because I'm not vaccinated - it's my own fault! As soon as I suggest anything that sounds different from the mainstream, they leave the room immediately. In the beginning, they wanted to convince me of their opinion because it was written in Der Spiegel about how to deal with dissenters. Incidentally, I've been an amateur psychologist for over 36 years, I saw through the patterns early on and told them to do nothing. They are nailed down. If the whole madness ever ends, I'm not sure how I should position myself in relation to them. I've actually finished with them. Whether it can be fixed again at some point, I don't know. I wish you lots of strength, you are not alone and stay strong. I do too. Yours sincerely, B.
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
zuerst einmal, Sie sind nicht alleine. In meiner Familie gibt es zwischen den „gestupften“ und nicht Bearbeiteten keine Differenzen. In der Großfamilie, also mit Tanten, Onkeln und deren Ablegern sieht das schon ganz anders aus. Auch da sind es die nicht „gestupften“ die versuchen zu vermitteln. Es fällt nicht leicht, ganz bestimmt nicht. Mir persönlich haben ein paar Beiträge von Daniele Ganser ganz gut geholfen. Er sagt, jeder hat eine andere Angst in diesem C-Zusammenhang. Jetzt versuche ich, gemeinsame Schnittmengen zu finden, also das was uns verbindet. Auch bei diesem schwierigen Thema ist das ab und zu möglich oder auch nicht. Tja, da wird es knifflig, es stellt sich die Frage ob es möglich ist, einfach das Thema für sich zu verarbeiten aber halt nicht gemeinsam. Wir alle hatten doch auch ganz andere Gesprächsinhalte. Schauen wir doch dort nach, vielleicht bei erhebender Literatur, Musik oder sonst einem Herzensanliegen. Es wird Zeit, dass wir unser Leben einfach in beide Hände nehmen und mutig drauflos … lieben, lachen, singen, tanzen, alles gerne laut, das ist das Elixier das uns am Leben hält, die Liebe. Darauf trinke ich einen Secco, auf ihr ganz spezielles Wohl und darauf, dass wir das Leben genießen. Ich grüße Sie ganz herzlich und fühlen Sie sich gerne umarmt.
Petra Auchter
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Yes, the reactions of our friends, relatives, children and various spouses could not be more different. My children are vaccinated, I myself am unvaccinated at the age of 75. When we meet, they expect me to at least do a spit test. My friend's children, 83 years old, feel cheated themselves because the vaccinations don't stop. They tolerate my friend's decision. A friend in the neighborhood talked to her husband with the tongues of angels, just like you. That didn't help either, he secretly got vaccinated because he wants to take part in the theater club and sauna. She remains steadfast. But at least he said that because she wasn't vaccinated, they would stay at home at Christmas and not go anywhere. I am convinced that everyone has to stand by their decision on the one hand, but that tolerance for the decisions of others is also necessary at the same time. Even if this can be very painful and very difficult to bear. And we always have to look for ways to reach an amicable mutual understanding without becoming hardened. I have learned that you cannot change someone's mind if they are not prepared to do so or cannot accept a different point of view. With this in mind, I wish you a quiet, peaceful Advent season. Time for ourselves again and again is so precious and irreplaceable. All the best to you Margrit Hanke
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I was very moved by your slice and I think it's good and important to publish this and to talk about it.
Ich selbst wohne seit mehr als 10 Jahren in der Schweiz, komme ursprünglich aus Deutschland. Ich bin jetzt Mitte 50 und habe einen recht internationalen Bekanntenkreis. Die Mehrheit meines Freundeskreises (nicht des Bekanntenkreises) ist überzeugt ungeimpft. Einige haben den Druck nicht stand gehalten und andere eher wenige sind (noch) überzeugt geimpft. Ich habe auch Menschen als Freunde verloren, weil ich ungeimpft bin. Nicht, dass ich den Kontakt oder die Freundschaft „gekündigt“ hätte. Ich werde die Freundschaft eines Menschen nicht daran bemessen, ob dieser nun geimpft ist oder nicht.
In my circle of friends, I also know two couples in which one partner is convinced unvaccinated and the other (including the entire family environment) is not. I think the two unvaccinated people enjoy being able to talk to me sometimes because there is simply someone there who understands them deeply.
Unfortunately, it seems that the media brainwashing has led to a kind of mass psychosis, a kind of delusion among those susceptible to it and you can no longer get anywhere with logic and statistics, even if the other person is a mathematician. And even with some doctors, neither statistics (with the side effects) nor studies on alternative treatment methods or approval studies on the so-called vaccines help.
Dennoch ist gezielte Aufklärung erfolgreich, wenn sich beim Gegenüber irgendwann doch mal der Zweifel regt. Aber erst dann – so meine Erfahrung. Die Mainstream-Medien berichten inzwischen über „Impfdurchbrüche“, die Nebenwirkungen lassen sich fast nicht mehr unter den Teppich kehren. Ich könnte mir vorstellen, dass es die nächsten Wochen so richtig „rund“ gehen wird. Allerdings auch für unser aller Gefühlswelt.
I think it is very helpful to get together with like-minded people. The technical possibilities are very beneficial in this respect. Although nothing can replace being together with others in person, the exchange in chat groups is still helpful. It works across borders and lockdown regulations.
Best regards,
Elisabeth Mayr
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I would like to comfort you, but not give you any advice.
My thoughts are:
30 years of cohabitation is a long time. Don't let the madness of the present day lead to destruction.
Topics come and go, even the holy C will disappear. Remember the common ground and cohesion of the past years.
Why should they not return?
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Perhaps what they were able to give each other as a couple has been fulfilled? Lived? This current time brings to light many things that are difficult to bear, to endure, to look at...especially with people who are close to us, whether partners, children, friends, colleagues, etc.
Dieser Schmerz lässt sich nicht umgehen, wir müssen uns ihm aussetzen und Wege einer Transformation finden…soweit ist mein momentaner Erfahrungswert damit…und wenn ich wieder mal ins Schwimmen gerate wende ich mich nach innen- denn neben all‘ den Informationen auf der Verstandesebene habe ich in mir eine ganz tiefe Überzeugung, daß diese Entscheidung, mich nicht impfen zu lassen, eine Entscheidung ist, die in ihrer Bedeutung weit über den Einzelnen hinausgeht…
I wish you all the very best!
Sigrun Muhm
I am also 65 years old, have been together with my partner for more than 25 years and we have had so few disagreements in that time that I can count them on one hand. It's been different for about a year now. We argue about once a week, because in my husband's eyes all corona critics are bad people, he also devours the daily news, Drosten Wieler and co. He hasn't been to a doctor for 20 years, he hasn't been particularly well for the last 3 - 4 years, but now he's gone to a doctor to get vaccinated. We had discussed beforehand that he would have a check-up first and then we would talk about it again once all the tests had been completed. What can I say... the X-ray examination is still pending, the result of the blood test is not yet known, but he proudly returned with his freshly issued yellow vaccination certificate. I was horrified. All in all, my decades-long happy marriage has been inexorably going down the drain since around mid-2020. I'm slowly but surely becoming very weak, I can barely defend myself and I force myself to say a tired yes-yes-yes almost every other word. There's nothing more I can do, I bury my head in the sand and let the good Lord be a good man.
Dear Ms. Schmitz and to the other "sufferers"!
I would just be repeating myself after a lot has already been said and written about this anyway. Fortunately, things are different at home, at least for my wife and me. However, one of the older children also has the same resistance and that saddens me.
What helps us is to discuss, exchange ideas, write and, above all, meet with people of the same wavelength with friends or the rest of us. Although it is also important to engage in a discourse with many other opinions on the subject and try to understand why someone thinks, feels and acts the way they do. It is precisely all of this that keeps my hopes high that, in the end, good will prevail.
With hope, love and the very best wishes!
Günter
Hmm, wo ist das Problem von Frau Schmitz? Sie hat die Entscheidung getroffen, sich nicht „impfen“ zu lassen, ihr Mann wird sich zum 5. oder 6. Mal „Boostern“ lassen, also trifft jeder seine Entscheidung für sich. Warum sich das Umfeld nun von ihnen oder ihr abwendet, könnte ganz andere Gründe haben. Sicherlich gebe ich Frau Schmitz recht, wenn sie die Verweigerung ihres Mannes von alternativen Medien beklagt, aber damit muss sie nun mal leben oder auch nicht, ihre Entscheidung.
Hello Annegret, Mrs. Schmitz has the problem of being ostracized and that is human, she shares that such a shitty situation turns her life upside down, that is also human, maybe she just needs encouragement like so much. There is nothing wrong with that. Let's act in love and humanity and let them participate in the knowledge that they are not alone.
Hello Bettina,
What you are experiencing is something that many people around the world are experiencing in almost exactly the same way.
This cannot be comforting, but it shows that you are not alone.
Ich kann auch gut verstehen, dass Sie die Beziehung aufrecht erhalten wollen, heisst es nicht „in guten wie in schlechten Zeiten?“.
On the other hand, I hope that you pay enough attention to yourself and realize when tolerances are being exceeded.
Für mich in Ihrer Situation wäre eine Impfnötigung so eine Toleranzgrenze. „My Body my Choice“ würde ich auch mit meinem Leben oder Flucht aus dem Lande verteidigen.
Unfortunately, I know of a case in my family where exactly that happened, where the spouse massively coerced his wife and she unfortunately gave in.
Those for whom the propaganda doesn't quite work and who remember that we have constitutional rights should stand firm.
With this in mind, I wish you strength, mindfulness and happiness
Michael
Dear Bettina,
I'm just going to say you. Cheer up! Think of yourself and your needs, as sad as it is... stay centered! I can totally understand that I 52 my husband 55 vaccinated after the second vaccination over 4 months strong side effects now he is better... but he can't promise me that he won't go to the booster! What else can you say... since Corona everything is just tense, I don't know if we will survive this together... what I 100% know... as soon as I leave my center I feel worse! I just take care of my needs now, that has priority, that's the best thing about this situation... I've realized for myself what I need, we all only have one life...
Everything else will sort itself out, I firmly believe that we all have a protection... God will never leave us alone... we should walk in love with ourselves and others again... trust... and listen to our hearts!
Give yourself a big hug... in hindsight we will all understand why it all had to happen...
Best regards
Violeta ❤️
Good evening Mrs. Schmitz,
I can sympathize with you all along the line.
My own marriage has not survived C either, my personal abyss deep, my path still long. C is not the sole cause, but certainly a large part. I sincerely wish you much strength for the coming months.
Kind regards
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
bei Freunden von mirzieht sich der „Bruch“ nicht nur durch Partnerschaften. Väter lehnen ihre Söhne ab, Töchter ihre Eltern …
I hope you can feel a little stronger with the comments here - even if it doesn't change much about the situation itself ...
Sincerely
Since Mr. Langemann concluded with words from the Bible, I would like to follow on from there. "Cast all your anxiety on Him, for He cares for you." 1 Peter 5:7 Like many of the previous speakers, I have noticed time and again that arguments and discussions are unfortunately worth nothing. The rifts often become even bigger as a result. I am glad to have a faith that allows me to hand over a problem to someone else. This gives me peace and enables me to meet the other person in love. It is often the last resort that I can see for myself without despairing. I wish all troubled souls this support!
Dear Ms. Bettina Schmitz,
we know exactly how you feel... my father is vaccinated and has the same views as your husband. We are all (my mother, myself, my sister and her family) unvaccinated and in good health. I want to tell you that you are not alone! Hang in there and stay strong! Don't waste your energy trying to convince your husband... it won't do any good. We have also given up and that's a good thing - be proud of yourself! Best regards
I have recently had amazing success in communicating with vaccinated people using the following arguments:
„- Wer kann sich anmaßen zu urteilen, welche Ängste „legitimer“ sind, die vor dem Virus oder die vor dem Impfstoff?
– Wir wissen sowohl über die Viren mit ihren Mutationen als auch über die Impfstoffe mit ihrer neuen Technologie viel zu wenig um beurteilen zu können, wer in welchen Punkten am Ende Recht behalten wird!“
So mancher aggressive „Impfer“ rudert dann mit seinen totalitären Äusserungen ein bisschen zurück. Bei dem einen oder anderen habe ich damit schon ein Mini-Samenkorn des Nachdenkens gesät….
Ich empfinde da manchmal das geschriebene Wort dem gesprochenen überlegen, da die Gefahr des „nicht richtig zuhören“ bzw. „falsch verstehen“ meines Erachtens geringer ist und der/die Angesprochene auch nicht sogleich etwas erwidern muss.
I sincerely hope that as many people as possible will remain courageous and never tire of standing up for justice, freedom and tolerance.
Dear Ms. Schmitz!
Your situation is not unfamiliar to me either: I am also familiar with your feelings.
It is a very stressful time.
May I invite you to listen to a conversation between Gunnar Kaiser and Dr. Frank Brunner from Heidelberg. Perhaps it will give you some additional support.
I've been out hiking a lot more since March, sometimes spending whole days outside, whatever the weather.
I still try to be close to people and talk to them, even if it mostly boils down to the old song of division.
Many a friendship has also deepened.
However, the pain is always there, caused by all these various upheavals and outrageous developments.
With best regards and the wish that you will continue to help your husband.
remain weighted.
Beate Gmelin
P. S.
Our attitude seems to be something innate, or it can also be
and solidified through the development of our childhood and youth.
Dear Ms. Schmitz, I was in a long-distance relationship for 14 years. The separation due to Switzerland being cut off was hard. But the relationship was destroyed by this argument, just like yours. The refusal to take any notice of other information at all - I took a long time to prepare the facts. It was pointless. You can't argue about pure mathematics, you can only look away. You will not solve it. It's like when you're standing on the bank and your partner is floating in the river and doesn't take the rope. Do you want to put it around his neck or bring it in and drown too?
Dear Mr. Langemann,
I didn't really want to comment publicly on this dystopia, which has now lasted almost 2 years. As an awake, single woman with a beautiful profession, which I also practiced until January 22 of this year, and now, as a result of the tightening of the measures since then, I am no longer allowed to practice because I have a mask intolerance, which is now officially recognized, despite all the accusations against unvaccinated people, which I am also, I am confident that the inconsistencies must now come to light, as it must be clear to a thinking person that the very last red line must have been crossed here by now.
Where do I get this confidence from? I'm not a churchgoer - but as a child I spent a lot of time in our garden with my grandfather, who was 13, watching him and memorizing his few important sentences, and I have a basic trust that there is something higher.
At the age of 57, I am reorienting myself professionally. I want to do what I've been doing my whole life. I want to help people find their way out of mental crises. It would go too far to talk about that here.
The lady who is now living with her husband in a marriage she could never have imagined touches me and I can only say I feel the same way about my whole family. It seems like there are really only about 20% people who realize that they are being lied to.
There are certainly very different reasons for this suspicion. What they all have in common is the FEAR that is being stirred up, which triggers the many individual fears and which manifests itself in the most diverse constellations. All in all, it seems to me that we are witnessing a masterpiece of mass manipulation and, to be honest, I am not surprised. Only the speed at which things are happening is fascinating.
If it wasn't so bitterly serious, I would sit back and relax. However, after 42 years of working as an optician, I am affected. After an odyssey of 8 months, I have now won a settlement that was really unforeseeable. I am only allowed to talk about the content of the agreements in part.
I've had a lot of fear in my life as a woman socialized in the GDR who didn't conform. Here, however, it's such a real threat to my existence that I'm amazed that I'm still calm.
Over the past few months, I have also experienced interpersonal disappointments where I would never have expected them, just as I have had wonderful interpersonal experiences.
Now we are once again being shaken out of our apparent calm. I had just started to shape my future constructively, and now even higher hurdles seem to be piling up.
Despite everything, I remain calm and will not give up my inner clarity. However, I don't want my story to be published so that I don't become the focus of any attention. I just want it to be documented. I am well aware that there are many people who live in far more precarious situations, as I have seen it time and again in my job.
I simply cannot reconcile it with my dignity as a human being to be actively involved in these events. By that I mean that I see it as extremely critical - in this context - to be a follower. I couldn't forgive myself for it.
I hope that as the absurdity of what is happening becomes apparent, more and more people will finally understand that this is a political issue. The facts - economic facts - speak a very clear language.
Dear Mr. Langemann, people like you, Mr. Reitschuster, Mr. Kaiser, Mr. Jebsen, Ms. Guerôt, Mr. Bonelli, all those involved in the Corona Committee, the scientists who wrote the Great Barrington Declaration, people from my city who are part of the grassroots, a very well-connected doctor friend, ... and last but not least my best friend and people who have supported me mentally and otherwise... They all give me the strength to keep going.
When we are in love, we are not in fear. With this in mind, I wish us all, and you in particular, a peaceful and loving Christmas season, which we will experience with special awareness.
Thank you very much for your work.
Best regards from Weimar, Katharina Carl
Optician
when two or three are together in my name, then I am in their midst.
We are one big community and universally connected, the truth will come to light
all the love
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I am writing to you as a woman of the same age, but not currently in a relationship. I can empathize with your situation very well, also that you probably hardly know what to do.
I am in contact (partly professionally) with a lot of people and, as you can read here, most people feel the same way. At least in my circle of friends, I've also had my own experiences, fortunately not so many. In your case, the situation is exacerbated by your partner, truly a heavy package.
Unfortunately, it is almost impossible to change someone else, and the attempt is understandable. Ultimately, it is you who suffers more in the situation and may have to take action. After examining the possibilities and, above all, after examining yourself.
May I briefly tell you that I have completed my dream aging project (converting a ruined brickworks on Mallorca into a hotel) halfway through and, after more than 30 years on the island, I am moving to Canada. I bought land there a year ago and have since made some great connections.
None of this was there before...just a childhood dream.
Please have the courage to network and exchange ideas with like-minded people. There is often a great opportunity in seemingly tricky situations.
I keep my fingers crossed for you and send you my best regards
Heidi Zinnel
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Yes, it's sad and sobering when you realize that your partner thinks completely differently to you on this corona topic. But you can't force anyone to see things your way... I think it's important to have friends and acquaintances who you can talk to and who understand you. If you don't already have them, you should get together with like-minded people. Whether as a party or interest group or just privately. This often brings you closer to people you didn't know before. I think it's a time of renewal, also in the private sphere. And last but not least, you should be prepared to forgive in a partnership...
This bad phase will pass and then we should all treat each other well, perhaps even better than before the pandemic.
I wish you good luck and courage!
Dear Ms. Schmitz, thank you for your openness! I find it hard to imagine living with someone who is so manipulative. It is probably difficult to maintain respect. I can only say to you: keep respect for yourself, look for like-minded people, do things that make your heart happy! And stop trying to convince your husband. Perhaps make an agreement that neither of you will try to proselytize the other. Stay strong and send my best wishes! Christina S.
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I can also understand very well how you feel. I (54) am the only one in our family who is critical and unvaccinated. My husband (55) and my children (20 and 23) and my parents (74 and 81) believe the fairy tales that we are inundated with every day from morning to night in the mainstream media. I can't listen to this crap anymore; I very rarely turn on the radio. I record some movies on TV and only watch those. The rest of the program is unbearable. The lies and the diatribes against us unvaccinated people - simply unbearable!!!
I can't talk about this topic with my family - my children and my parents are totally blocked. My husband and I get into arguments when we do talk about the situation!
I prefer not to say anything about the so-called Ethics Council!
When I read yesterday (19.11.) about the threat of compulsory vaccination in Austria, I was horrified; it took me a long time to calm down. Today I saw pictures and a livestream from Vienna - that gives me courage and I am wholeheartedly grateful to the many people who are fighting for our rights.
On bad days I listen to music by Alex Olivari, e.g. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JzAqackKEow
That brightens my mood again; gives me confidence and hope.
Now I wish you and all of us the strength we need to get through every single day. I wish us the ability to take pleasure in the little things and the exchange with like-minded people.
Best regards
Lena
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
My husband and I are both against the vaccination. Unfortunately, we have had to watch our children (both over 30) get vaccinated in the last few weeks. Not to travel or anything like that, but to avoid annoying inquiries, follow-up questions, discussions and financial reprisals. For many, their livelihood depends on this decision. We could only talk about the subject cautiously anyway, as our arguments were immediately dismissed as untrue, that couldn't be, they would never do that. I have to be honest, when I was their age I had to watch an entire social order being abolished within 24 hours. Something I would never have thought possible. But this event solidified in me the idea that really ANYTHING ABOVE is possible. The idealism and belief in values has been lost to some extent. I have to stop myself from thinking about what I will have to experience in the next few years, because my children would like to start a family. All that remains for me is to find peace within myself and to face everything with love. Which has become more and more of a challenge over the last few months.
All the best Simone
Liebe Frau Schmitz mit Spannung und Aufmerksamkeit habe ich Ihren Brief an Herrn Langemann gelesen und kann mit Ihnen mehr als gut mitfühlen. Vorweg möchte ich sagen das ich kein Impfgegner bin, den Impfungen allgemein skeptisch gegenüber stehe und der covidimpfung im Besonderen. Ich schaue mir, im Gegensatz zu ihrem Mann, den Mainstream so gut wie gar nicht an und schon gar nicht ARD und ZDF. Was der ÖR Rundfunk abliefert hat mit dem gesetzlichen Auftrag fast nichts mehr zu tun. Es ist unerträglich wie die Protagonisten dieser Sender, Menschen die anders denken als sie es sich wünschen, diffamieren, verhöhnen, beleidigen und als irgendwelche „Leugner “ hinstellen. Die neue Sau die sie durchs Dorf treiben sind derzeit die Ungeimpften. Da wird gehetzt, diffamiert und beleidigt was das Zeug hält. Teilweise erfüllen Moderatoren und Kommentatoren schon ganz klar Straftatbestände und ich hoffe, das sich einige Juristen finden werden, die den nötigen Sachverstand besitzen um diesen Herrschaften juristisch zu begegnen. Es ist sehr traurig was das Coronaregiem aus den Menschen hierzulande und weltweit macht. Denn wer ein wenig über den eigenen Tellerrand hinaus schaut sieht das es in anderen Ländern nicht besser läuft. Wohl niemanden bezweifelt daß es Corona gibt, auch ich nicht. Ich bezweifle aber sehr wohl die ausgerufe Pandemie. Politik und Medien haben es zu verantworten dass die Spaltung der Gesellschaft bis hinein in die Familien getragen wird. Es ist in meiner Familie, meinem Freundeskreis nicht anders. Ich wünsche ihnen, Frau Schmitz, viel Kraft und Ausdauer und bleiben Sie ein gesunder und denkender Mensch. Mit freundlichen Grüßen S.R.
Dear Ms. Schmitz.
If your partner respects and values you, then he should give up his refusal to listen to your media and read the arguments in it. His blocking attitude is extremely childish and leads me to believe that you know your partner's tendencies. The bully is often simply insecure. Unsure of himself and all the more determined to stand up for a cause.
In my opinion, you should clearly state your conditions to him, namely to at least listen to your sources and arguments. He won't forgive himself anything and you will stay in contact with each other.
It's not about harmony or that they both find a solution to the problems that come from outside. It's about eye level. Pull the stubborn little head up to eye level.
Best regards
Klaus from the Rhineland
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
If you are mobile, I can only give you one tip: take a vacation from the German panic mentality, internationally mocked as German Angst, and go abroad, to the mountains. Not exactly to Austria, but I can recommend Zakopane in the High Tatras. Your husband will learn there that life goes on even with corona, at least if you are not constantly being driven into social suicide by politicians, scientists and journalists acting without a plan and without a goal, as well as large sections of the population.
Having spent more than half of 2021 in Poland on business, I know the situation there quite well. As predicted by Prof. Bhakdi (see video banned by Youtube and reinstated following a successful lawsuit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4KD_3igxz0k), Poland is developing a natural immunization through a much more sensible approach to the crisis. This is the only way to explain why restaurants, hotels, hairdressers and stores without 3G or even 2G are still freely accessible, masks are increasingly going out of fashion and the vaccination rate is considerably lower than in Germany and yet the incidence is significantly lower than here.
Of course, my tip assumes that your husband's rational thinking and actions have not already been completely thwarted by the panic mode that is becoming increasingly prevalent in our country. Unfortunately, the huge daily dose of brainwashing in our media has long since left its mark. Like us, you will be surprised at how far our neighboring country has come since it broke away from socialism, a socialism that we in Germany are increasingly drifting back into. And hopefully they will learn to live again.
Best regards
Roland Aßmann
ADDITIONAL INFO:
Poland is not the only country to move forward in the coronavirus crisis. Other countries have already emerged from the coronavirus crisis in a different way than our nation, which is stuck in a zero-coronavirus strategy that is failing across the board - see the UK: https://www.msn.com/de-de/nachrichten/welt/gro%C3%9Fbritannien-das-ziel-lautet-herdenimmunit%C3%A4t/ar-AAQWIkC?ocid=uxbndlbing
Es wird der Zeitpunkt kommen, an dem viele Länder der Welt Corona überwunden haben und wir „dank“ fehlender natürlicher Immunisierung nicht mehr an deren Welt teilhaben können und dürfen.
Excerpts:
„In Großbritannien gibt es kaum noch Einschränkungen des öffentlichen Lebens. Dafür fehlt auch die Mehrheit. Das Leben mit dem Virus scheint vielmehr Gewohnheit zu werden. In Großbritannien gilt seit dem 19. Juli die neue Freiheit, Corona-Pandemie hin oder her. Kein Lockdown, keine Kontrolle des Impfpasses, nicht einmal das Tragen einer Maske ist flächendeckend noch gesetzlich vorgeschrieben. 2G oder gar 2G plus gibt es hier nicht. “
„Dabei schwankt die Zahl der Neuinfektionen im Vereinigten Königreich um die 40.000 Fälle täglich. Am Donnerstag waren es 46.807 Neuinfektionen, eine Inzidenz von 395. Die Zahl der Todesfälle liegt zwischen 100 und 200 jeden Tag. Aber diese Zahlen werden von der Gesellschaft offenbar toleriert, zumal die höchste Inzidenz derzeit bei Kindern auftritt, die meist nicht schwer erkranken. In der Altersgruppe zwischen fünf und neun Jahren liegt sie bei 723. Bei Teenagern, die mittlerweile ebenfalls geimpft werden, liegt die Inzidenz bei 694.
And yet: Corona no longer dominates the headlines. The daily reports of high death rates are a thing of the past. It has now become normal for everyone to know someone who has been in bed with corona for a week or still has difficulty tasting properly. After all, almost one in ten people in the UK has already experienced the disease. The public are happy to live with the risk they think they can assess.
Life goes on
Die Hälfte der britischen Öffentlichkeit wäre deshalb auch dagegen, wenn ein neuer Lockdown verfügt würde. Sollte die Regierung im Winter wieder härte Maßnahmen verkünden wollen, wären laut einer YouGov-Umfrage 67 Prozent der Befragten lediglich dafür, wieder eine Maskenpflicht einzuführen. Auch für die Vorlage von Impfnachweisen in Nachtclubs und bei Großveranstaltungen gäbe es eine Mehrheit. Aber mehr auch nicht.“
„Eine Studie Ende Oktober ergab zudem, dass sich mittlerweile 10,3 Prozent der Menschen in Großbritannien mit der neuen Virus-Variante AY.4.2., einer Unter-Variante der Delta-Variante, infizieren, die zwar ansteckender ist, aber offenbar kaum Symptome verursacht. Im Prinzip könnte man sagen: Großbritannien hat fast Herdenimmunität erreicht, obwohl dies so explizit von der Regierung nicht ausgesprochen wird.“
As you can see, Ms. Schmitz, there are other places where you can get used to a normal life again, comparable to life before corona, and at the same time escape the German panic democracy of dehumanized politics. The coronavirus crisis shows why the freedom-loving, traditionally liberal British have turned their backs on the increasingly ideological EU.
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
ein riesiges Problem, für Viele . Der Riß geht durch Familien und Partnerschaften. Intelligenz und/oder Wissen scheint keine Rolle zu spielen. Selbst mein hochstudierter („Kulturwissenschaften“) Sohn hat nichts zur allgemeinen Coronoia bzw. zu den Besonderheiten von saisonalen Atemwegserkrankungen verstanden und ich habe (nach völlig unmöglichen Beleidigungen seinerseits) mit ihm gebrochen.
My wife and I have reduced the number of friends, with the result that the quality of life with those who remain has greatly improved. With regard to your marriage, your fearful and (ageist?) fact-resistant spouse should perhaps be made aware that he could or will lose you if he continues like this.
Best regards
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
es gibt sehr viele Menschen in einer ähnlichen Situation. Meine Erfahrung ist, selbst eigene Familie und ehemals engste Freunde sind Gefangene der Ängste die absichtlich von Politik und Medien verbreitet wurden und werden. Es sei hier an das „Panikpapier“ des BMI erinnert. So schlimm es ist, doch hier gilt wohl der Alte Spruch „aus Schaden wird man klug“. Auch wenn es der eigene Ehepartner ist der 100% konform ist, versuchen Sie nicht mehr ihn zu überzeugen, sie haben keine Chance. Bevor es nicht erste durch die „Impfung“ schwerst Kranke oder gar Tote Familienmitglieder, Nachbarn, Freunde, Kollegen gibt, werden unsere Mitmenschen nicht aus ihrer Angstpsychose finden.
Take care of yourself and network with other people who are affected. There are bright and critical people almost everywhere. Let your husband go to a 2G restaurant with friends wearing a mask and with a test; you meet like-minded people in private and cook delicious meals together. Stay in a good mood and surround yourself with normal people as often as possible. People who go along with the absurd measures and actively damage their health, whether through masks, reduced social contact, less exercise or experimental treatments, are under enormous mental and physical strain and lose their vitality. Surrounded by healthy, critical, alert fellow human beings, we will definitely survive this dark time much better than the mask zombies with vaccination subscriptions. In the end, the good will win.
I wish you all the best,
Best regards
MR
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
In my opinion, the way out of the pandemic really does lie in vaccination. But with a vaccine that has been developed, matured and extensively tested. Not a vaccine that has been brought along at random, politically shaped and waved through approvals.
You are not alone with your opinion and your problems, there are still so many people in this country who have their hearts in the right place and their brains switched on. Remain steadfast and try to persevere. Stay open to constructive discussions in good times and bad. I wish you lots of strength from the bottom of my heart.
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I had to cry when I read your post.
It's the same for me in my partnership (11 years; I'm 54, he's 59). He was always my dream man - and now it's all threatening to fall apart. Especially my image of him. When it comes to the C* issue, he's like he's been replaced...
It's terrible, and I've always thought like you. But it gets harder every day.
And it makes me hopeless that he doesn't want to hear any information - except ORF (which is the same crap in Austria as ARD and ZDF in Germany).
The gang of criminals who are playing this perfidious "game" will never be able to make up for these millions of divisions.
Nevertheless, if you can, stay in good spirits. I hope that the decisive piece of the puzzle will fall somewhere soon - and bring down the edifice of lies.
I don't know what will happen in the partnership. But I hope that things will get better again.
Yours sincerely
Barbara Roth
Dear Ms. Schmitz, thank you for the open lament, which shows how complex the effects are when fear takes hold and becomes a companion. This is probably the experience of many of our critical contemporaries who prefer to decide for themselves what they want to think and how they gain their convictions. It is almost maddening when you can no longer penetrate those walls with the best arguments and pure logic, but rather the impression arises that the mortar becomes harder with every well-intentioned factual argument. I read somewhere that it is almost impossible to reach the emotional areas of the brain with factual information when there is a state of alarm. Fear is one of the strongest emotions; it is not for nothing that it has been pumped into our brains since the Bergamo pictures, straining the finest nerve tracts, by willing media and opinion makers who want to retain power and stay in the game. I also had heated discussions at first and was often left stunned because the crystal-clear logic didn't catch on. Such discussions are probably pointless. That's why I decided to just listen and react on an emotional level with understanding for the person trapped in fear. He can't break out without wanting to. But more importantly, there is someone who can penetrate the walls. Mr. Langemann mentioned him in the biblical quote. And instead of giving in to my own personal escalation, I prefer to pray for those who are walled in. True to the motto: "I've had enough, I'm going to pray....." In such a long married life, such a situation is enormously challenging, but I can only recommend it. Give it a try. For it is also true: "Come to me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28) God bless you and keep you.
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I (70) feel the same way with my family. My wife (7 years younger) doesn't want to hear or read anything. My 3 daughters and my wife have been vaccinated, although I warned them urgently and am still very worried. If I didn't have a few upright friends, I could despair. I have already lost 2 old friends. But I keep getting back on my feet because there are so many like-minded people out there. So don't give up.
Kind regards Norbert Berg
Dear Bettina,
Vielen Dank für deine Worte. Du sprichst aus, was wir überall in unserem Umfeld beobachten und nur schwerlich verstehen können. Nun bin ich in einer ganz anderen Situation (Anfang 30, ledig und ohne Familie), doch auch ich erfahre diese „schachmatt“ Konstellationen in meinem Umfeld. Von einfacher Distanzierung unter Kollegen, über zerbrochene Freundschaften, zerstrittene Beziehungen bis hin zu hoch dramatischen Zwickmühlen, in denen inzwischen getrennte Elternteile genau gegensätzlich zur Impfung der gemeinsamen 11 und 13jährigen Kinder stehen… Es ist stellenweise einfach nur grausam!
It has been my experience, in order to keep my energy high, to avoid anything that deepens division. Instead, I try to look at the situation from a higher perspective so as not to run the risk of getting lost, like so many, in the contradictory details that obviously preoccupy and SHOULD divide us. Lectures by Daniele Ganser, for example, help me personally to better understand and categorize current events. To understand that no one can protect themselves from propaganda that reaches them through their eyes and ears, regardless of their level of education, because biology simply works that way. To understand which mechanisms are being played out and have been played out again and again in history. To realize that it has all been going on for 2000 years and that we are now experiencing it first hand.
A few years ago, my mentor once gave me the following advice, which I have been following to the best of my ability ever since (and especially in recent months):
Meet another person on the level of opinion, and you will find struggle.
Treat another person on the basis of love and you will find peace - at least your own.
All the love for you! Leon
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Your thoughts are to be fully understood. They are your thoughts and they belong to you, so accept them.
The only thing I would strongly advise you to do is to say goodbye to trying to change other people. If someone has made a decision, like your partner and you, accept it. Refusing to get out of the bubble confirms this kind of one-sided thinking, because it's easier to run with the herd than to struggle to find your own way. You are the one doing this. He wants to be a member of the herd. There are people who want to be told what to do and there are people who prefer to think for themselves.
These are difficult times for thinkers, but there are many. Stay on your path, look for like-minded people and don't work yourself up over people who don't want to hear your thoughts. This time brings out many character traits that we don't want to know. Unfortunately, we are experiencing them now.
I hope that you find your way in dealing with these people and stay close to yourself.
Best regards
Dr. Gabriele Helmhold- Schlösser
Dear Ms. Gabriele Helmhold-Schlösser!
My situation with my husband is exactly the same as Mrs. Schmitz.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your wise words .
Sometimes I manage not to mention this topic, but at the moment (I'm Austrian) I'm already affected as a non-vaccinated person. As soon as I mention it, I'm stopped, that's it, he doesn't want to hear another word. It's not okay.
Fortunately, I still have a few friends with whom I can talk and I enjoy making music, which helps me a lot.
So now I'm also trying to live with your good advice.
Thank you ❣️
God bless you and your family!
Yours sincerely
Anna Wattel-Leber
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Sie schildern eine Situation, die viele in diesem Land erleben. Wir, d h. mein Mann und ich,meine Tochter nebst Schwiegersohn und mein Sohn, sind uns zum Glück einig, aber im Bekanntenkreis kenne ich eine ähnliche Situation. Der Mann vollständig ‚auf Linie‘, informiert sich ausschließlich in den Mainstreammedien, verachtet alle anderen Quellen als ‚braunrechts‘. Seine Frau kommt nicht mehr an ihn ran. Auch sein Sohn nicht, der anders denkt. Ich muss sagen, möglicherweise nutzt die Impfung ab einem gewissen Alter mehr, als dass sie schadet. Ich würde die Entscheidung für oder gegen eine Impfung jedem selbst überlassen und die Entscheidung auf jeden Fall akzeptieren. Was ich gar nicht akzeptieren kann, ist der Druck, der aufgebaut wird und – wie mir scheint – die viel zu wenigen aufgezeigten Impfnebenwirkungen. Wie kann man da eine ausgewogene Entscheidung treffen? Fast scheint es doch, dass das gar nicht gewünscht ist, sondern impfen lassen ohne zu hinterfragen.
Unfortunately I don't have any advice for you, it's painful to have such completely different positions in a partnership and to find no understanding for the one you represent.
I sincerely hope that you find each other again!
Yours sincerely
Dagmar Wehleit
Dear Mrs. Schmitz
I feel completely with you, because I feel the same way with my wife.
I'm 45, my wife is 51 and it's the same dilemma. Just yesterday we swore to each other again that a p(l)andemia would not drive us apart, and yet even the most empathetic attempt on my part usually ends in arguments and a lack of understanding when I try to explain my refusal of the C vaccination.
It's not easy, I'm right there with you.
Best regards
Christian
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Don't let it get you down, because you are not alone. I can't say what role your husband's age plays.
I am sure that this tyranny will come to an end in the next few months because the vaccination breakthroughs and other side effects are slowly making people think. Unfortunately, it's happening very slowly but steadily. At least that's how I perceive it.
In my relationship I am also the unvaccinated one, but my partner is slowly becoming more critical and I am afraid for him because of the impending 3rd vaccination.
Stay strong, it will be worth it!
All the love
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Critical articles can also be found in the F.A.Z. from time to time. A few days ago I read there that 45 % of patients in intensive care units have been vaccinated, i.e. vaccine breakthroughs. I wonder if your husband accidentally missed that.
I fear that this proportion will increase rapidly over the next few weeks and then the view of many vaccinated people will also change bit by bit.
Give your husband the time he needs and don't put him under pressure with alternative media. As you know, pressure creates counter-pressure. He has to want it himself.
Sie schaffen das „in guten wie in schlechten Zeiten“.
Greetings from the Wiedtal
Hello Mrs. Schmitz,
I can see myself in your letter, I too (58 yrs). have a 78 year old husband who has been vaccinated twice and is always interested in the vaccine.
follows all the news and newspaper articles and reads them to me again and again to emphasize how important it all is.
My nerves are also more than frayed, including the fact that nothing can be done. Everyone asks are you vaccinated and if
If you deny this, you are treated like an outcast. Sometimes I wish I could finally wake up from this nightmare. I can see people
who can no longer withstand this pressure or even think of something much worse.
Kind regards
Helga
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I am so with you. You are not alone. Our situation is similar. We still have two children. Which is also difficult.
I understand you 100%. This stoking of fear is hard to bear.
My parents are also 1000% government compliant. So there are no more family celebrations. There is only panic and exclusion.
We have to take good care of ourselves and someone else doesn't. Take good care of yourself!
Best regards
Dear Ms. Bettina Schmitz
Ich schreibe aus der Schweiz! Ich kann mitfühlen, wie es Ihnen geht! Sie sagen Danke an die Informanten, welche die menschenverachtenden Massnahmen kritisieren. Ich dagegen, bin anderer Meinung! Warum erwähnen diese Medien nicht das Grundsätzliche? Die Virenexistenz ist eine von der Fata Morgana Schulmedizin modelliertes Virus, welches niemals existieren kann! Den Nachweis könnten diese Scharlatane, (Streeks, Kekulés und wie sie alle heissen), welche Wissen vorgaukeln, erbringen, denn die dafür notwendigen technischen Voraussetzungen sind vorhanden! Sie haben noch nie ein Virus gesehen, geschweige denn bei der „Infektionsarbeit“ beobachten können. Alles Hirngespinste, kein Medium geht auf diese Betrügerei ein.
The symptoms must therefore have other causes! The new and natural law medicine (Béchamp, Hamer, Lanka) explain that the symptoms are the result of the cleansing by the body's own regulatory systems (an immune system as a defense against invasions does not exist), which the charlatans recognize as a virus mentally, not with their eyes! It is about the path to a closed society, expropriation of freedom, self-determination and property)! This reality must be mentioned in connection with the measures that have been implemented.
Stand firm, for we are betrothed to life, but married to death, not by me, but true!
Mr. Langemann, may I give you and all interested parties my email address, because we still live with another much worse dogma, namely the payer (taxes, etc.), which also cannot exist!
Best regards from Switzerland, Georg Bender
That's right, Mr. Bender. You put it aptly.
The management of the citizen by the authorities is not obvious to many people, even educated ones.
The medical industry has outed itself as a mafia-like organization.
Liberal democracy has shown itself to be a cloak for corporatism.
The. Science as corrupt. The media as slutty.
The extent of the need for reform is so enormous that some contemporaries are mentally buckling, unable to develop. Stubbornness everywhere.
For my part, I have made up my mind: I want to develop intellectually until the end of my life and I also enjoy finding out how deep the rabbit hole is. I welcome anyone who inspires me and anyone who
should leave me alone who disturbs me.
I have radically left all my lazy acquaintances and relatives behind and enjoy every day that brings me fresh insights.
My lovely wife is my third marriage and we get along wonderfully.
Dear Mr. Bender,
Virus denial serves no one, especially in the current situation. As a fully trained general practitioner of many years plus naturopathy and a doctorate in immunology, I can only tell you that you are on the wrong track with Lanka, Hamer and Co.
It is of course true that Big Pharma, including the vaccination mafia, is calling the tune, scientific work is being frittered away, etc., but no one is served by throwing the baby out with the bathwater and falling for virus deniers.
I recommend stubborn virus deniers to go to Ebola epidemic areas, for example, and get infected or get polio (polio) damage that only exists among total vaccination opponents (I also reject about 50 % of the vaccinations offered on the market and consider the STIKO to be a lobby organization) or their children. Quote from wikipedia
“ Seit der Ausrufung des WHO-Eradikationsziels 1988 ist die Zahl der Fälle von damals noch jährlich 350.000 in 125 Ländern weltweit um 99 % gesunken, und nur die drei Länder Afghanistan, Pakistan und Nigeria waren bis dahin nie erregerfrei.[16] In Deutschland erfolgte die letzte Ansteckung mit Polio 1990. Die letzten eingeschleppten Infektionen wurden 1992 registriert. In den USA gab es im Jahre 1979 in den Bundesstaaten Iowa, Wisconsin, Missouri und Pennsylvania einen Ausbruch ausschließlich unter den strenggläubigen Amischen. Ein erneuter Ausbruch wurde im Oktober 2005 ebenfalls nur bei Anhängern dieser Glaubensgemeinschaft in Minnesota gemeldet. In Westeuropa ereignete sich im Jahre 1992 in den Niederlanden die letzte Polio-Epidemie. Dort waren Mitglieder fundamentalistisch-calvinistischer Gemeinden betroffen, welche, wie die meisten Amischen ebenfalls, Impfungen aus religiösen Gründen ablehnten und weiterhin ablehnen.“
Best regards
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
I can fully understand your resentment. It is sad how we are being played off against each other at the moment. This is only possible because the majority of media diversity, presumably by force, only allows one direction. Anyone who does not conform to this is seen as the enemy.
It is sad that so many people allow themselves to be carried away by this. It would be so important for us to listen to our inner voice.
Unfortunately, it is not yet clear where the journey will take us. As long as I don't know, I won't be taking part (voluntarily).
I think the world is changing and they don't want to take us with them into this new world.
I wish you a lot of strength and perseverance. Forgive the people who love you and who no longer want your love because you are not vaccinated. You have been cleverly manipulated.....
Best regards
Wolfgang
Dear Mrs. Schmitz, I am so sorry, just know that you are not alone. I know of so many partnerships in which you suddenly learn who you really married. Our circle of friends, who we always thought were critical-thinking, well-informed, intelligent and tolerant people, has 90% diminished. We call them Covid Nazis, fanatical, completely deluded, information resistant and incredibly intolerant. We live in the USA, it's the same worldwide. Get connected! There are many, many more sighted people than you might think. We used to have a traditional goose dinner with 12 friends at home every year. In 2020 it was canceled and this year it took place again, with 12 new friends! All unvaccinated, all on their way to building a new life, it was wonderful. I wish you new friends with all my heart, lots of courage and steadfastness. Once you've seen it, you can't look away.
Best regards !
Dear Ms. Ina Sievert
If one can assume that this world war for a closed society was staged by the USA and organized by Germany, then the partners have found each other again!
It is right to make new friends, but for how long? If sane people don't manage to get the train that has been derailed since spring 2020, separating the chaff (state officials) from the wheat (sane people) back on the rails in a timely manner, the journey to hell will continue! I feel reminded of the history lessons of the 3rd Reich!
Best wishes from Switzerland
Da haben Sie sicher Recht. Wir bilden Gemeinschaft, diskutieren mit den Freunden unserer Kinder (die fast alle keinen Schimmer haben, was da wirklich laeuft) und planen die Zukunft. Ich empfehle Friedman „The Storm before the Calm“. Was ich Frau Schmitz sagen wollte, ist, dass wenn man neue, gleichgesinnte, denkende Freunde findet, der Alltag wieder ertraeglicher wird, und waehrend man absolut gegen das grosse Ganze kaempfen muss, Freunde sind Balsam fuer die Seele.
All the best!
Dear Ms. Ina Sievert
The test market is Australia, where you can no longer meet friends as an unvaccinated person!
Nevertheless, my hope lies in the USA. In contrast to Europe, the legal system still seems to function, but whether it can be achieved without bloodshed is not for me to judge!
We can now experience the answer to the question of how Hitler was able to spread his power. Thank you very much (satire)!
Dear Ms. Sievert,
It's great to read that you've made new friends. That gives me hope. It's getting worse and worse for me, especially as there will be another lockdown here (Bavaria). The Christmas markets have just been set up and are now canceled. So cruel... And everything is being blamed on the unvaccinated. The hatred is increasing. It looks to me as if they want to push through compulsory vaccination.
My circle of friends has also been greatly reduced as a result, as it was years ago when my chronic illness (exhaustion syndrome triggered by a vaccination) became more and more apparent.
How did you make new friends?
I would be very happy if you could give me some advice.
Many thanks and best wishes to you,
Mona
Yes, I imagine it to be terrible, certainly rather unbearable, when the rift in a partnership is caused by views on different opinions, events and social issues and there is no willingness to compromise! You can always disagree and you don't have to side with your partner on all these things and issues, but it's always better if you can find a way to look each other in the eye without snubbing the other person. A relationship on the kind of basis that Ms. Bettina Schmitz has to have,
stelle ich mir lieber erst gar nicht vor. Das muss die „Hölle“ sein. Gut dass wir in unserer Beziehung anders ticken: gleiches Interessen auf fast alles Gebieten; oft der gleichen Meinung in gesellschaftliche und auch in politischen Bereichen, da lebt es sich leichter und harmonischer miteinander. Und dort, wo der einzelne anders denkt: Tolleranz, Abwarten und Verzeihen. Zu gegebener Zeit, wenn Ergebnisse zu den strittigen Fragen vorliegen, dann kann man über sein Irren reflektieren und wieder zusammen finden. Frau Schmitz muss sich Gleichgesinnte suchen bei denen sie geistige Erfüllung findet, sonst leidet sie weiter!
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Thank you for your frank words. My circle of friends has also become polarized. And let me put it this way: each and every one of them who does not differentiate in their thinking and even rushes to action on corona-related political issues has fallen so far in my esteem because I find it so intellectually - I almost have to say - disgusting and morally despicable that I am no longer sure whether I would still call it friendship on my part or not just acquaintance, which I appreciate and address for selected issues, but no longer as a person in its entirety.
If my partner behaved like yours, I would probably have already left him. Because I think a lot of character can be recognized by the way thinking takes place in this "crisis". And in my case, more people have failed this test of character than I thought. Admittedly, at my mid-30s, I find it easier to write this than you, Ms. Schmitz, who is twice as old but can no longer make such flexible decisions in her partnership. So I can only speak for myself: I would break up with my girlfriend if she was like your husband. But as a man in my mid-30s, I can easily find a new one. How it works for you as a woman in your mid-60s is a different question in many respects.
Best regards
Theodor Wuppano
Dear Ms. Schmitz,
Thank you for your frank words. My circle of friends has also become polarized. And let me put it this way: each and every one of them who does not differentiate in their thinking and even rushes to action on corona-related political issues has fallen so far in my esteem because I find it so intellectually - I almost have to say - disgusting and morally despicable that I am no longer sure whether I would still call it friendship on my part or not just acquaintance, which I appreciate and address for selected issues, but no longer as a person in its entirety.
Würde mein Partner sich verhalten wie der Ihrige, ich hätte ihn wohl schon verlassen. Denn an der Art und Weise, wie in dieser „Krise“ Denken stattfindet, lässt sich glaube ich viel Wesen erkennen. Und in meinem Fall sind mehr als gedacht durch diese Charakterprüfung gefallen. Ich schreibe das mit Mitte 30 freilich auch leichter als Sie, Frau Schmitz, die doppelt so Alt freilich partnerschaftlich nicht mehr so flexible Entscheidungen treffen kann. Daher kann ich nur für mich sprechen: Ich würde mich von meiner Freundin trennen, wäre sie so drauf wie Ihr Mann. Aber: Als Mann Mitte 30 finde ich leicht wieder eine neue. Wie es sich für Sie als Frau Mitte 60 gestaltet, ist da eine in vielen Hinsichten eine andere Frage.
Best regards
Theodor Wuppano
Dear B. Schmitz
I don't want to carry owls to Athens.
1. we cannot change our partners
2. it changes if and when it changes
3. Wenn eine Beziehung destruktiv wird, können und „müßten“ Sie sich jederzeit trennen, wenn Sie davor Ihre Ferraris gut aufgeteilt haben. Ob bei ein oder vierzig Jahren Ehe.
4. please study the allegory of the cave by the Greek philosopher Plato. Plato explains the world and how humans function. So we can understand what is happening today and what has always happened.
5. believe in God and believe in yourself (entrance to the Temple of Apollo in Delphi-Greece (beautiful): Know thyself (outside) and you realize that you are God (inside)